Today, I gotta message from a lady in my friends list asking me to answer the
following questions.

1. Do all men cheat?
I've dated MORE women in my lifetime than MOST men have [because I'm very particular &
don't believe in wasting time with anyone].  I had a tendency to float from woman-to-woman
without many days in-between.

I'm NOT the kinda guy that's gonna stay in a relationship that leaves me feeling unfulfilled,
unhappy, or with reservations.  My natural attitude about relationships enabled me to easily
BRING CLOSURE [instead of trying to have my cake & eat it too] & I also believe in karma.

Despite my belief that MOST men are cheaters [but, certainly no more than 75% of em']....  
I've NEVER been the kinda guy that complicated my life by cheating on ANY woman.
I WASN'T immature enough to say, "It's OK for me to cheat, since I'm NOT married anyway" &
I had the wisdom to recognize that you CAN'T turn fidelity on/off like a light switch.

Ladies, I'm NOT the ONLY guy who feels this way....  
I can name 2 male friends off-the-top of my head, who think exactly the same way that I do.
We ALL believe that cheating ISN'T worth it, because [if you're that unhappy] you can
always leave the situation & find a replacement overnight.  Getting a woman ISN'T difficult.

Why live with the guilt & deception?  Just be honest with YOURSELF & your lover.
Have the courage to break it off, before commencing your search for affection elsewhere.
As long as there are men like me, then my answer to this question will always be "No"!


2. Do you feel that Monogamy is Natural?
Why or Why not?
It's natural for me....   but, I also know the question that you WANNA ask:
"Is monogamy natural FOR MEN"????

I DON'T believe in the popular yet idiotic concept that people keep spreading about
men NOT being monogamous by nature.

Monogamy is about listening to the conscience that we were ALL born with.
Unless you're retarded, then you KNOW the difference between right & wrong.
I'm amazed @ how many people try to associate fidelity with genetics [ignorantly, I must add].

I believe that we're ALL born with a conscience....
some folks choose to listen to it [while others choose to ignore theirs & satisfy their loins].
Men are more violent than women, but that DOESN'T mean that we're all born axe murderers.

For me, monogamy's what soothes my soul & I didn't have to force myself to be this way....
you can analyze my blood to find out why I'm so loyal,
but I'll still have the typical male's level of testosterone pumping through my body. 


3. Why does it seem to be harder for a man
to be monogamous than for a woman?
One reason is the fear of falling in love with a woman that'll hurt us, in the end.
Another reason is this sick phenomenon where so many women say "Nice guys finish last"....
basically, you're TELLING US that the way to be loved is to mistreat women.

You NEVER hear guys saying "Nice girls finish last"....
we either say that nice girls are closet freaks or the ladies that we wanna settle down with.

Most men are afraid of a virgin, but we also DON'T wanna woman that's slept with alotta men.
But, women [on the other hand] wanna man that's gonna toss her around in the bedroom &
teach her things.

How else is he gonnabe that kinda lover WITHOUT sleeping with alotta women????
Basically, women encourage men to develop sexual prowess through our promiscuity....
& then when we discover that women LOVE US for being whorish & bad [instead of nice],
many of us fear doing anything that'd even remotely put us in the WILL FINISH LAST group. 


4. Why do men find it hard to commit?
Personally, I've ALWAYS wanted to be in a commitment.
Nevertheless, please refer to the previous answer in number 3.


5. Why would a man get mad when his
girlfriend says she doesnt trust him when he
knows he's considered cheating
He's just in denial....
he knows that he's the BAD person that she's accusing him of being,
but he ISN'T strong enough to come to grips with it.


6. How much do you value faithfulness?
I value fidelity MORE THAN ANYTHING in a lover....
so much that I used to immediately lose interest in a woman,
if she told me that she'd cheated on a previous lover [regardless of the reason].

I wanna woman that's strong enough to LEAVE ME, if she's unhappy
[not someone that's gonna tolerate me, while she gets action on the side].
Show me that I'm NOT all that, by having the ability to bring closure to our relationship 1st.

Don't tell me that you cheated, but wanna work things out [I won't respect you].
Have the guts to LEAVE ME, before turning your attention towards somebody else.

You DON'T have to stay WITH ME....   but, I expect you to be loyal while you're here.


7. Why do some men claim to be totally in
love with a woman, and still try to hook up
with everything that moves?
Because [as with women] some people just dunno what love REALLY is....
love is DEVOTION & sole desire.

Love ISN'T sharing your lover with other people, having threesomes with your spouse,
hooking up on the side, or letting your heart be divided between 2 or more lovers
[though Aquarians would probably argue this down with me, till Hell freezes over].

Having a ring on your finger DOESN'T mean that you're in love....
some people just go through the motions while living a lie that they're completely foreign to.


8. Why do men say "You are the only one for
me but they cheat on you?
The men who actually do this are unsure about the words that're spewing from their mouths.
They're telling women these things, just to make em' feel better
[because these men AREN'T strong enough to say how they REALLY feel on the inside].


9. Why are men afraid of monogamous
relationships?
I could ask the same question pertaining to women, but please refer to number 3 anyway.


10. Why do men ask for your phone number
when they have a...wife, fiance, baby mama
who still thinks they're together, or
significant other, etc?
These kinda men are just PIECES OF SHIT....
I can't offer any explanation for their foolish actions other than "THEY'RE WEAK & STUPID".


11. If I don't want to have sex w/in the first
few months, will you wander away?
MOST men probably would....  but, for me, I was always looking for a woman to HOLDOUT
[because obtaining sex is way too easy anyway].  I'd respect her MORE for doing this.

A woman that holds out obviously respects her body, has strong morals,
will be an outstanding mother to my children [by instilling values], &
knows that the pathway to a man's heart ISN'T in her pants [she'd get further by cooking]. 
You can give a man the BOMBEST sex & he still might cheat on you.


12. If I sleep with you on the first date what
would you think of me?
Hmmm, where do we start?????   I'd be thinking....
YOU CAN'T TURN A WHORE INTO A HOUSEWIFE.
How many other guys has she done this with????
Now that I've gotten the sex outta the way, there's NOTHING else for me to look forward to.
OK, how am I gonna get rid of this skank [do I block her number when she calls again]????


13. Can men and women be friends or are
you holding out for sex?
Personally, I DON'T believe that men can TRULY be friends with women
[unless he's gay, NOT attracted to you, somebody you grew up with, or an ex].

In regards TO ME, I can honestly say that [until I found Mrs. Right] I WASN'T interested in
being friends with ANY female who WASN'T my ex-girlfriend. 
What the fuck is a friendship gonna do for me????

I DIDN'T care to hear about a woman's problems with her boyfriend &
I definitely DIDN'T wannabe her shoulder to cry on.
If you get the FRIENDSHIP label, then she'll NEVER be smart enough to see that you're a
good enough guy to be her boyfriend.  She'll pursue assholes while overlooking you.

One thing's for sure....   I'm gonna have to teach my son to AVOID friendship with women
[if he DOESN'T wanna have a difficult time finding love & affection].
Sure, women can teach you alotta things about how other women think....
but, once you've learned what ya wanna know, the BEST THING to do is adopt an attitude
that says, "FORGET BEING FRIENDS....   we're either gonna have sex or be in a relationship". 


14. Are you more often nervous or confident when you're about to have sex for the first
time?
EQUAL....   I'm NERVOUS because I'm gonna have to spend the night trying to figure out what
this woman likes [does she want her hair pulled, does she wannabe spanked, fave positions,
where does she want me to shoot my load, where are her erogenous zones].

However, I'm CONFIDENT that I'll be able to please her well enough to get a 2nd sexcapade
[where she'll let me do every dirty thing to her that my heart desires].


15. Why do you lie and say it's okay that the
woman does not want to have sex until
marriage. But, after four weeks of trying, you
disappear into thin air....
To be quite honest, if a woman EVER told me that....
then, I would've stayed if I liked her enough. 
After all, you don't have to worry about asking her to get an AIDS test.


16. Why do men LOVE to talk about their
past sexual experiences, but can never ever
listen to their woman's story
Personally, hearing about a woman's sexual experiences used to TURN ME ON a great deal
when I was dating [it let me know what kinda things she was into].

LOL - I can honestly say that MANY of my initial phone conversations started off with the
typical WHAT KINDA MUSIC DO YOU LIKE kinda questions....
but, by the end of the conversation, I'd somehow steered her to the point where she'd
revealed alotta X-Rated things.

I won't runaway from a woman for telling me that she enjoys anal sex [on the 1st call]....
but, I definitely WON'T call her again if she wants me to gimmie anything more than head on
the 1st date.


17. Why don't men like to talk in bed?
I'm usually too distracted because my mouth is full of boobies
[like it says in my profile, I'm a breast man].


18. What makes the one woman better in
bed than another?
Being multi-orgasmic [preferably squirting ones], the feel of it, & her ability to return fire....
but, that's just FOR ME.  I can't answer for the other men.


19. Why don't men just have sex with the
women they are truly interested in and just
leave the women they aren't interested alone
and not use them?
I can't answer this question....   I ONLY have sex with women that I'm interested in anyway.
Why the hell would I wanna sleep with a busted chick, just to get my rocks off????
I'd rather masturbate, if that's the case.


20. Why do men want sex from a woman,
but then don't respect a woman after she
does it?
Like I said, FOR ME, it's all about TIMING....   don't sleep with me TOO SOON.
I DON'T give a damn if you thought that I was so hot that ya had to gimmie some as a reward
[b-cuz it just tells me that you'll spread your legs for ANYBODY that you're attracted to].