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January 2, 2009 - Friday 

Current mood:  blessed
I guess I should start off by saying:

Gina is one of the most amazing people I've had the opportunity to know in this crazy journey. She's kind, has a huge heart, is always up for anything fun, and she has always been there for me when I needed her. She's one of my best friends and I would do anything for her. Joe, Gina's husband, compliments her to a 't'. He has a smile on his face every time I see him, and he has a way of making you laugh out loud even if you don't want to. I felt so honored to be in her wedding, and then to be a bridesmaid...I didn't know what to say.

As I was standing with the other girls, I thought about all the crazy good times I've had with her. All the talks we've had. All the secrets we've shared. I was realizing how important she was to me. And then I looked at Joe and thought of how perfect he was for her and how happy they're going to be. And then thought...if he does something, I'll kick him where it hurts! I'm pretty sure I thought all of that within a few seconds.

But as the church doors opened, and she was standing there staring at the man she loved, I couldn't help but cry. The sparkle that was in her eye was undeniable. She never took her eyes off him. Not once. That in itself was amazing. And the fact that these two phenomenal people found each other...was breathtaking.

After a couple tears, some wedding photos, and numb feet, we were off to the reception. And that's where the party started. Actually, no, it started on the bus. THAT'S where it started. Anyway, it was beautiful. Tons of friends and family, great dinner, and "clinking of glasses". But, you know Gina, she likes things different, instead of 'clinking', the whole table had to stand up and sing a love song! You guys know how that went. Lots of singing. I sang Gina and Joe's first dance. No pressure right!?! I sang a version of I Wanna Hold Your Hand, and they were in their own little world. Gliding across the floor like they were the only ones there. And to them, they were. Gina danced with her father to My Girl, sang by Jay and Sharlotte (one of the backrounds on AI). Then Gina got up and sang I Hope You Dance for Joe and his mom. I cried...again. I missed hearing her sing.

After dinner, some toasts, and a very entertaining slideshow. The wedding was over and the New Years party started. It was a blast! Joe's band Then Again played. Everyone was on the dance floor within seconds! It continued like that until it was time to countdown. Then...BAM!!!! It was 2009.

The day started at 8:30 am and didn't stop until 2 am today! I spent the night ringing in the new year with some friends I loved and and my mama. In freezing Chicago. That's love. What better way to spend New Years Eve than with loved ones though, right?

I realized what was really important. I know I've talked about this more than a dozen times, but what's one more? I'm so happy I have a roof over my head, a family that loves me, friends that love me and a God who's love is never failing. So, to 2009, I say I welcome you with open arms. If those things are all I have this next year...I'll be happy. Everything else is a bonus.

So, here's to you, Gina and Joe. Always. I love you.




PS
Gina sang this song, and I found it true for this new year and new beginnings. :)

I Hope You Dance-Lee Ann Womack

I hope you never lose your sense of wonder
You get your fill to eat
But always keep that hunger
May you never take one single breath for granted
God forbid love ever leave you empty handed

I hope you still feel small
When you stand by the ocean
Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens
Promise me you'll give faith a fighting chance

And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance
I hope you dance

I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Living might mean taking chances
But they're worth taking
Lovin' might be a mistake
But it's worth making

Don't let some hell bent heart
Leave you bitter
When you come close to selling out
Reconsider
Give the heavens above
More than just a passing glance

And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance
(Time is a real and constant motion always)
I hope you dance
(Rolling us along)
I hope you dance
(Tell me who)
I hope you dance
(Wants to look back on their youth and wonder)
(Where those years have gone)

I hope you still feel small
When you stand by the ocean
Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens
Promise me you'll give faith a fighting chance

And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
Dance
I hope you dance
I hope you dance
(Time is a real and constant motion always)
I hope you dance
(Rolling us along)
I hope you dance
(Tell me who)
(Wants to look back on their youth and wonder)
I hope you dance
(Where those years have gone)

(Tell me who)
I hope you dance
(Wants to look back on their youth and wonder)
(Where those years have gone)


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Leash UH
Aleecia Bolluyt

 
Cute blog Jordin. Congrats to them too. You look so pretty in your dress :)
 
Posted by Leash UH on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:32 AM
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Human Life Awareness

 
CHICAGO IS WINDYYYYYYYY!!!!!



WHOA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WIND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Y!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Posted by Human Life Awareness on January 6, 2009 - Tuesday - 9:25 PM
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♥R-Celly♥

 
you both look really pretty
but chicago isnt tht cold
its my hometown

i guess u can say i love the cold =]
 
Posted by ♥R-Celly♥ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:33 AM
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Duane
Duane Headworth

 
jordin you seem so nice
and sincere
=]
 
Posted by Duane on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:34 AM
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Jackie ♥

 
aw jordin you look so pretty!
 
Posted by Jackie ♥ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:34 AM
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moni-q :)

 
Awww. glad you had fun(: ..that is definately what's most important. ..and im glad you realiized that(:..iloveyouuuu<3..monique
 
Posted by moni-q :) on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:35 AM
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DCJ
Dan Janey

 
that pic of u gina and haley is absolutely stunning!!!!
 
Posted by DCJ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:37 AM
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♥ Sarah Hill ★
Sarah Hill

 
:-) happy 2009!
 
Posted by ♥ Sarah Hill ★ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:40 AM
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♥ Sarah Hill ★
Sarah Hill

 
xxx
 
Posted by ♥ Sarah Hill ★ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:41 AM
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Lady E

 
aww how sweet Jordin.....Happy New Year
 
Posted by Lady E on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:41 AM
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amy :)

 
awww that is so sweet!! It didn't click till like half-way through that this was Gina from AI...gine glockinstin or whatever it was, haha. But Jordin, you seriously have the best blogs ever!! i love you and thanks for being a great role model!! Heres to a great 2009!!
peace
amy
:)
 
Posted by amy :) on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:41 AM
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d0NNNNA

 
awwww jordin I LOVE YOU and GINNNNA! omg i miss her a lot!
and hayley omg miss american idol 07 :[!
 
Posted by d0NNNNA on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:42 AM
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;raeee:)
Rae Yo.

 
The dresses were pretty.

Jordin..........are you getting married next!!? O_O

Just kidding..happy new year!
 
Posted by ;raeee:) on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:42 AM
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Michael
Michael Syfrett

 
It's nice to see a young person who has acheived fame at a young age, still stand up and say her blessings come from God. Good job, I pray God will bless you and your family in the year the come.
 
Posted by Michael on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:42 AM
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Sarah ♥

 
aww!! That's so cute! Happy new year...may it be a good one for you and your family.
 
Posted by Sarah ♥ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:43 AM
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мιѕѕ cнєℓℓєуу ツ

 
This was honestly one of the most beautiful blogs I've ever read. It put tears in my eyes. You are so amazing & so is Gina, I'm so happy for the both of you. 2009 will bring you great things! (: i love you!
 
Posted by мιѕѕ cнєℓℓєуу ツ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:43 AM
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♥Keysha♥
Keysha Random

 
AWWWE Jordan i look so gorgeous but u always do =] u but u all did i still rem. my b-day last year on Aug 13 i seen u in cleveland on the AI tour my sister was so close of getting ur autograph..lol but anyway i hope u have an awesome 2009..love u jordan =]
 
Posted by ♥Keysha♥ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:44 AM
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A.L.M: *** Back Until October 5th!!!***
Anthony-lore Mejia

 
Is that Gina from Idol??? Nice pics of what looked like a nice wedding . . . . you looked good yourself! So, are there wedding bells in your future??? LOL . . .
 
Posted by A.L.M: *** Back Until October 5th!!!*** on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:44 AM
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OFFICIAL Jordin Fansite (Avondale, AZ>M.V.)

 
OMG i had tears you explain everything so amazingg...im glad they had such a good wedding...and YOU looked beautiful in that dress just stunning..LOVE YOU
 
Posted by OFFICIAL Jordin Fansite (Avondale, AZ>M.V.) on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:44 AM
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kfly

 
this was beautiful. I love weddings. and it sounds like it was a great time.
I know for a fact we would be good friends if we knew each other.
God bless you Jordin! and good luck with 2009! Doubt you'll need it.
 
Posted by kfly on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:44 AM
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Robes!

 
wow amazing blog!..gina looks super happy w joe....and i hope they have an amazing life 2gether!..no worries tho.. yall will still keep in touch!..she'll always have ur back no matter what!..yall are besties..and thats what besties are for!..i was watchin the countdown concert yesterday..w8in for u 2 perform.. i was upset not seeing ya perform but it seems like u had an awesome new years eve instead :]..oh & one day u will find love like this....but in the meantime..remember itll be WORTH THE WAIT!..luv ya girlie!
 
Posted by Robes! on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:46 AM
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Debi s AngelsnMe
Debi Gray

 
Wow what an honor you are to your friends! You keep your light shining and may your yr be blessed with more friends and family love and laughter always!

Toodles
 
Posted by Debi s AngelsnMe on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:46 AM
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OFFICIAL Jordin Fansite (Chicago, IL>L.B.)

 
Aww Jordin. This blog is one of the sweetest ever. (P.S. Sorry you had to come on one of the coldest days haha...)

I love Gina and Joe too...and I wish them all the best.

Happy New Year!
 
Posted by OFFICIAL Jordin Fansite (Chicago, IL>L.B.) on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:47 AM
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ellennnツ

 
afs'k;lsad;la;lsdajf;asd! ahh i can only imagine how beautiful the wedding was!
it seems like it was BEYOND funn! i prly would have been bawling while singing their first dance!
ahh gina looks phenomenal and you look gorgeouss girll!

i hope this new year brings soooo much great things as it did last year, but with your new albumm kdsla;fjkl;sdfjlksd'! ahh ISE! <-- :O holy shazz i havent said ISE in yearss!
okay well i LOVE YOUUU! and wish you the best!
 
Posted by ellennnツ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:47 AM
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..JOJO..
Have a Little faith

 
your blog relaxed me. idk why or how but it did. I was all stressed but then I read this and it put a smile on my face(: Although now I really wish I was all in love and crap xP And I really miss hearing gina sing as well. as a matter of fact im going to youtube some performaces xP I wish you thee best of luck is 2009 annnnnd yea that is all<3
 
Posted by ..JOJO.. on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:47 AM
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Ashlee
Ashlee harris

 
OMGoodness JORDIN! THAT Was beautiful! I'm crying just reading, and imagining how beautiful the wedding must have been and all the emotions that you allwent through!
It all looks soo fantabulous! AND i'm truly happy for Gina and JOE! Glad that shes found the right guy and is perfectly happy!

It never ceases to AMAZE ME how HUMBLE YOU ARE! your constantly stating how greatful you are for your life,your family, your friends,your sucess. NOT enough people stop and think how blessed they are , and its even rarer to see it in celebrities. Your humility makes me love you even more, (inthenone creeperishway), and I can only see GREAT THING for '09! My grad year!

SO HAPPY NEWYEAR and thanks for the play by play of the wedding/new year party! you know, we'veall been DYING to see those dresses! <333
 
Posted by Ashlee on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:47 AM
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тαנαє ツ

 
Aww, this blog is really sweet, and I teared up a little bit while reading it. I'm happy you had an amazing new year, and Congratulations to Gina & Joe! You, Gina, and Haley looked beautiful that night also!

<3 Tajae
 
Posted by тαנαє ツ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:49 AM
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heather

 
oh my gosh - you, haley and gina look absolutely STUNNING!!! :D the pictures are so beautiful...

great blog jordin....i just want to tell you that i think you are amazing...we need more celebrities like you - so real and down to earth and not afraid to stand up for what they believe in...so thank you for who you are and what you do...cant wait to see what you are going to do in 2009!!

much love

heather
 
Posted by heather on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:51 AM
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Ashley : D

 
This blog was beautiful J!
Love you! - Ashleyy
 
Posted by Ashley : D on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:52 AM
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Taylor

 
Awwwww, Jo! You always know what to say, when and how to say it! You creative people and your English powers, lol. You guys looked absolutely beautiful! I glad you guys had a great time. omg I was in Chicago yesterday with my family and counted down, then had to go to bed so I could catch my early flight back here to Cali, which actually wasn’t that much warmer lol. Hopefully this year will be as good as or even better than the last!
 
Posted by Taylor on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:54 AM
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✿NikiaHope✿
Nikiahope Florida Girl

 
Omg!I am so fricken happy for her...She is amazing and a great singer obviously.But you guys looked very nice.And can't believe 2009 came so fast.I welcome this year with open arms also.But glad you had fun and i love you.Byes

_Nikia Daniels :P
 
Posted by ✿NikiaHope✿ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:57 AM
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Ashleeey
Ashley Melhem

 
This blog iss breathtaking , I swear the way you explained this makes me want to fall in love and get married right now! BUTTT I'm 15 so that won't be happening anytime soon.
I love how your thankful for everything you have , its truly amazing and you totally deserve it!

<33
 
Posted by Ashleeey on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:58 AM
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mandy ♥
Amanda Stevens

 
as anyone here, it put tears in my eyes!..amazing blog Jordeenn! And i know what you were talking about, in my sister's wedding i couln't help myself and just cry. And the looks of the both getting married is something that i want in my own...2009 will be wonderful for you!..and congrats to gina and joe again :D....and ps: you looked beautiful at the wedding Jo...iloveyou <3
 
Posted by mandy ♥ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:58 AM
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Kristina

 
Beautifully well-written. It's refreshing to see someone so young and successful have a great outlook on life, good head on her shoulders, and incredible insightfulness. I hope you have a wonderful year.
 
Posted by Kristina on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 5:59 AM
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♥ iMa StAr BaYbEe!! [[R.I.P. ALICIA]]
Shaninda Cernac

 
awwww!!!
gurl u look so pretty :-)
and yeah when love is found in all the right places it definitely can be a beautiful thing
i think its something that all us womyn really want :-)

luv yah hunnie,
Shaninda
 
Posted by ♥ iMa StAr BaYbEe!! [[R.I.P. ALICIA]] on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:02 AM
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sara♥
Sara Logue

 
Miss Jordan Sparks. I lovee you!. you are such an inspiration to me. The thing that makes you so special is that you are a HUGE star.. but you don't let that take over your true self. You seem like such a down to earth girl and it amazes me that you can have all that fame..and sit here and say you know what.. all that stuff is just a bonus. Your right.. it is a bonus.. but It takes a true genuine person to say that. That is why i think so highly of you. I don't know you personally, and i probably never will..but i hope you see this is know that you inspire so many people through out this world. Thank you Jordan. and CONGRATS Gina and Joe! :)
 
Posted by sara♥ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:02 AM
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Brizzy'♥
Brisaela Arredondo

 
this blog made me smile big; i was just about to put my status as stressed, but this totally changed everything lol >_< It definateley sounds like the wedding was amazing. i love how on E tv they show at the bottom of the screen "Jordin Sparks was a bridesmaid" xD it's totes cool.
 
Posted by Brizzy'♥ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:03 AM
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ranaa.

 
Sami and I almost died when we saw those pictures of you and Gina.
You looked more gorgeous than ever and I don't even think thats possible :P.
Im soo glad you had a great time with people you love :).
Happy New Year!

<3
 
Posted by ranaa. on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:04 AM
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Amy Jo

 
Congratulations to Gina and Joe! Best of wishes! :-D

Jordin...you look amazing in these photos! You all do! :-D
 
Posted by Amy Jo on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:05 AM
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Christy is in COLLEGE ^_^!

 
The wedding sounds like it was magical ^_^

Happy New Year ^_^!
 
Posted by Christy is in COLLEGE ^_^! on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:06 AM
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::evelyn

 
Aw! What a beautiful blog Jordin!

Give Gina & Joe my Congratulations. :)


<3
 
Posted by ::evelyn on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:10 AM
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.Sa5m. The 5's silent.

 
awwww. will you sing at my wedding?! well i need to find a husband1st. LOL
luv you girly.
 
Posted by .Sa5m. The 5's silent. on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:11 AM
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HollyBerry
Holly Nace

 
Wow.... that blog is fantastic!
I can't wait till my wedding day.. :)
 
Posted by HollyBerry on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:12 AM
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♫♥kaley♥♫

 
wow, congrats to Gina and Joe.

And Jordin, thank you soo much.
This blog was definitely inspirational.

You are completely right about as long as i have a roof over my head, a family that loves me, friends that love me, and God.....I will be happy :)

Happy 2009 Jordin.
I know that you will blow us all away even more, in this coming year. Good Luck.
 
Posted by ♫♥kaley♥♫ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:13 AM
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melissa.

 
you're such a good friend,
this blog is so amazing and beautiful. [=


and the first picture of all of you is great!


have an amazing year. <3
 
Posted by melissa. on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:14 AM
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~Niner~
NIner Richards

 
Jordin,
No one could have explained the wedding better. I felt as though I was watching a movie when the doors opened in the dim-lit chapel, and the sun beamed through the doors as G walked down the aisle. It was the most amazing thing ever and I couldn't help but choke up; Giner looked flawless and so happy.
I don't know if you know this but I was a fan of Gina on the show. The guy's bus driver, Skip, introduced us on the tour. For some reason Gina insisted on keeping in touch, and over the year she has grown to be one of the best friends I have ever had. Never in my life have I EVER met someone who is so caring, fun, and talented as G. As a friend, and she will know really know, she changed my life. Her and Joe have been there for me in some pretty tough times, and they are always there to take me in for a night, sit a glass of Jack Daniels in front of me, and make me laugh. haha
I play basketball at Iowa, and we are currently in season. Games start in November and go through March Madness. In those months, we have ONE "bye week" from our thursday and sunday games. Everyone else in the Big Ten had a game today on New Years; had the computer scheduled us to have a game today, I would have never been able attend the wedding and it would have absolutely killed me. Of all people, YOU would be the one to understand what a coincidence my scheduling situation is... not even a coincidence, rather an amazing gift from God. I'm not the most religious person in the world, but I know that things like this don't JUST happen.
Have and amazing year; Git dat Grammy girl! I think every time I hear "My Humps" I will think of busting a move, in a dress with gold sneaks, on the dance floor with you...ohhhh dearrrr I looked a hot mess! Hopefully you are on tour in the midwest in the near future!

Abooyah!
Niner
(longest comment everrrrrrrr)
 
Posted by ~Niner~ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:15 AM
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Shayne Boydell
Shayne Boydell

 
very very nice i couldnt help but kinda ya know choke up it was so beautiful wat you wrote and so true at the same... congrats have an amazing year god bless


Shayne Boydell
 
Posted by Shayne Boydell on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:20 AM
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Gayla

 
This is beautiful! It brought tears to my eyes. You have such a beautiful heart and spirit. I am so happy that we have the same unconditional loving God in our lives. He is amazing! Isn't He? Have a blessed New Year! Love ya!
 
Posted by Gayla on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:36 AM
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~Britt ~
Brittany Johnson

 
Tell Gina congrats from me too Jordin! I almost didn't know it was her in the pic of you,her & Haley! lol
& I know what you mean about that song! I love it alot!,& I can't wait til June b/c my brother's getting
married & then the next weekend my best friends are getting married! lol
 
Posted by ~Britt ~ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:38 AM
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What A Fairytale™

 
Gorgeous pics, great blog. Happy New Year! <33
 
Posted by What A Fairytale™ on January 2, 2009 - Friday - 6:40 AM
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