|
dimanche, août 24, 2008 7:04
 |
Humeur actuelle :  en éveil
ARE YOU GREEDY AND A DEADBEAT MAN LOOKING FOR GAIN?
THIS IS MY STORY OF WHAT WOMEN NEED TO LOOK AT AND SEE THE TRUTH OF WHAT MANY MEN HAVE BECOME IN THIS DAY AND TIME:
I recently met a man that I thought that I was interested in, but it turned out to be the same old thing about people that are just users and nothing else. This man did not asked me out or do a thing for me, and if he did do something for me, I had to ask him too. I was so sad to see a grown man ask worst than a child or a infiltrated persons that has never wanted to do anything for anyone else but himself. How can a person live with them self and be like that? How can a man even call himself a man and is just a punk. We talk about deadbeat dad's, well; this blog is about deadbeat men! I don't know if this person really knows what they are doing or if they are just focus on what they want. I am not even talking about this to put him down or to vent or talking because I an angry about why he did the things he did, which really was nothing at all, but kindergarten spirit, with no love at all. I have to say that is so sad to me!
I listen to this man talked for hours about himself and I would interject just so that I could really see if this man was about something or was just full on mind games because he thought that he was so smart, when he really is a mind game player with an greedy needs and wants! I have seen this so many times and for him not to be a young man it is even sadder to me. He reminds me of a homeless person without a heart or soul, with the ability to think only about what he wants in life. He is a victimizer at best with many great talents that he is not using, and wants everyone he meets to think that he is greater than gold. I am special is what his heart and mind keep screaming to himself. Look at me I am special, see me I am special, want me I am special. love me first and I'll love you back, is how his love feels, and mind you I may be totality wrong and if I am I will live with that. But, this blog is for you brothers that are dogs and don't care about anything but yourself.
I have met many men in my 49 years and never have I met someone that is so greedy, needed, ill mannered, lazy, critical, judgment and black hearted as this person is; but maybe he just has never been taught, or maybe he just a player looking for gain, a bad player at that. Men when you cannot pick up a glass when someone offers you water you need help. When you cannot have a conversation with anyone where you just talk about yourself, you need help. Men when you cannot think about nothing but how cute this girl is or that girl is I can show off to my friends you need help. Men when you cannot do anything for anyone else you need help. Men when it to hard for you to give, you need help. Men if you love your body more than you love your woman you need help. Men when all of your thoughts are just about you in your head you need serious help. This is followed by she is this what can I get, she is sweet I can use her, she is nice I can mess over her, she is kind I can make her weak...etc. Is this what you have to offer to the world and be a man a real man about yourself? I don't think so! But, if you don't change your ways, you will be empty and all alone a long time! I pray that you get help!
Here is a list of things that a deadbeat man needs to learn to do:
1. Stop the drama about your life and care about some one else with fear of being hurt.
2. Practice making sacrifices for someone else other than your self.
3. Find some one that you can trust and tell them what is really in your heart.
4. Stop thinking about how good looking you are or how good you are and become better than all good is.
5. Tell the truth and stop shaking and faking.
6. Ask for feed back from others and what they think about you.
7. Search your own soul for goodness.
8. Treat others like you want to be treated and not what they give you.
9. Practice being considerate of others and their feels before you think about your own.
10. Don't just let someone continue to give to you without you giving to them.
Let me tell you deadbeat men out their this:
When you get old and their is not one friend in your life you will wished you had gotten help. When you are all alone and have destroyed everything you touched you will die alone. When you are on your dying bed and wished that you would have done something different in your life at least once you will wished you had gotten help. When you look into the mirror at yourself more than a woman does, because you look your self you will wish that you had gotten help! Let me say this and I am thru, you can know everything and nothing at all. You can think you are the greatest and really, you are like deadbeat bones. You can know all knowledge and have not done nothing with it but destroy love that your dead heart wants but you are to scare to give. You the good book says you are exactly what you put inside of you and if that is the best that you can do, I can respect that more than a greedy, selfish, needed man that is all about gain. If you men do not think that a woman can see this, you are tricking yourself into believing your own lies.
What was even sadder is that this person needed money has been talking about his rent and his cell phone being cut off, and complaining about not having gas money in his car and losing his job and etc. I decided to take him out to eat, and we went out to eat and I paid for it and I didn't have a problem with that. I had a problem with him caring about his dog and interrupting some major things I was doing that made me feel that he cared more for his dog than he did for me. After we ate, we ran some errands and when we stop at this one store, a what looked look a homeless woman asked me if I had enough money for a loaf of bead. I have seen this woman before and when I am helping somebody, and talking to them and they are talking to me that is between that person and me. Therefore, we walked into the store together and they were out of bread. I bought what I went in to there to buy and forgot all about the bread when I saw they did not have any. I the meantime the homeless woman went outside and waited for me to come out of the store. I was about to get in the car when she said, "did you have enough?"
I said, "Oh, let me check"
I pulled out my purse and looked into my wallet and I said, "Did you want to buy a beer too?"
She said, "Yes!"
I said, "How much do you need?"
She said, "three dollars should be enough."
I gave her three dollars and some change, suddenly this I was with jump up out of the car and said to the homeless woman said, "Sista girl if you don't buy that loaf of bread, I am going to pray a cruse down on you." The homeless women mumbled under her breathe and walk away across the street. The traffic was so backed up that it took a few minutes to get out of the parking lot. When I got in the car he said, "You know I have seen that woman and she doesn't want to buy a loaf a bread, she wants to buy a beer.
I said, "You know God said that the poor will always be with us. We are responsible for taking care of their them that means their hunger, sadness and joy and whatever it takes to make them happy." I looked to the side of the road and that same woman was urinating on the ground. I said, "See look she is peeing on the ground." Now mind you this man has not given me a dollar, and we have had several dates. He had the nerve, to start complaining about how much of a player this homeless woman was.
I could see right thru him, and I said, "You know you never know what anyone else is going thru or how hard their life is, see look that woman is peeing on the ground." He apologized to me for what he said, but if he was really, a man about himself he would of apologized to that woman too.
I thought, "that woman, she didn't have a bathroom to go too, or a warm home and bed to sleep in and this man is worried about her buying herself a beer!"
That made my heart grow ice cold towards him, and I thought, "what if I needed help would he treat me the same way?" Cuss me out because I am in need and I want a beer to enjoy myself, because I am in pain and hopeless right now?" I thought, I could be that woman and in the same predicament she is in and would he do the same thing to me?" I thought, "What if I got sick, or if I were hungry, or if I need some kind of help, all you would do is complain about helping someone for asking me not you but me, if I had enough money for a loaf of bread," and you reacted like that! It was so sad and I know that everyone needs help now and then. However, people do you see the moral of this story? This man, has not done nothing, but take what ever I gave and I gave to see what he would take and he has turn out to be the one that God needs to work on and not the homeless woman. But, if I never would have given her that little bite if money, I may not of seen that man acted the way he did. Now, I can put him out of my life and see what God sends me next. That woman asked a question, and was not begging, if I was not going to give her any money I would have said so and she would have gone on about her way. But, since I did, God showed me the true face of this man and because I gave this homeless woman a few dollars in those few minutes really, she was the one that blessed me. This has made me change how I feel about this man and to know that he may do me the same way was too much for me to go out with him ever again. I am the one that got the blessing. When I see her again, I am going to thank her, and thank God, for letting me see the truth. What do you think? God bless her. Amen.
I pray that all deadbeat men get a life and be a man about himself! I pray that deadbeat men get all what they give and more. I pray that deadbeat men do more than any good thing ever has. I pray that God help your mind, body, soul, heart, spirit and actions and will to be more than He ever was. I pray that all of you deadbeat men help the love of God more than God did! Amen!
DiLinda
Please read part two of this story.
Optimisé par  | | Anglais | | Albanais | | Arabe | | Bulgare | | Catalan | | Chinois | | Croate | | Tchèque | | Danois | | Néerlandais | | Estonien | | Philippin | | Finnois | | Français | | Galicien | | Allemand | | Grec | | Hébreu | | Hindi | | Hongrois | | Indonésien | | Italien | | Japonais | | Coréen | | Letton | | Lituanien | | Maltais | | Norvégien | | Polonais | | Portugais | | Roumain | | Russe | | Serbe | | Slovaque | | Slovène | | Espagnol | | Suédois | | Thaï | | Turc | | Ukrainien | | Vietnamien |
|
|