The day that was....1

A  positive attitude is like
a fire: unless you
continue to add fuel, it
goes out -
 Alexander Lockheart

I dont know that dude alexander lockheart ,but  i do understand what he has said about positive attitude,in fact he has answered my questions.I have always tried to live with a positive attitude ,but never been able to sustain it over a long period because i keep forgetting to be positive.

This past week has been good i have worked more than i usually do. Its like this right now "i am learning to work" once i do that "i will learn THE WORK".Being a lawyer in a small town or big town is a tedious thing , i am still trying to adjust to the work ethic of a lawyer ,its job which is pretty much 24x7. Also slowly but gradually the skin is getting alittle bit thicker,well we need that thick skin to survive.That reminds me of a conversation i had with my friend laya last night( conversation??? i pretty much do all the talking) and she asked a very good question, she asked "Would you handle the case of a person who you know to be a criminal?" my answer was simple, since she was a medical student i asked her back "would you doctors treat a guy who know to be a criminal and a menace to society?" ( they dont call us lawyers for nothing..hehehe) but i guess that question pretty much answered it. The problem  rather the irony is that  99ust an exaggeration ,but majority) of the population isnt aware of the laws that govern them and they maintain this illiteracy untill they are in soup themselves or some loved one of theirs is in soup.Such is the state of affairs everywhere....and people i noticed are really clueless as to how a court functions and what are their basic rights as citizens of this country....WAKE UP ALL..!!!!.

Yesterday,i went to vizag to represent a new client of ours in the Family court there, poor chap his wife filed a case against him.Well, to be fair i ought to confess that i know only his side of the story, apparently when marrying the lady the fact that she had a congenital problem i.e she was born without an uterus was hidden from him and also he suspected that she was very generous with her love. Would there be justice for this guy for whom the continuance of his geneology is so very important???

What is justice??? well, justice as i understand is that the judge should listen with an open mind which is inbiased  to both the parties involved in a dispute and after hearing both their versions and seeing all the evidence decide what is right and wrong.The reality is quite different as we all are humans including the judges and hence the totally 100nbiased mind is impossible,because all our actions as humans are based on the data base of our past experiences and our knowledge of the world uptill then.So in the above mentioned case the judge being a lady and to add to it she is a lady who herself couldnt bear kids,if a guy approaches and says "your honour, i want to divorce my wife because she cant have progeny" will defnitely lose the case on that ground because the judge's mind will be biased towards that guys wife because the judge can think for herself and see that just because someone cant have kids (the pain of which she knows from experience) doesnt mean they cant have a marriage.So in order to get justice or a decision in his favour the guy should put it that "he was cheated due to the active concealment of the congenital disorder or deffect prior to the marriage'", now this is more clear and hence it is differentiated from infertility(which could be the man's or woman's problem).Well ,its all about how you present the truth, i've always believed there is a WAY OF ASKING ANYTHING, the samething when asked in different ways elicites different responses from the individual , when asked in one way you could end with the a slap in the face , in another way you could get yes or a polite no for an answer ,in another way it could oh yes you are so understanding......and all the time you ve been saying the samething.Met some of my law classmates in the court there,it was good.