Talk about the mind, the intellect, that mental spiritual connection. Women like smart men who appreciate their own mental excellence. ;)
 

so..you like it deeper than skin?
 

Yes always! I like to be taken on a journey that only the imagination can conjure up. Music should force people to think and dream. There's enough baby making music out there to get the job done. lol I want something more. I'mma excited to see what you create! :)
 

Love you Vikter!
 

luv u back!
 

There are so many things I would like a man to say to me in a song.

I would like him to thank me for being by his side.
I would like for him to describe how i feel laying next to him.
I would like him to tell me what he sees when he looks in my eyes.
I would like him to tell me teh 1st thing we would do the day after we get married.
I would like him 2 tell me the intellectual things he finds sexy in a woman.
Tell me whats it like inside of me..
 

all of that in one tune?? i'll need a guest rapper:)
 

I agree with you, but i would also like to hear them promise that they wont hurt you and tell me that they cant live without you and that its you and only you that they want yo start a family with.
 

you sure you want promises that are so hard to keep? how about not intentionally hurting and the desire to make things right no matter what?
 

That even though there are rough times, he will keep smiling to remind me we have happy days ahead
And neither one of us is perfect but he loves my flaws as well.
 

that's nice. rough times come and go....
 

that he will love me no matter what i look like, and will stick by me through thick and thin
 

what if you're a trouble maker. should he deal with it?
 

i would want him to say . . .
through every challenge there's opportunity
the opportunity to learn from each other
to grow and build with each other
through understanding and patience
understanding doesn't mean we have to agree with each other
its simply the ability to comprehend and be tolerant of
one another's opinion and/or behavior.
like the seed growing in the womb
there's contractions that bring forth pain
but we can birth blessings
if we're willing to see it through
 

we can birth blessings. i like how that feels when you read it. luv that t.
 

Here is something that I would love to hear in a song (though it's your song, you can do whatever you want..haha): A guy and a girl were very much in love, but the they were too young to be together so he went with someone else (who was meaningless) instead. So the girl he actually loved disappeared from his life, something that he didn't want, which broke his heart. A year later, they see each other again and he realizes how much he still is in love with her, and realizes the mistake he made in the past. So I would LOVE to hear a song about this guy wallowing in his guilt and sorrow over this girl for not being in his life, and for wanting her still after all of this time has gone by.
 

hmm. i wrote one almost like that. it's called 'if i knew...' it's a collab with Jimmy Sommers check jimmysommers.com. if it's not enough i'll do a part 2.
 

I would love to hear a song about how he feels when she's not there. I would like him to describe how she smells. He could talk about going in her closet and looking at his favorite dress. He could go in the bathroom and remember a moment they had in the tub or shower. He could go to the kitchen and remember something they did in there too. I want a song about a man really missing his woman.
 

awww.
 

LOL wait you haven't said plenty already?

How do you feel when she's gone?
tell us about a simple 24 hours with her

tell the world how much you love her and will do whatever to protect her.

If you've already done this, I apologize, I got hooked on 5 tracks and I'm still wearing them out...

Peace & Blessings
 

yeah. i say a bunch of stuff. this is a direct link into the minds of people i've never met from all over the world. i'm grateful to have a way of hearing new points of view.
 

i'd like to hear you sing about a woman being your addiction metaphysically of course. like a drug or a drink having extreme highs and extreme lows, but loving every minute.
it'd be great if i could cameo on that song somehow too ;)
 

yeah addiction. search my 1st lp. international affairs. seek the song 'desperately' tell what you think.
 

I would to hear him note every wonderful quality he loves about me.

I want him to tell me every part of me he'd nibble on without reserve.

I would like to hear his philosophies on love and how much I match them.

I want him to be very creative in every approach to love and to be able to exhibit that in each of these ways.
 

you want a song about a loving hungry man:)
 

As a songwriter myself ...I think i would love to hear a song about How a man keeps passing up on a really good girl cuz maybe she is not what he had in mind for his wife yet he is attracted to her...she may not be a size two or eight but she is still beautiful but how he is caught up in the superficial of it.....he sees her some years later with a wonderful man and wants to take her from him...because he realized he loved her...but it maybe too late....
 

true story?
 

First, I think you've already tapped into what a lot of women would like to hear from a man they care about. With that said, I personally would like to hear not only words of endearment, but words of encouragement.

I want to hear him tell me that my intelligence challenges him, that my warmness and caring towards others is what has drawn him closer to me, to name one quirky thing about me that he notices (some men don't notice these little things), to let me know that even in the midst of struggle we will triumph if we stick together, that he can feel my touch on his skin even when we're physically apart, that he loves the way our tongues 'talk' to each other when we're embracing.

Good luck with the next album!
 

Monsieur V! I saw your blog and the responses, and I must say, ya gotta get wit DIS!

This is what women REALLY are thinkin'....hehe

http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/561877622.html
 

Interesting...
 

The most important factor is his ability to sincerely convey How and What he feels: for her, for life and for their connection.Keep things sacred and divine. To be so in tune to a woman that the transference of energy can create a constellation..There is a Zen quote where tells another man,"That it is no good to try and fill a woman with love for u- it is better to fill her love of herself and u receive the overflow...........................OneLove.....share from ur depths
 

Hi Vik:

First let me commend you for asking this question. It's refreshing to hear a man WILLING to write a song about what we want to hear from our man.

Personally, I love when my man tells me how lucky he is to have me and that I'm his best friend. I love when he declares that he understands I'm a good woman and have options. I love to hear him tell me that he appreciates my NATURAL beauty and that I don't have to dress/look/act like a video chick to gain/keep his attention.

For the purpose of your songs, it would be nice to hear a man say that when I leave him, there's a void in his life. I would like to hear a man say how attracted he is to my inner beauty, my intellect, my lyrical soul, and calming spirit. I am so attracted to promises of unconditional love and endless respect.
 

Vikter: This is what I'd like to contribute...

The "song" is in each day he lives for her, honoring her soul... celebrating his love for her.
The "lyric" is the moment he opens his eyes each morning and says adoringly to her:
Thank God for you my love!!! Another day with you is a chance for love, radiant beauty and exponential growth by the grace of the sweetness in your breath and the softness in your touch...God bless it, you and us - forever.
 

I want him to say that from the very first time he laid eyes on me he knew in his spirit, in his core, deep in his marrow that I was the one.
I want him to say that every time he looks at me he knows for sure there is a god.
I want him to say that I am such a part of him that when he looks in the mirror he sometimes sees my face instead of his.
I want him to say that he can't remember his life before I came and that the thought of life with out me would be unbearable.
I want him to say that he loves what he knows of me and trusts what he doesn't know.
I want him to say that I make him want to be a better person.
I want him to say that I am what he had been praying for all his life.
I want him to say when we make love I make his body and his soul tremble and that the first time we made love he couldn't hold back the tears.
I want him to tell me he loves my lips and the the taste of my mouth.
I want him to say that he's sure that he is sure and he wants to take the vow.
I want him to say that we are the prototype, we are what god intended love should be.

Thanks for asking, Vikter.

(Trust, there's so much more I'd want him to say)
 

Ooooh. I got a lot of shit! lol

That my love is so bold
I satisfy his very soul
he wants to stay inside me
until we both grow old.

;)
 

Yes, who better to ask than women themselves - thank you for the opportunity to speak on the subject and thanks to all the ladies who have already commented - wise words.

Like the saying goes: the largest sex organ is the brain.

I like a man who can offer intellectual, emotional and sexual stimulation in equal measures. A goodlooking guy with nothing much to say doesn't hold my interest for more than a few minutes, but a man who connects with me on a deep level has my full and undivided attention.

My ideal man: he is confident, but not arrogant. Masculine, not macho. Mature, but playful. Funny, but not manic. Sexual, but faithful. Kind and generous. A good listener and a good talker. Eclectic taste. A soothing voice, a clean body and mind, who dresses sharp and takes care of himself.

A boyfriend or husband should be like a bra: sexy and supportive!

I like when I sense that a man is as into me as I am into him, who is turned on by me - body and mind and soul.

What is a sexy song in my opinion? Prince and Marvin Gaye are obvious choices, but Bruce Springsteen's "I'm on fire" is also incredibly sexy - and so is the video. David Bowie's "China Girl" is very sexy. These guys understand women - or at least in their songs they do!

Jill Scott showed great insight into the female psyche on her two first albums. Prince understands the female psyche.

A woman needs to feel loved and desired. She needs to know she's the one and that her man is going to stick around.

It's often said that women give sex to get love and that men give love to get sex, but I don't buy that entirely: there are many men who want to connect with their partner and lover on a deep level and for whom sex is also an expression of the love they feel. My kinda guy.

Here are the lyrics for a neo-soul song of mine from, written from a man's point of view after the relationship has ended. He misses her body and her face, but he also misses her: the whole person that she is.

_______________________________________________________________________

ECHOES

Seems like she's right there
In the car
Reaching over to touch his face

Seems like she's right there
On the couch
Fingertips on his thigh

Seems like she's right there
On the counter
Legs resting on his hips

CHORUS:
Everywhere are echoes of
Her sighs
Her moans
And when he closes his eyes
He can feel her
He can taste her

Feels like she's right there
In the bedroom
Whispering she wants him now

Feels like she's right there
On the cool sheet
Warm skin against his hand

Feels like she's right there
In his arms
Drifting in and out of sleep

[Repeat chorus]

______________________________________________________________________

Book recomendation: "The Mature Masculine" - written by two male authors in the early 1990s with many great things to say about the male psyche (and the female psyche). The main thesis: being a masculine man has nothing to do with being macho.

(Google the title)
 

tell me i´m the only one!
 

Clara, Eric Benet wrote that song "You're the Only One"
 

Hey Unc... I married P because when I asked him why he loved me, he said "Just because I do."

A song about a man loving a woman just because for no other reason than just because she is who she is would be beautiful.

Love ya!
 

Or you can just say nothing...
Just gasp as I dance the most private dance...

Words weigh little,
they should float away as murmering echoes,
and be background music to our tightening embrace

Then my dance becomes ours
the rhythm we create
and your lips
its words don't just tickle my ears
but delicately carress my trembling skin.
 

This may not be terribly romantic but here goes:

--he sees and treats me as an equal

--he respects my individuality and won't try to put me in a box of what the world thinks the "perfect woman" is

--I can worship or express my faith in front of him, without feeling strangely about it

--he trusts and values my thoughts and opinions
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You rock Vikter! When the heck do we get a "Kiss N Grind Party" in the NYC?
The bling-bling/thug party scene up here is just too tired!
 

All the words his heart spoke that his mind wouldn't let his lips utter....
 

I want him to tell me how he wants me to please him both mentally and physically,
and how he wants to please me in return,
and I want him to really go in detail about the physical part of pleasing me, saying it in a way that it's never been said...I want him to push himself mentally,
I would like to hear a man talk about the deep things that go on inside his own mind.
I want him to tell me why I was fortunate enough to receive the Keys to His Kingdom,
I want to hear about his faults, and the things that separate him from all the other men,
I want him to woo me and talk about my feet, (lol)
I want to know what keeps him coming home at night,
and what drew him to me in the first place,
I want to know what makes me his muse,
no fairytale promises,
just real stuff,
I want to hear him know and explore himself,
so that he’ll know how to explore me.
-Sinse!
(hope I was able to help)
 

I want to know.....

My smile lights his day,

My touch soothes his him,

My kiss stirs him,

My mind stimulates him,

My love strengthens him.

 

Hi Vikter,
I'd like you to sing about a lady who feels that she never meets the right guy - but she has to realise she won't meet the right guy because there's no such thing as a right guy!
Also, that thinking that way will not bring that type of person into her life.

Also how about a guy who feels that he has nothing to offer a lady, but if he searches his heart he'll realise he has much to offer and more.


Looks are great but it's really what inside that stirs the soul!

Keep making the wonderful music.

x
 

I meet him and he is absolutely everything I've been looking for my whole life...........except for one problem..............he is SO emotionally unavailable............and I'm not really sure why.......is it b/c someone hurt him that bad or does he just like being free.........or is he NOT free???????so what do I do.........keep trying??? walk away???? tell me vik.......write me a song!!! lmao!!!!

Keep it up, loving your music. Telling as many people as possible to check out your website....I was on the subway (NYC) the other day and had your music playing on my ipod......some guy next to me asked me who I was listening to.....(damn, I guess I had it a little loud!!! lol) I told him and wrote down your website for him and told him to check you out!!
 

A WOMAN WOULD LIKE HEAR HOW U REFLECT YOURSELF IN HER, DIVINELY DAHLING, THAT'S HOW U ADORE HER, U ADORE YOUR SELF.

 

but Mr Duplaix...there's so much seductive appeal in the mystery of the unknown *S*.

as a woman, it's pretty flattering to know that you as a man, genuinely want to know which special theme would rock a woman to the core...but aren't the magic words different for every individual woman? intuition is the key to opening pandora's box. and having sampled the delights of your music..that box is damn near as good as open.
*S*


onwards in your intuitive essence...

gisella-b xx
 

What a woman wants to hear a man say to her in a song..? oh. No. Personally, I'm done with trying to get people to love me how I want to be loved. I find it to be infinitely simpler and more satisfying to allow people to love me in the ways that they know. One of the greatest conflicts we face as a gender, a race, a species is that we're constantly projecting our own system of ideals/beliefs onto one another. Why else would there be holy wars..? My biggest challenge over the last 3 years was not just to accept the decisions of those around me (and beyond) if they were different to how I would go about the question, but to do the work to try and get inside the intention. Compassion allows us to feel the pain of another instantly. (well, it can.. or at least, used to..) but understanding allows us to see intention.. I saw a movie recently called "PS I love you", which was actually beautiful. But the opening scene is a PISSED OFF woman and her poor unwitting partner who's desperately trying to figure out what he did wrong and accepts blame for it even when he doesnt understand. This gets us nowhere. It gets US nowhere. As in, neither women NOR men. Now, I love my gender, but I think its counterproductive for women to be asking men to blindly pander to their every (silent!) whim. There's no empowerment in that at all.


What do I want to hear a man say to me in a song..?

How about exactly how he feels. Whichever way he feels it. Give me plain truth and freedom above transitory ego-stroking anyday. The upside of it is, if you find the man who resonates with exactly who you are, the words are likely to come sweetly nevertheless....

xx
 

Well, I like qirls. -Aswell as quys, too, of course. {[I'm bisexual.
]}

I would like to hear really sappy stuff. I don't care what anybody else thinks or believes, its not cliche to me. The sweeter, &/or sappier - the better! Chivalry isn't dead, either.
[DAMNiT!]* lolz

Some sexy thinqs I would like to hear would have to be sexual.
Haha!

I'm really into poetry. I make poems all the time. I quess I can say what I would like to hear varies from the kind of person, & how truly poetic and qenuine the man is.


I would love to hear a man say how qreat it feels to feel my body melt into his every time he holds me from behind. I love hearinq anythinq about touchinq. I love when quys whisper in my ear, and nibble my neck so qently that I can barley stand it. I like qettinq rouqh with quys. I like when they take control, and are so fierce & masculine... yet, they know JUST how to feel up on me. They can be so soft & qentle with me. Its simply amazinq. I love hearinq a man say he misses me. I love hearinq a man say "I dedicate this to you" for whatever sweet reason.


I like very detailed scenes of romantic/sexual-like acts. [role-playinqs, I quess you can call them.
]

I dont know. Maybe ill come back with some of my poems.


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I love your music. It seriously touches my soul. I sware, when I was listeninq to, ''Nothinq like your touch''- I felt faint. It qave me this really smooth vibe, that made me want to make love. Its crazy, but I feel connected to your sonqs. Haha, its baby-makinq music. The sonq, the words, your voice - it fits in with perfect harmony. It cradles me. & Makes me qet those warm fuzzies. Your extremley talented. & I want you to know; I'm puttinq that sonq on my paqe, as soon as I'm done usinq my current one.


Your amazinq, so please.. keep up the qood [flawless!] work.