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Gender: Male
Status: Married
Age: 34
Sign: Leo
City: The ATL
State: Georgia
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Wednesday, February 22, 2006
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Current mood:  cranky Category: Romance and Relationships
The term "GAME" is widely used by men....
but, women dread hearing the word [b-cuz they don't know what it REALLY means].
THE PLAYER is a reality show that completely butchered the TRUE definition of "GAME"
[& you'll soon understand why I say this].
Most ladies cringe when a guy says that "getting women is all about YOUR GAME"....
the female mind translates this statement as: "You've gottabe a good bullshitter, to get ladies"
& usually, she'll come outta the mouth with, "I don't wanna guy that's gonna run game on me".
So, today, I think that it's necessary for me to educate the ladies about what "GAME" is.
1st, let's start with my own personal definition of the word.
GAME n. the overall essence of what a man is made of [romantically].
Now, I'd like to summarize & breakdown exactly what "GAME" is for everybody.
When somebody says, "He's got game" or "I've got game", then it's safe to assume that
the respective gentleman exhibits @ least 8 of the 10 characteristics that I've outlined below:
1. Knowledge Of The Zodiac
Now, NOT every guy whose got "GAME" knows about The Zodiac....
but, [take my word for it] if ya do, then you CAN'T HELP but to have game!!!!
You know how women are often AFRAID to tell a guy how they're REALLY feeling????
Well, shit, if ya know The Zodiac, then you can sit back & watch a woman show her hand
[b-cuz you'll already have a blueprint about every inch of the chick's personality].
Don't get me wrong, now.... it's NOT as simple as reading her daily horoscope,
or picking up a book & reading whatever's written about her sign!!!!
But, if you've got patience & an investigative mind, then [trust me] you'll eventually be able to
figure out stuff about each individual lady that they DON'T even know about themselves!!!
Sure, it's CHEATING, in a sense.... but, it's better than wasting months trying to figure
out what the hell she wants & how to get her to that point [b-cuz you'll already know].
You'll be able to figure out how faithful she is, or whether she'll fuck your best friend.
Once you've got the info ya need, then it's all up to YOU to decide whether to pursue her & you'll have a road map that leads directly to her heart [talk about flawless execution].
Having "GAME" encompasses using this knowledge with GOOD intentions!!!!
However, having this knowledge still WON'T be enough to carry you thru to the end
[which leads me to my next step]....
2. Doing The Impossible
If one of your buddies says,  "I bet that you CAN'T get that hot girl's phone number"....
"GAME" is when you can take the challenge & accomplish the task!!!! 
If your female friend says, "Ha, a girl like that would NEVER give you the time of day"....
"GAME" is knowing that it's a DONE DEAL the moment that you start walking over there.
"GAME" is your female friend asking ya whatcha said [when you comeback with the digits].
However, DON'T GET IT TWISTED....
"game" ISN'T going over to a female & telling her, "Hi, my friend over there thinks that I can't get your phone number. I don't wanna feel stupid, so could you just gimmie yours".
No, that's LAME [it isn't "game"].
3. Charisma
"GAME" means that you've got personality, charm, & the capability of making a woman say,
"Wow, you say all the right things!!!! I'm interested in seeing what you're about now!!!!
Here's my number.... gimmie a call"!!!! Folks, that's "GAME"!!!! And when you call,
you don't bore her with the conversation. You've got everything under control.
4. Stealth Technology
"GAME" is when you have the ability to cut through a woman's defense mechanisms.
Though she walks through life with her guard up, you somehow manage to open the keys to
her heart before she even realizes that you're there!!!! You're savvy enuff to make this lady
confused [she doesn't wannabe vulnerable, but she also doesn't wanna lose ya to another girl].
You've got the equipment to work around ANY barrier that she puts up. That's "GAME"!!!!
5. Money DOESN'T Hold Him Back
"Game" ISN'T buying a woman's affection, attention, or favor....
people confuse that shit with a man being a "BALLER" [even though he's really a sucker].
"GAME" is the ability to accomplish your romantic tasks WITHOUT money being an issue.
It's the broke guy who manages to get laid by a woman who's a golddigger.
It's the guy without a car who gets laid by a woman that refuses to date guys that don't drive.
It's the guy who gets a dime piece, while the "BALLERS" are blowing money for their shot.
But, MOST IMPORTANTLY, you DON'T have to lie about what you have either
[just to accomplish the task]. "GAME" is winning the race despite having a torn ACL.
6. It's NOT About Being A Player
"Game" ISN'T about shooting @ every female that walks in your vicinity....
it also ISN'T about how many women you can string along @ the same time!!!!
There are alotta players in the league, but FEW of them REALLY have "GAME".
"GAME" is when you control the tempo, take it to the hole, make adjustments, finish,
see-the-floor, can hit from inside OR outside, make women around you feel BETTER, &
you go about your business knowing that your skills CAN'T BE STOPPED!!!!
It's NOT about how many minutes you can log----it's all about your efficiency.
7. Trusting In One's Honesty
"Game" ISN'T about manipulating a woman's mind, to accomplish your task....
 that's what players do!!!!
When you've got "GAME", then you know that you can be HONEST about your intentions
b-cuz you've got everything covered [no matter what she chooses to do].
Players are always worried about NOT showing their hand....
but, when you've got "GAME", you can show your hand quick & not even worry about it
[b-cuz ya know that @ the very worst, she's gonna give you sumthin' in the end anyway].
When you've got "GAME", then you aren't afraid to tell a woman that she's sexy &
put the fact out there that you wanna see if your interaction leads to sumthin' more
[b-cuz you DON'T have time to bullshit, wanna see what a woman's made of, &
you want ladies to understand that you AREN'T looking to be a muthafuckin' "FRIEND"].
When you've got "GAME", then you DON'T need to hide from yourself!!!!
8. Security Clearance
"GAME" is elevating yourself to PREFERRED STATUS, with a woman.
When other guys buy her flowers, she calls them SOFT....
but, when you buy her a rose, she's dropping her panties & calling you a sweetheart for it.
When other guys take her out to a nice restaurant, she accuses them of trying to buy her off....
but, when you take her to the same place, she's turned on by your superior taste,
will let you feed her @ the table, & play footsies before y'all go home for post-game action.
"GAME" is when she views EVERY move that you make as the RIGHT one baby!!!!
9. The Art Of Seduction
"GAME" is when a woman tells you that she's NOT gonna have sex with you....
but, by the end of the night, she's asking you to spend the night!!!!
"GAME" is when a lady tells you that she DOESN'T kiss on the 1st date....
but, she makes an exception for you & even goes so far as to give you a BJ.
"GAME" is when both of these ladies call you the next day just to see if you've still got
respect for them [b-cuz they don't want you to think that they're that kinda girl].
Seduction ISN'T persuasion or getting women drunk enough to lower their guard.
"GAME" is when you've got the skills to put yourself in a position where the woman
makes a CONSCIOUS DECISION to do sumthin' that she ordinarily WOULDN'T do.
"GAME" is when you DON'T even talk about the sex----she just gives up the prize!!!!
10. That Whip Appeal
"GAME" is when you're dating a girl who claims to be cold-blooded & uncaring....
but, the moment that you threaten to walk out the door, she's grabbing your leg talkin' about,
"BABY, BABY, PLEASE DON'T GO"!!!! You've gotta literally drag her, just to get away.
And this is the same chick that you've seen break men's hearts & laugh about that shit!!!!
"GAME" is having the ability to flip the script on even the BADDEST PLAYERETTE.
Today's Black History Month profile is:
PAUL ROBESON (1898 - 1976)
 ACTOR, CIVIL RIGHTS ACTIVIST, BARITONE, & ATHLETE.... when it comes to Paul Robeson, the real question is "What COULDN'T he do"?!His resume included a proficiency in over 20 different languages, a law degree from Columbia University, Phi Beta Kappa @ Rutgers University, & twice he was selected as an All-American football player. Robeson was also spokesperson against the racism experienced by Asians & Blacks. In 1946, the highly acclaimed actor founded the American Crusade Against LynchingSummarizing his life in a few lines, is truly an impossible task.
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By The Game
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