I got some interesting messages from a pissed off PTer. There were actually two conversations going on at the same time, so this is Part 1.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: SICKNPINK
Date: Mar 24, 2007 3:57 PM
Erin....do you realize that the "person" you are referring to (QJ) OUTTED ME. First and Last Name on that particular blog. She also accused my husband of having an affair. AND THIS WOMAN HAS NO IDEA ABOUT ME OR MY LIFE.
SHE ALSO started her OWN BLOG and on there told Tracy (owner of PT) to shove it up her butt. Nice huh?
SO ERIN, if we seem, bitter, childish, etc. it is because NOBODY, BUT NOBODY STANDS FOR OUTTING people on the SAME SIDE. PERIOD.
Please take me off your friends list. Apparently you don't see the severity of what you are talking about.
From: erin
Date: Mar 24, 2007 8:55 PM
She was one of the childish ones I was talking about. I didn't see that you had outed anyone so I don't think you are childish. I was talking more about the pinkandproud incident and the Me and Tracy thing.
I think I covered the fact that outing people in retaliation is not OK. Did you read the entire blog? There are some crazy people out there. Personally, I think it is so serious that even if I were "outed" I wouldn't do it back to the person just because I would feel HORRIBLE if someone went after them.
As far as telling Tracy to shove it up her butt, I don't really care about that. I'm sure Tracy doesn't either. She seems like that kind of person can defend herself quite well. She didn't feel the need to publicly call her out about it. Why everyone else seems to think Tracy needs defending is beyond me.
I do have a question for you, if you don't mind. Why do you care that she accused your husband of anything? If she doesn't know anything about you, what difference does it make? I guess I try to put myself in situations like this, and it just wouldn't bother me if some stranger came out of no where and said that about my husband.
Finally, I do have some advice even if you don't want it. The whole PT vs. Pro MK situation is out of control. I understand that you are very involved in this little world, but seriously, there are more important things. Take a month off, then go back with fresh eyes. Both sides have crossed the line when it comes to the personal attacks. Period. I don't care who did what first, or said what first, or anything else.
I'm glad you found my blog. I was hoping you'd put two and two together
From: SICKNPINK
Date: Mar 24, 2007 9:04 PM
I read quite enough to know what you were saying - thank you.
We repsect Tracy, therefore we defend her. Plain and simple. It's too bad you carry NO LOYALTIES for any of your friends.
YES! Tracy does care -- QJ has been banned from the blog, chat and forum.
YES! Tracy did blast QJ in the chatroom...read the nasty e-mail QJ sent to Tracy.
NO THANK YOU. I do NOT take advice from someone I read quite enough to know what you were saying - thank you.
We repsect Tracy, therefore we defend her. Plain and simple. It's too bad you carry NO LOYALTIES for any of your friends.
YES! Tracy does care -- QJ has been banned from the blog, chat and forum.
YES! Tracy did blast QJ in the chatroom...read the nasty e-mail QJ sent to Tracy.
NO THANK YOU. I do NOT take advice from someone who can't even "own up to who they are and have to use fake names everywhere they go."
AND FURTHERMORE, why would you want me on your "friends" list just so you can humiliate me?
From: erin
Date: Mar 24, 2007 9:45 PM
So you didn't read the whole thing? It's sad that you are forming your opinion without all of the information. What exactly have I done that offended you? I really don't get it.
From: SICKNPINK
Date: Mar 24, 2007 9:56 PM
YES! What part of this do I not understand?
The shit is really hitting the fan over there. Apparently a long time poster and supporter of the PT blog has been ousted from the group. She told the story on her own blog, but sadly took that post down and replaced it with another that wasn't nearly as mean and didn't name names. Another blog has posted quotes and is openly making fun of her in the most retarded way I've ever seen.
Long time fan? QJ? HARDLY! She caused more trouble behind the scenes than YOu will EVER KNOW about. But that is just like you isn't it? SPOUTING OFF WHEN YOU KNOW NOTHING.
OPENLY MAKIING FUN OF HER IN RETARDED WAYS?????????????? ERIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Again, I tried QUIETLY BEHIND THE SCENES TO GET HER TO STOP OUTTING ME. Trust me this wasn't the first time.
WHAT MORE COULD I DO TO GET MY POINT ACROSS?
Educate me...as you have stated before YOU FEEL I have NO LOGIC.
From: erin
Date: Mar 24, 2007 10:02 PM
I didn't say you had no logic. I said that particular argument wasn't logical. It was in no way a personal attack.
She wasn't a fan? I'm sure she thought she was even if she did start trouble. I guess it was the "long time" part that you don't agree with? I said that because obviously all the regulars knew her. If you play out the dramas in a public forum, people are going to form opinions about what's going on.
I thought the "cluck" remarks were retarded. If you don't like the word retarded I'm sorry. I don't own a thesaurus, and I'm not real bright.
From: SICKNPINK
Date: Mar 24, 2007 10:16 PM
You didn't answer my question...since DUH thinks she is SO DAMN SMART how much BETTER would you have handled things behind the scenes? I tried my level best to handle things genuinely and kindly with her.
Yeah, you're not real bright....that's an understatement.
And you are right. People certainly DO have an opinion of YOU!
LOOK: I'm onto you. I know this is ONE BIG GAME FOR YOU. I don't play games.
So listen up everybody. SickNPink ain't playin' games! She's also a little paranoid (cha cha cha). Stay tuned for Part 2!!