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Age: 29
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17 May 06 Wednesday 6:59 AM

Current mood:  crazy
Category: Life

everything that glitters is not gold....

Sorry people if you are getting tired of my cyncism and contstant whys???? and all those question marks ,but i cannot seem to help myself...lol....bitching about the world and life in general seems to be fun,but then in the same breath i try to think of myself as a positive person,hmmmm...i got to soemhow convince myself that these rambling are positive...wll being a lawyer i guess i can convince myself.hehehe.

Today was a dull boring day and most part of it i was gaurding the house since all the others were away,was watching tv .".that most passive of all entertainment,where all you got to do is switch of ur brains and just become a vegetable and that mighty instrument called a telly entertains you with its flickering glow"- calvin n hobbes.Ok now to the point about racism, today my mum and sis went to attend a function ,acutually the naming ceremony of my second cousin's new born daughter,she must be around 21 days old.Well mom got back from that "do" and she was telling about the happenings there and she happened to mention that how everybody i.e all the tom,dick and harry and jane,jill and all and sundry who attended the function it seems where bothered or were speculating the baby's skin colour and they seemed to think she was dark skined .On hearing this i was.................................................during that pause  i was pulling my hair and wondering why cant people grow up a little .

Hey!!!! this is a very sad scenario in our country ,this empahsis on fair skin, just pick up any major newspaper and look at the matrimonial columns and we will know what i am speaking of .Maybe all this obsession for fairer skin if not totally white atleast lighter shades of brown,is a colonial thing which rubbed on to us,and we still stink of it.We should change our attitudes,well calling ourselves racists will be too hard on us i guess ,but then we seriously need to look beyond the colour.Well at least some people are smart to make aneat tidy profit from all this sillyness of ours,the cosmetic majors,yeah!!!! in india we have this ridiculous market called  THE FAIRNESS CREAM MARKET  if you think that sounds ridiculous  then check out the adverts/commercials for them, they stink - like guys sneaking into girls dorm to steal their fairness cream and then the company makes a new fairness cream for the guys too, or a girl doesnt get job/married/life because she aint fair complexioned and hence life is not fair to her...arghhhhhhhhhhhh thats how jarring they are on my nerves.Wonder where all the women's lib ladies are when they watch this crap.

WELL ALL I CAN SAY IS WE ARE SILLY NOT RACIST....

 

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mashee

 

the way you write ur blog entry loads it with humor...tnx for the laugh!

Ofcourse the baby is dark-skinned, she's indian! I find those who commented on her skin color as crazy, not just silly.

Attaining fair/white skin has been a constant pursuit by many  in my country too, women especially. And I think it is a response to  media ads that successfully injected that criteria for beauty...with manufacturers of these fairness products  usurping millions!

a deviant as i may appear to be, i have been testing skin darkening lotions but the tan tint on my skin could last for only 2 days

But for we know, beauty isn't skin-deep....therefore, whether its black, white, yellow. brown or even blue or green (as ETs if ever they really exist) one should look deeper into the person to discover each peculiar beauty. By the way, are ETs considered persons?


 
Posted by mashee on 17 May 06 Wednesday - 3:28 AM
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Well put, Mashee ! Beauty isnt just skin-deep. What is there in the shade of a skin?...afterall the blood that runs beneath that white, brown or black skin is still the same color..isint it ? Wonder when people will come out of this stupidity ? Again, it is all easily said than done..for instance, would we be personally very happy , if the child that we give birth to is really dark, or Sai..a question for you..would you really be happy to get married to a girl who is on the darker side..that is, inspite of her inner beauty, if she is still dark and average looking, would your folks or yourself readily accept the proposal ??? A question to ponder..hunh?
 
Posted by on 17 May 06 Wednesday - 8:08 AM
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mashee

 

me giving birth to a dark skinned babe?

hey kala if sai sires my child then there's a big probabality that the baby gets a big share of his genes including a darker skin tone and a lot of humor in his guts! these traits are quite lovable and I don't mind having a dark kid who could afford me a lot of food for the soul.


 
Posted by mashee on 18 May 06 Thursday - 5:42 AM
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sai

 
well kala you havent totally stumped me,as for marrying a girl on the darker side ,yes i dont mind,but then people can gorgeous and pleasant in darker tones too,look at all those african beauties, what i look for in a woman ,i mean physically is /are pleasant features.And hell no i am not looking for an Aishwarya rai or a naomi campbell, all i want is a pleasant somebody looking as bad ..or as good as me..heheheh it aint much to ask is it????
 
Posted by sai on 18 May 06 Thursday - 4:57 AM
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ronald
ronald madrid

 
we're a whole country of michael jacksons! everybody wants to be white!

kidding aside, this is an excellent post man!

 
Posted by ronald on 18 May 06 Thursday - 7:37 AM
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