Dude you rock -- I'm sorry I hated your dad and sister on the show and said some shitty comments about them at sucks but I take back everything I said about Daniele now because if she had to put up with this garbage I see why she hated him so much.

Sorry that you have such an asshole for a dad
 

dude, to michael (above), do you know vincent or dick? i doubt it, so what would you know about any of their relationship, you cant just go by this crap, posted out of anger. they are obviously fighting, people even if they are related dont fight nicely. a fight is a fight.

and vincent, i think your real cool and stuff, but this blog and the other is too much. i know your hurt for him talking like that to you, and yea he should speak to you that way, but its not something to display to the public especially concidering a lot of people know of your dad now due to bb8. just let it go. have a talk with him, eventually you will. i can see right through your dad on the show and live feeds, he talks with intimidation sometimes, but his heart is big. i know you know that. me too, i curse all the time, the eff word flies out of my mouth left and right, but even if i said it to my mother, father, sister, daughter, i would never truly mean it. its just the anger talking. please guys, dont let this esculate further. its not worth it. especially because eventually its gonna be squashed and you are going to be cool with each other again, its a FACT.

but dude, dont you wish you would have gotten the fuckin toilet paper!!!! damnnnn! seriously, that would have thrown me over the edge too!!! your dad love you vincent. i know deep down you know that. he knows you love him too.
 

Anyone who loses it like that over toilet paper needs to be in a straight jacket. That's pathetic. I'm a parent and I wouldn't ever respond that way.
 

stfu
 

good come back
 

I don't foul you for your view. It's most definitely a lot more profound than some of the crap I've read, but I will say this:

It is not a matter of anger. He said, "fuck you" whether he meant it or not. The words passed his lips and they can't be taken away and Vincent will remember it for the rest of my life. I have said, "fuck you" to Vincent before. I curse for every little thing all the time, but that one time I said it out of anger. It just shows a lack of control that Vincent shouldn't have to deal with.

I feel ashamed of myself everytime I think about what I said to Vincent.
 

honestly, you are right, i wouldnt want my dad to say it to me, and it would hurt, and i would never say it to my daughter, i really hope i would never say it, i get mad easily too, but so far i havent ever even came close to saying things like that to her.

i dont know them, or their situation fully, all i know is i just dont want them to be fighting i want them to make up, life is too short. i would give anything to have my dad back. i just dont want them mad at each other or for people to encourage this arguement between them. they need to squash this asap.
 

Good For You Vincent!!
 

Damn.. Well its probably best you two just keep your distance for while... People always get along better with their parents when they dont live with them..

And your dad saying he will tell everyone stuff your doing, dont quote me on what he said something along those lines.. I dont think anyone give two shits what your doing...

It just sounds to me that your dad wants his privacy... and is looking for a reason to have you take a hike.. Whatever your an adult.. Act like one and just keep your distance and take your issue with him offline.. before stupid shit is said...

Its really non of myspace users businesses. I'm with you on whatever you do.. But some spats are better worked out in private..

good luck tho Vincent!
 

Jas...I hope ur not a parent. My space is place for ppl to get out their frustrations and let ppl know whats going on in their lives. If ur not interested why in the hell did u want to see Vincents blog in the first place. Life is not a bed of roses honey...ppl do have problems and they want to express their feelings.
 

I was waiting forever for someone to say this! You win!
 

Who is the Kid??????????????????
I'm having a hard time figuring it out.
 

stay strong Vincent. come to Seattle!!!
 

stop trying to steal my friend!
 

HANG in THERE VINCENT!!! Don't let anyone get you down. You have always been the one that seemed to hold thing stogether - and an overall stand-up guy. It's hard to deal with a parent that has never grown up and acted like a parent should. That isn't your fault.
 

I just love it when parents want to blame thier kids for the choices they make and convieniantly forget that it was thier job in the first place to TEACH thier kids how to make choices. Funny Your Dad seems to forget he is the DAD and if he doesn't like the things you do and the way you act - maybe he should have been a better parent???
Sounds like a serious narcissistic egomaniac............your right Vincent I think maybe the show made him worse.
 

quit it! Both of you!
 

As a mother of 6 kids 18 and over sometimes things can get pretty rough. Is my space the best place to be doing this kind of shit. No matter what went down you should have kept it private. Why would you put this shit for everyone to read unless you wanted people to make you feel better. Not going to happen. Shit hurt, words hurt to to let the whole world know your business wrong. You can never take back the words you wrote you should have thought with your brain before you put this on my space and then put a personal message he said to you so we all could here it. Get angry if it makes you feel better but don't get even....
 

Sorry, but I am tired of getting no results.
 

Do you really think this is going to get the results you really want. No way. I would have been so pissed if any of my kids did this to me. He is going to feel the same way. Sorry to be blunt. Not taking sides. Know what it like to deal with young adults. Your never wrong and I am never wrong attitude. You should have taken the high road walked away from the fire instead of into it. I sound like Dr. Phil(kill me now). Erase the blogs before its to late. Take it from a mom who has had some good and bad times. You don't have to like your family but no matter what you will always love them. When things get really bad trust me they will be the first ones next to you to help.
 

That was not the point of my comment. He should have not let the world see what should have been private. Was he wrong to rant at his kid, well I hate to say I have done it too and they have said things back to me but you work through it (with help if needed) and you don't post a blog that you know will only lead to more angry or abuse. So Gwen we don't know these people or their past so I will not past judgement(because who am I) but I will say until you take these blogs down you have let the world judge you. Never put you business out in vacant space it will only come back to haunt you.
 

I think your view of family is not true for every situation. I KNOW for a fact that just because someone's family they'll always be there for you! But I am glad that you have had that kind of family, they're good people.
 

Everyone get's fed up I don't think you did anything wrong. He sure post's how he feels on his myspace. But that's right. he thinks he has entitlement over everyone so why I guess should you be any different.
 

Vincent, I am so impressed with you! NO ONE deserves to be spoken to like he does!! NO ONE!!! He is your fatehr for cripes sake! Seriously, my father is an asshole just like him, he needs to be cut out and off! I have nothing to do with mine and I am a happier, better person because of it. Don;t fall for or listen to all this "but he's your dad" bullshit. Stand up for yourself and be the man he never can or will be!
 

Vincent you know as well as I do that you shouldn't listen to this. She's right about not being spoken to this, but you know how I feel about parents and cutting him off would not only hurt both of you it would sincerely hurt my respect for you.

Not that I was worried you would consider what she's saying, but she hit a soft spot so I had to express my opinion.

Of course that untactful jerk would agree with ending family.
 

Well said Patty :)
 

How Quickly all of you turn. I thought Dick was the greatest thing since sliced bread. You all were on here begging him for a comment or any piece of recognition from him. Now he's a white trash piece of shit that hates his children.
Did it ever occur to any of you that all of this is NONE OF OUR FUCKING BUSINESS!!!!!
And, that I'm sure both of them are wrong and both of them are right. In the middle lies the truth.
They will get passed this and all will be forgotten, but all your STUPID ASS COMMENTS
will be here for everyone to read.

BOYS!!!! KEEP YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS OF THE INTERNET. GROW THE FUCK UP!!!!
BOTH OF YOU.


hope life gets better......But, this is no way to do it
 

Who are you to tell anyone what to do and how to do it? I think the only person you have control over is you and that loser who is in the pic with you. Go Vincent, do what you need to do. Many "grown-ups" put up a good fight when they need to.
 

I was never a Dick fan. Vincent seems nice though. And aren't blogs meant for commenting?
 

I responded in the wrong blog. See my response to Dick's response in the other blog. However, I hate Dick but that .wav made me laugh.
 

Vincent, So sorry to hear about your troubles. Many families have issues like this but I personally feel that this should be a private family matter. Airing them in public can be humilating and may create more damage than originally intended. Keep your chin up , things will be better in time. Consider removing this blog. Hugs Linda.
 

Yeah they are meant for commenting. That's why I'm Commenting to you.
Sometimes you go to know when people are blowing off steam and when to mind your own business. That's why I'm NOT commenting on his blog only to my fellow commenters
 

"BOYS!!!! KEEP YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS OF THE INTERNET. GROW THE FUCK UP!!!!
BOTH OF YOU.


hope life gets better......But, this is no way to do it"

Is what you said. They won't be here forever he can delete it anytime he would like.
 

I agree with Linda. Please think about removing these blogs
 

OH MY PEYTON....NAME CALLING....ISN"T THAT WHAT DICK DOES????
 

I have been trying to figure out what to say, I am your Dad's age yet I have no kids. But I know something about parents; they won't be around forever; my dad died in 1996; my husband in 2000 after only being married for two years. Yesterday we thought my mom had a stroke. She is in the hospital due to her electrolytes being way off. I guess what I am trying to say is life can turn on you in a heartbeat. I am not taking sides because I like all of you. Just try to live each day as it was your last and try to forgive. I hope this made sense.
 

Gay You Make perfect sense. Hopefully he will calm down and delete this.
 

Ivan's being a bookworm now. How convenient right? So I'll just tell you what I think in person. Have fun tonight.
 

Dont delete it you already posted it and its been reposted other places so everyone knows about it anyways. Dick and his daughter aired out their dirty laundry so why cant Dick and his son? Oh wait I just realized theres a common denominator can anyone figure it out? lol!
 

I know this is real shit you guys are going thru, and i am so so sorry for what you are going thru, But this is good stuff for Reality T.V. I think all these blogs and phone messages should be sent to some big TV executive,,Who knows you guys could become the next disffuctional family on reality TV...Like i said i am so sorry for you problems,,I was just putting an idea out their for you and Evel to think about... Sincerly Allie of Joallie
 

-palm to forehead- sigh...
 

Oh, Vincent. WHY are you posting things that are so private? NOW a phone message? Don't you think that's a little immature? You want to stoop to the level that you are claiming your dad is at? (Vincent: "consider the source"). If things are so bad with your dad, instead of doing this, just leave! You shouldn't be living with him anyway. Living with family when you are an "adult" not having any responsibility, rarely works out. You must take some of the responsibility for the way you treated his space. And don't say you did nothing wrong. b/c that wouldn't be true, now would it. And if you know how he is, why do stuff to piss him off?

(Disclaimer: *Nicole* didn't write this. I am using my daughters MySpace account right now...mine is being re-vamped)
 

Well, I've been the child living with the parents as an adult and I've had the grown child come back home and live...never a good thing no matter which one you are. I'm sure you both have legitimate complaints. I'm like your Dad and can't stand the mess and chaos either. I chased my grown daughter down the street screaming like a banshee one day she made me so mad so I understand where your Dad is coming from. (i'm normally a very calm, stable person who is slow to anger too) We laugh about it now, but I can tell you it wasn't funny at the time. you'll probably regret putting this online and I wouldn't be surprised to see it gone tomorrow. :-) Just give each other some space and time and things will be okay.

ED, I think you really do need some help with that temper. It's not good for you and some things said in anger leave bad scars.
 

Vince, I've spoken with you in chat before and have found you to be a sweet person. We all know and have seen your dad's faults in the house. I am really shocked that he would treat you that way when he always said nothing but wonderful things in the house about you, always praising you. I can understand him being an asshole to strangers, but not you. Yes parents get mad at their kids, yes kids don't act as they 'should' however his reaction to you is disturbing. He needs help. There is no excuse to talk to you that way, it's straight up abuse. There is no excuse, no matter how annoyed he was with you. Roommates get on each other's nerves, big deal. You don't lose your mind in the process, like he has. He's not acting like a father should, he's acting like a brother, having a tantrum, sorry to say. He is way too defensive to let anything sink in. I'm sure you and your dad will work things out in the future. His method of communication is hurting his son and he needs to swallow his pride, control his temper and grow the f up.
You say he alienated almost everyone in his life before the show and now has all these fans? Well, after all this, I won't be surprised if he has alienated many fans. I was one of them. I have lost all respect for the way he has treated you. It's ok for him to be angry at you, but it's all in the way he communicates it. I'm so sorry you have a dad that's not as mature as he should be. Atleast you have your Grandma though :) xoxo and of course your sister, your fans and 'real life' friends! You're a good kid Vincent, not perfect I'm sure, but a good son nonetheless. Take care of yourself. oxox
 

Why is it that whenever I am getting along with your sister, you get jealous and start acting like an asshole? Because I give her attention, you always complain that you aren't getting any and how it is so unfair. Same this time as last time.

You are a 22 year old man, when are you going to start acting like it?

I find this crying for attention....... very sad.

When did it become my responsibility to provide you a place to live at 22? When did it become my responsibility to provide you with a car? (after you trashed the first one I gave you) When did it become my responsibility to provide you with a place for you and your friends to get drunk and do drugs? When did it become my job to become your private maid? When did it become my responsibility to become your storage facility? Is it ok that you scratch my car and act like it is no big deal? Is it ok for you to trash my place and not say anything about it? And on and on and on....

You are welcome for trying my best to help you out.

I am sorry that you can't act like a responsible adult and take care of things in your life. But that is your responsibility, not mine. You being unhappy in your life is your fault, not mine. You have let countless opportunities pass you by while you sit on your ass playing video games. Maybe if you took responsibility for your own life and actually got off of your ass for a change, things might be different. Stop crying about poor poor me and maybe you would be happier.
 

Dick, I just read what you posted here and all I kept thinking was how you take NO responsibility for your out of control behavior towards your son. He's a young adult, they fuck up and make mistakes. You're suppose to love him unconditionally, not "out" his private life, which could cost him his job if they found out. He doesn't have prize money to live off of, he has to get up early and be an adult. He's doing his best, he's not perfect. Go get counseling and grow the fuck up already. Stop trying to turn it all around on him. As a fellow parent, you can't lose it like that and try to manipulate your child, it only makes you look bad.
 

Vincent and Dick,

Wow, you two are going through it. Life is not easy. While I do not personally know either of you, I have seen much of your personality on the live feeds. I have been a huge Dick and Dani supporter, and through Dick, you've let us get to know Vincent. Family dynamics are never easy, and as a single mother, I know all too well how difficult this can be.

Dick, you brought up several times with Dani that you wanted to do family counseling. I hope this is something you follow through on. As parents, it is our job to provide our kids with the tools they need to be productive, well adjusted adults. Your kids are both still young, and are still able to learn from you. Most 22 year olds are in their senior year of college, still being supported by their parents, and not in a position to have to deal with finances, rent, insurance, etc. When I see things in my daughter that drive me nuts, I have to reflect on why it is that this was her choice on how to act, and I realize I have more to teach her. We are all works in progress, regardless of our age.

There is no age limit when we can quit being the adult and the parent. We are supposed to provide unconditional love, no strings attached. The job description and the salary to be a parent SUCKS. We had choices, they didn't. I know you think your kids are old enough to be on their own, and many are at that age. But just as many are not. Just because someone is able to do something, does not mean that it is the best choice for them.

As a total outsider reading this, it seems toilet paper and living arrangements are the last thing any of this is about. I live in So Cal, and know you can get a really good cleaning lady for next to nothing. Your car is in the shop, get a rental. Insurance should provide it, or pay the $50/day for a rental car. From your blog, it seems the other party is at fault. HIS insurance would pay for the rental. I rather pay $500 out of pocket, then get to a place where I am damaging my child with my anger. You can't unring the bell, ...you can't erase the words said in anger from their memory.

Love your kids, not just in words, but in actions. Show them by restraint from anger that you love them. Show them with unconditional, no strings attached love. Show them your word means something. Do not give them things, then take them back, do not throw things you've done for them in their face. It is your JOB to do things for them. Even if they post blogs daily on how you have hurt them, LOVE THEM. You have such a huge opportunity to show both of your kids there is another option on how you will react, when you're in a situation that would normally infuriate you. ...even a small thing like removing him from your top friends list may seem small, but it seems very childish, and DOES send a message to him.

These lessons and more are never "done". We ALL have room to improve. ...trust me, I know. It sucks that this is being played out openly, but you've never seemed like one to candy coat or hide things, and the fact that your son has followed your lead in this regard, only reflects that he had a good teacher.

I am not judging you. It is obvious you love your kids so very much. Don't wait until it's too late to learn there are other ways to show it. As good as it feels to hear "I love you" from loved ones, most people would rather never hear those words, and rather be shown it. Please don't make your love for your kids conditional on if they behave/perform/act the way you want them too. They are, who they are, because of the childhood they had, and the tools they have been given from life lessons, good and bad.

You are probably the last person who needs to be told what amazing kids you have. It is not too late to change the dynamics of the bad aspects of your relationship, but the change starts with YOU, and it will not happen overnight. It took years to get to this point. You need to plan on investing years to work on other options, and rebuild the areas that have caused them pain.

I have no doubt you 2 will patch this up soon. Hopefully its a wake up call on how to prevent it from happening again.

I wish you all the best of luck repairing this. It's never too late. Nothing is imposible.
 

Dick,

If you wanted a responsible, mature, independent 22 year old son, then you should have raised him that way.

It's your job as the PARENT to teach your children life skills so they are not shiftless, aimless freeloaders in their 20's.

It's sad that you find it acceptable to speak to your child that way. Very, very sad.
 

AJ,

How can you judge someone's parenting when you're not a parent yourself? I am sorry but being an aunt vs raising a child is totally different. Being a parent isn't easy and we don't always make the best of decisions. To those parents who think they are perfect well I am sorry but you're wrong. I have seen good people raise children who have turned out to be losers. Vincent is 22 and knows right from wrong and it's time people stop treating him like he is a baby.

Vincent I hope with you moving out it will help mend fences with your dad and that you two can move on from this! Good luck and I wish you both the best.
 

How dare you post this on Vince's page, how rude. No one's treating him like he's a "baby" on here. His dad is an abusive asshole who shouldn't be treated like a king anymore and he gets away with wayyy too much. And how DARE you tell that woman that being an aunt raising a niece or nephew is "totally different". A guardian loves children as if they were their own. Stop watching Dr. Phil already.