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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Age: 24
Sign: Libra

City: Los Angeles, New York, West Columbia
State: South Carolina
Country: US
Signup Date: 3/8/2006

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Saturday, July 28, 2007 

Current mood:  sad
I lay in my bed tossing and turning waiting on someone to wake me up from this horrible nightnmare. What nightmare you may ask? The nightmare that I thought I would never have to deal with the news that my best friend is dead. I immediately scream out in pain and sorrow. Thousands of questions raise in my head. What, Why, When, How? But first I just yell it can't be not my BIG SISTER CHERL.....The one who was there when I thought I could not make it in Dominica.She believed in me, kept me going when times were rough. Cheryl I am hurting.....hurting so bad because there was so much more I wanted to tell you and do with you. I will always remember our laughs, our cries, and every single moment I will cherish it always. Until we meet again.....you will always have your African Sister Joy. I will continue to shine and do awesome things in life. I will make you proud for sure. I LOVE YOU SOOOOO MUCH AND YOU WILL BE MISS ALWAYS.
STRONGWILLED
witchy poo

 
my heart weeps Joy...

Cheryl will be missed by many...
such a tragity...so young...so much to offer...a loving woman~
I feel your pain Joy...and I am so sorry for the loss of your dear friend~

I am here for you~

k~
 
Posted by STRONGWILLED on Saturday, July 28, 2007 - 5:08 PM
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Cindy
Cindy Overman-Covert

 
I just got word this morning. I have known Cheryl for a LONG time, we both grew up in Grand Coulee. I was closer in age to her brother, Mike and she was the little tag along.....She will be sorely missed by all who had the privelege of knowing her and calling her "my friend". She is without a doubt one of the strongest women I have ever known. I guess sometimes grief can even overpower the strong. She emailed me a few days ago and I wish I could have done more to be there for her. I guess you can never know.....
 
Posted by Cindy on Saturday, July 28, 2007 - 5:55 PM
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Nessa
Nessa Nemir

 
My darling Joy... Like you, I'm up like a zombie surfing myspace... can't sleep just so shocked.... I love you!!!!!!!! Cheryl, you rascal, you are keeping your pirate sisters awake.... and we already miss you soooooo much, beautiful woman.... :(
 
Posted by Nessa on Saturday, July 28, 2007 - 6:26 PM
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karen

 
We're so sorry to hear about Cheryl. My 9 year old daughter so enjoys the show. She was so upset that it was cancelled and to hear about Cheryl! I really enjoyed watching Cheryl and so admired her working with abused children! My daughter just loves you Nessa. It was nice watching a show on primetime that a child could watch like Survivor and Dancing with the Stars, which she just got into this past season. She was very bummed your show went off the air but will watch it on the web tomorrow. Our hearts go out to Cheryl’s family and friend’s – God Bless!
 
Posted by karen on Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 10:18 PM
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silverbluegoddess

 
I'm so sorry to hear that Cheryl died.
 
Posted by silverbluegoddess on Saturday, July 28, 2007 - 8:26 PM
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MICHELLE
Michelle Steele Wade

 
Dearest Joy,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss! Cheryl, was a strong woman, whom I enjoyed watching on Pirates!
You and her family and friends will be in my thoughts and prayers!

Michelle
 
Posted by MICHELLE on Saturday, July 28, 2007 - 8:58 PM
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Gina

 
That is so sad. I don't even know what happened - I'm just getting bits & pieces of this as I look on the internet for what happened. I interviewed Cheryl right after she was cut adrift & told her how much I admired the fact that she was just herself, making it very interesting to wach. I talked to you as well, if your remember. I am saddened by this news & I'm hoping for you to have strength in this difficult time.
 
Posted by Gina on Sunday, July 29, 2007 - 3:56 PM
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Chuck

 
I've been a fan of PIRATE MASTER, and I was shocked to hear the news. Cheryl just seemed so strong and it's so sad that life took her down a path she couldn't handle. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of the Pirates - cast and crew - and you have my deepest sympathies.
 
Posted by Chuck on Sunday, July 29, 2007 - 10:00 PM
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Joseph

 
Oh, my God! What exactly happened? The "word" is that Cheryl hung herself because she was despondent over her boyfriend taking his own life back in June?! Is that true!? Or just a rumor? That's so horrible! My heart aches for her friends and family...
 
Posted by Joseph on Sunday, July 29, 2007 - 10:06 PM
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♥ Trina Bean ♥
Trina Starke

 
I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. I learned of it just this morning. I was a fan of the show and am in shock. I am so so sorry.
 
Posted by ♥ Trina Bean ♥ on Monday, July 30, 2007 - 10:26 PM
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Traci
Traci Green

 
I am so very sorry.
 
Posted by Traci on Monday, July 30, 2007 - 10:27 PM
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Sahana Mirwais

 
i am so sorry to hear of your loss....my brother took his own life 2 days after xmas.....i completely know how you feel....and although i hated it when ppl told me this....but with time the pain will get easier...it never goes away, just compartmentalized....
again i am soooo very sorry
 
Posted by Sahana Mirwais on Monday, July 30, 2007 - 10:27 PM
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Geminat
Geminat Bonaduce

 
it could be worse....ummm....yikes....sorry.
 
Posted by Geminat on Monday, July 30, 2007 - 10:28 PM
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S

 
I am so sorry.
She was so strong and in such a place to make such an impact on this world...she will be missed.

I am so sorry for your loss.
 
Posted by S on Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 10:16 PM
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Carli

 
Stay strong and you will get over this, keep her close to your heart and always remember the good times, it is soo dissapointing that there are some people who are intent on wanting to knwo the details of her passing. i dont know you, and i didnt know Cheryl, but i feel you need all of the well wishes and love you can get. please know that you have so many people who love you and will help you through this, dont be affraid to just houl out loud and get all of the hurt and grief out.

i have worked alot with people who are grieving for alot of different reasons, if you ever feel that you need a strangers ear, that will remain confidential then please feel free to drop me a line, here in oz, on myspace.

you are an amazing friend and a beautifull person.

stay strong.
All the best and take care
kind regards
carli xx
 
Posted by Carli on Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 10:16 PM
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Kacie, the Animal Communicator

 
My heart goes out to you Joy as you begin your long journey ahead. I lost my best friend when he was murdered and so I know this road all to well. Know that she will ALWAYS be with you! In the quiet moments of your day she will be there.........

Namaste,
Kacie, Founder of Sharing Grief Awakening Life
www.geocities.com/sharinggriefawakeniglife
 
Posted by Kacie, the Animal Communicator on Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 10:18 PM
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karen

 
We're so sorry to hear about Cheryl. My 9 year old daughter so enjoys the show. She was so upset that it was cancelled and to hear about Cheryl! I really enjoyed watching Cheryl and so admired her working with abused children! It was nice watching a show on primetime that a child could watch like Survivor and Dancing with the Stars, which she just got into this past season. She was very bummed your show went off the air but will watch it on the web tomorrow. Our hearts go out to Cheryl’s family and friend’s – God Bless!
 
Posted by karen on Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 10:18 PM
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®Wendy®

 
So very sorry for your loss! God's Speed
 
Posted by ®Wendy® on Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 10:19 PM
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Eliz

 
Cheryl was an amazing person. The world is somehow less bright knowing she wont be there to protect and defend those of us who couldn't protect ourselves. I wish someone could have helped her, the way she helped so many.

I'll never forget her ;)
 
Posted by Eliz on Tuesday, July 31, 2007 - 10:25 PM
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pounce

 
my condolences are with you. i used to work with Cheryl in Las Vegas. she was an amazing woman and she will be missed.
 
Posted by pounce on Wednesday, August 01, 2007 - 3:01 PM
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Cassykins

 
I was just talking to someone else about how strong she seemed on the show, like she was a person who just couldn't be broken down. It really goes to show you can't take everyone for face value. Yes she was strong, but also human. It's so easy to forget that about people you only see on tv. My families thougts are with her, wherever she may now be, as well as her family and friends.
 
Posted by Cassykins on Wednesday, August 01, 2007 - 3:01 PM
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Scott
Scott Lyons

 
Joy- I've watched the show (and continue to on cbs.com), and when I heard this news I just got really sad. This was obiously a very difficult time for Cheryl, and I'm so sorry you're hurting. I dont know you, or any of your friends, but this story was so tragic I just felt the need to say I'm sorry.
 
Posted by Scott on Wednesday, August 01, 2007 - 3:17 PM
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Rebecca

 
I may be on the other side of the world, but that does not lessen the pain and sorrow I feel. Not everyone new Cheryl (including myself) but everyone knows loss. I would like to pass on my sincerest condolences, love, and the worlds biggest collective hug from all Australians. We have only had a small taste of Pirate Master over here (about 3-4 epps) but I for one see Cheryl (and all the girls on board) as strong, successfull women. Women to be proud of.
To all Cheryls Friends and Family....... You have my Heart and my Prayers.
Rebecca
 
Posted by Rebecca on Wednesday, August 01, 2007 - 3:17 PM
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JELLYBEANS

 
I am so sorry for your loss. I love watching pirate master, Cheryl was one of my favorites. I can't believe it, may God be there in your time of morning.
 
Posted by JELLYBEANS on Wednesday, August 01, 2007 - 3:19 PM
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♥ Dona-Lee ♥

 
Sorry for your loss, I was wondering what happened to my favorite show this season, and now I read why. God bless
 
Posted by ♥ Dona-Lee ♥ on Thursday, August 02, 2007 - 7:04 AM
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~+Mysticjade57+~

 
Such a shock when i heard the news....my heart goes out to all of Cheryl's family and friends! May she rest in peace!
 
Posted by ~+Mysticjade57+~ on Thursday, August 02, 2007 - 7:05 AM
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Douglas

 
I am so sorry for your loss. As a fan of the PM show, I grew to know Cheryl as a stong intelligent woman who had everything going for her. She was an awesome competitor and honestly I find myself shocked by this. My prayers go out to you and Cheryl's family. I am truly sorry.
 
Posted by Douglas on Tuesday, August 07, 2007 - 4:54 PM
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***JoJo*** 717 ***
Jo Wilson

 
I know how you feel read my blog.....
 
Posted by ***JoJo*** 717 *** on Sunday, September 23, 2007 - 6:27 PM
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~*~Tam DeCam~*~
Tammy DeCambra Miller

 
Joy~I really enjoyed the show and i was extremely pissed when you guys were bumped!!! 5yrs ago i moved from Cincy to Kansas per my moms request to help me & my husband at the time get back on our feet....4 mos. later i watched my mom die from a self inflicted drug overdose...i will never be the same and it is certainly not anything i will ever get over. The only helpful thing that i could possibly say is that believe it or not it does get better(in a sense) and although that first yr is a blur and i repeatedly cut my wrists as i didn't know how to go on without her...it was the thought of my precious sons and the love of a good man that kept me alive. My heart goes out to you and her family and anyone else who loved Cheryl...it is such a shame to me when people quit "5 minutes before the mirace" and it's most definitely a permanent solution to a temporary problem. God bless you and yours joy!
Sincerely,
Tam
 
Posted by ~*~Tam DeCam~*~ on Sunday, October 07, 2007 - 6:23 AM
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