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January 15, 2008 - Tuesday 

Category: Life
As I am sure you all have probably heard by now - we are the happiest place in America....
(Take that Mickey frickin' Mouse)

This is the link to the entire ABC 20/20 article which sites NPR's Eric Weiner's new book "The Geography of Bliss."

I would like to quote the paragraphs towards the end of the article that reference Asheville:


    "But all this talk about happiness raises a question: Where is the happiest place in America? In his new book, "The Geography of Bliss," Eric Weiner also explored the happiest spots on the globe and using the lessons learned, set out to find the happiest place in America.

    He settled on Asheville, N.C. "You've got mountains, beautiful mountains all around," he explained. "You have a tremendous, thriving, artistic community. You have cafes everywhere, every other shop is a coffee shop or a bookstore."

    But more importantly, he said, "You have a really strong sense of community here. And if I've learned anything from researching this book, it's that other people matter. There's no such thing as personal happiness, your happiness is part and parcel of those around you."

    Communitythat's the key. Community is why happiness can be found along with the high taxes in Denmark, the harsh rules in Singapore and the crushing poverty in India. One study found that the people living on the streets of Calcutta are happier that those in California. The homeless in Fresno may have more access to food and shelter, but what have the "houseless" in Bombay got? They have each other."



And there you have it folks -

We're happy.
...Right?

To be honest I am happy in many aspects in my life.
Asheville is a marvelous city, beautiful surroundings, a hot-bed of culture, and overall an intelligent population conscientious of their actions. This city sparkles in creativity and talent, and by all means has the power to ignite. I can testify that Asheville has a dynamic community based in wholesome ideals.

But I am also unhappy and frustrated about many aspects in my life.
Asheville is growing by the second, but how are we holding developers accountable? Where is this current path taking our future? Are we really creating a sustainable city, or just a tourist destination where the serving class caters to the trendy affluent? This is a city that is beloved to all who come here - if that weren't the case so many people would not be attracted to moving and visiting so often. I don't mind in the least if Asheville grows and becomes a city vested in future generations - but I do mind if all we are attracting is million dollar second homes to people who have no sincerity to our community and just drive up land costs, keeping our future generations of artists, freaks, spiritualists, thinkers, ponderers, innovators, creators, and whatnots from being able to buy homes and build families here.

So does that mean more unhappy people are going to come here looking for wholesomeness? We are unable to deny anyone their right to pursue personal happiness, but do we get a say in how our community and city grow and expand?
I guess that is my query to you all -

And if you feel like answering in a public forum to be shared amongst the city, maybe you'll consider participating in my photo documentary project: Faces of Asheville - A Portrait Documentary Project
Celebrate you're individuality within the community.
I could certainly use a few more sign-ups...

And if you're shy, no worries - your answers are still just as valid here

F.S.S.

 
My first reaction upon reading this was, yeah, according to one guy with a cushy job-- and-- if Asheville is the Happiest Place in America I'm surprised our national suicide rate isn't a great deal higher. That was yesterday morning. Today, after having spent the previous day running around, doing the laundry at the laundromat and seeing our mutual friend I decided it's absolutely possible that it is. Our friend isn't the happiest of campers but watching the people at the laundromat with their families it wasn't like in other cities. Laundromats are notorious waiting pits of dispair for most people, I personally enjoy them but for the most part, most people don't. I noticed yesterday how happily everyone there seemed to interact with each other and there was even a sense of unity between strangers without a word exchanged. As if the end of the world could've come or we could've been attacked by acid spewing zombies and we'd all have banded together to defeat the monster. You get that feeling allot here in Asheville. If we were cut off from the rest of the world-- even more than we already are-- we'd do just fine. Even thrive. But I don't know that that's got anything to do with happiness.

Good topic Jenny, I could go on much longer if I had the time and if I thought there'd be an audience for anything over two paragraphs. Be well and be in touch.
 
Posted by F.S.S. on January 16, 2008 - Wednesday - 04:20 PM
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Jeff Feeley bass player

 
Ashville's happy cuz you're there. Come back to Philly and make US happy.
 
Posted by Jeff Feeley bass player on January 21, 2008 - Monday - 09:43 AM
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Matt Howard
Matt Howard

 
Hey Jen,
For what it's worth I am talking to people about Faces.

You made some great points here. I was watching 20/20 with my girlfriend when they did a report about the Geography of Bliss. We both screamed, "No!" at the same time when Asheville was mentioned. I had all the same thoughts you've had- more people, more construction, pollution, and insufficient resouces like drinking water and waste processing.

A couple of nights ago I happened to catch a show about the environment from an archeological perspective. Many civilizations that seemed to vanish like the Anastazi, for example, weren't wiped out by war or disease as many once suspected, but by faminine. The famine was a result of overfarming, trying to feed an increasing but already unsustainable population. In Sumer, ancient people seem to have created a desert where once there existed fertile land and fishing. They did this through over-irrigation, which caused the salt table to rise and salt the fields. No surprise the same thing is now happening in lush agricultural states, like California and Florida. Then where do all those people go? Yep, to the nearest mountains.
 
Posted by Matt Howard on January 31, 2008 - Thursday - 04:21 PM
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