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Friday, February 06, 2009 

..............Come one, come all… ....

It’s a new year…so as my dear friend Miss
Woods says, ‘let’s find something new to talk about!’ My theme this year; let
go of the past, and focus on all of the beautiful things that are about to fill
our future!  I know most of you find that relevant to me in relation to my
departure from dear ol’ DK.  I’ve stayed away from directly responding or
commenting on the negativity, or misguided views and judgments that have unfortunately
been the voice of summarizing Danity Kane.  But, since I’ve launched a new
myspace, and have a new theme of the year… its only fair to finally put my
thoughts of DK to rest.
....

For those of you who care, Danity Kane was
a beautiful experience, filled with all of life’s wonderful ups and downs, and
I will forever be blessed to have had that experience with none other than
Drea, Dawn, Shan, and D.  Each one of those girls is a talent to be
reckoned with… and beyond pure talent which I hands down experienced on a daily
basis from each girl, each girl really did want to be a role model and change
the world in their own little way… and that’s what made us real, what made us
the truth, what made us something to believe in, and that inner desire on all
of our parts has not changed… you may be seeing expression of emotions
succeeding expression of actual reality, but that does not change the reality
that every girl in this group had a dream, and we fought long and hard to see it
become reality.  There is no rulebook to life, and how to handle your
dreams once you get them.  We are NOT a sad story of loose, betrayal, and
something to teach you what not to do next time… we are a story of courage,
determination, fearlessness, and at the end of the day, real emotion.  We
made not have given the world the answer to how to make different types of
women unite as one for eternity… but we wanted to try and that’s more than most
do! 
....

That all said, lets support the future of
us all, and forgive the negativity and lost emotions.  Life is to be
enjoyed and cherished, and experience is something we should all be thankful
for, not look at in regret.  We all have lost jobs, suffered bad
relationships, felt suffocated, unappreciated, sick of giving in, and
determined to take a stand whether anyone is behind us or not… SO really, like
we always said… we were never any different than anyone else… and we loved
that! 
 ....

THUS, My first blog! One of many to come,
I love you all, stay happy, its all we have! 
 ....

Aubrey   ....

P.S.  cop the playboy in stores Feb.
13th, it's only partial nudity… and one of the most beautiful works I’ve created
thus far!  Part of me finally letting it all go!   
....

P.P.S. Remember guys… It’s not over when you lose, it’s over
when you quit!




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RObert_O

 
Beautifully said Aubrey! Danity Kane was aws0me g0nna miss it but you gotta d0 what U g0tta d0 :) g00D LUck & kant waitt f0r ur aLbum
 
Posted by RObert_O on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 5:45 PM
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Connie

 
You're more mature about this (DK breakup) than I am and I'm 64! I can't wait to buy your CD, so please keep us informed on that end too. You're an incredible entertainer! I always thought you would eventually have your own singing career, but DK was a lovely sound.
Wishing you the BEST!
 
Posted by Connie on Sunday, February 08, 2009 - 7:31 PM
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·•Miśš F.βąbŸ•·™
Fallon Baby

 
perfectly written girl!
 
Posted by ·•Miśš F.βąbŸ•·™ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 6:32 PM
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♫ Erika ♫

 
Keep on Aubrey!!! ;) I'm with ya..especially when you believe in what you're doing 180%!! Come back to PDX sooN!
 
Posted by ♫ Erika ♫ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:01 PM
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~*~Soon to Be Mrs. Dajia Jones~*~
Katie Walz

 
Wonderfully said Aubrey. Continue to fight for ur dream, good luck w/ it.

 
Posted by ~*~Soon to Be Mrs. Dajia Jones~*~ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:01 PM
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*Stephanie*
stephanie tenny

 
Wow...That was beautiful and MATURE...which should be a KEY word here...p.s. I hate QUE now, I hope he realizes how many potential fans he could lose with his senseless words...."the reason for dk ending is aubrey" seriously!! grow up..please!! bad bad move on his part. And miss aubrey, we are devastated for the end of DK, but completely understand your reasoning for not returning.

 
Posted by *Stephanie* on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:01 PM
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CANDYleggs

 
can I say AMEN!!?? Good luck in all your future works and remember like a wise beautiful young lady who was just coming into herself once said "It's not over when you lose, it's over when you QUIT!" Best of wishes~Candy
 
Posted by CANDYleggs on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:02 PM
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James M. (twitter me @JamesMonega)

 
No one could have said it better, of course.
You're amazing, Aubrey!
<3
 
Posted by James M. (twitter me @JamesMonega) on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:03 PM
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Jay]] go add me on facebook.com/jsantos978
J Santos

 
no matter what, you will always be part of DK in my corazon. I wish you the best future, and hope you find true happiness in whatever you pursue in life.


PS.
i will cop that mag the 13th if you autograph it ;)
 
Posted by Jay]] go add me on facebook.com/jsantos978 on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:03 PM
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Jen Jen

 
I love Danity Kane and always will, Aubrey you are the reason I loved Danity Kane and without you it will not be the same, but I look forward to anything you will do in the future as I know you are a very talented woman! You are a great role model to me just because of the fact that you are real, down to earth, and speak your mind, but to me you always said things the right way, I dont think you have ever come across as arrogant or have ever come out in a rude way, this is who you are and we all knew this when you got accepted into Danity Kane, I dont think Diddy knows what he is thinking, but I believe there is a light at the end of the tunnel and you are going to get through this and come out great and do wonderful things in the future, and I cant wait to see what it will be, I will always support you Aubrey, Love Jennifer.

 
Posted by Jen Jen on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:04 PM
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♥♥ARTIE♥♥

 
Well Aubrey, you couldn't of said it any better! You continue to inspire and be a great role model to many in this world, and I never doubted whether you be in DK or not that you would change the world, after all, DK is only a group name, the people made the group, DK is just the name of it, so get ready for a great year, because you made it this far!
 
Posted by ♥♥ARTIE♥♥ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:05 PM
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rolling0stone
Tara Trautman

 
you are so well spoken. "dont cry because it's over, smile because it happend" is my motto. best of luck.
xoxo
tara
 
Posted by rolling0stone on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:05 PM
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║█ » тнє вα∂∂єѕт вiiтɔн ♥|«╝ █║
Hisz Wifey

 
im soooo sad to see you go!!!! you girls as a group was beautiful and many people looked up to you. Reguardless i still wish you the best of luck in your future.

 
Posted by ║█ » тнє вα∂∂єѕт вiiтɔн ♥|«╝ █║ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:06 PM
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★Gabby☆
Gabby Talavera

 
i love it!
 
Posted by ★Gabby☆ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:06 PM
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screweduptexas
CHESTIN B

 
just partial?
 
Posted by screweduptexas on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:06 PM
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Erin

 
Aubrey, everything you have to say is fantastic. I'm sure you will look fantastic in playboy! And amen to your PPS.

 
Posted by Erin on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:06 PM
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Lulu aka LDC~
Lourdes Cantero

 
Sometimes a person has to face hard decisions and this is one of many Miss O'Day....Good Luck~
 
Posted by Lulu aka LDC~ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:06 PM
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phuong
phuong nguyen

 
AMEN!!!! You know that you will always have my support girl! Love you!! :) Congrats on the playboy and its actually being released the week of your bday, thats awsome!!!
 
Posted by phuong on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:08 PM
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Vincent Aaron Grippo, CCA
Vincent Aaron Grippo, Cca

 
Danity Kane isn't going to be the same without you!
 
Posted by Vincent Aaron Grippo, CCA on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:09 PM
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Jonten.Milan ;)

 
Ms Aubrey you brought a great flavor to danity kane, and it is truely sad to see you girls split apart.. but sometimes you have to do what is best for you in life, and not you everyone else wants you to do.. you do what makes you happy!

<3 you much

jonny
 
Posted by Jonten.Milan ;) on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:12 PM
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Working...
Jayy Rodrigues

 
Well said!!
 
Posted by Working... on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:12 PM
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Tia/The Creativ1

 
What an awesome message, and boy did I need to hear this today! Keep doing what you do girl.
You're a STAR! I wish you continued success!
 
Posted by Tia/The Creativ1 on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:13 PM
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Stephanie Misses MJ
Stephanie Garcia

 
Thank you Aubrey! I hope you keep making music, and come out with a album soon.

 
Posted by Stephanie Misses MJ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:13 PM
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Z Marié ™

 
Girlllll that's right, well said,,,ur a shining star that will keep on shining....
 
Posted by Z Marié ™ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:14 PM
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Jennifer
Jennifer Jones

 
If i may say just this one thing! No one has brought up the fact that diddy wanted all of yalls looks to change and how you were seen. For a while it was confusing as to what he wanted from yall. He did these make overs and then now doesn't like the fact that it gained you attention and or new job offers (i.e. modeling) why hasn't anyone brought this up or called HIM on it. I like him but not the control that he put out there. It didn't appear that you were allowed to speak or have a say and for that i'm glad that part is over for you. I sat in front of that TV trying to speak for you or others when it seemed he wouldn't allow it. I just had to get this off my chest because as a fan i see him in a different light and i don't like it.
I am however proud of you attitude and class!!! You go girl!!!
 
Posted by Jennifer on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:15 PM
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Dianne
Dianne Stevens

 
You all have talent or DK would not have been the success that it was! I loved it and I am sure I will love whatever any of you decide to put out there! By the way very inspirational blog! luv it!
 
Posted by Dianne on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:15 PM
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*BaRbIe* twitter.com/JessicaCorban

 
I really hope everything works out for all of you! you were all very talented.. and I can only imagine how hard it would have been to be in any of your shoes!! I wish you the best <3 Jess
 
Posted by *BaRbIe* twitter.com/JessicaCorban on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:15 PM
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Ambar[La Tua Cantante♥]

 
I love what you said Aubrey! I hope that no matter what you do you have success!
 
Posted by Ambar[La Tua Cantante♥] on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:16 PM
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Socheath Sun Photography
socheath sun

 
i love dk but the reason why i love that group was because i love aubrey and now that aubreys out im a full time AUBREY ODAY FAN.........AUBREY POO you are an inspiration to me.....i agree with everything you say from the haters to the lovers.......and i just wanna say that you are a real woman.........i loooove YOU
 
Posted by Socheath Sun Photography on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:17 PM
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*~SupaBadd!!!~*

 
I'm gonna miss DK!!!
The Play-Boy Rumors were TRUE...LOL!

*~R~*
 
Posted by *~SupaBadd!!!~* on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:17 PM
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*KRISTIE*
Kristie Tamburri

 
U girls really inspired me and still do. The truth is that everyone goes through things in life but its all about being CONFIDENT. I'm glad that ur still doin ur thing. Just never forget the experiences and u still have many more to come.
Keep doin ur thing Aubrey! Luv ya = ]
 
Posted by *KRISTIE* on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:17 PM
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JAMES LAWRENCE McGILLICUTTY
James Lawrence McGillicutty

 
I want to hear a FULL VERSION of "Feel Me"!!!
 
Posted by JAMES LAWRENCE McGILLICUTTY on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:18 PM
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Jessie

 
Love it!
 
Posted by Jessie on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:18 PM
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Taz Marley
Jamaal Conley

 
Damn! So I guess you really check your myspace....I ain't gonna lie, I didn't read this at all I just think you're hot as a summer day in hell
 
Posted by Taz Marley on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:19 PM
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*KRISTIE*
Kristie Tamburri

 
I really looked up to u guys but what u said is the truth. Everyone goes through different things in life. I'm just glad that ur being confident and still doin ur thing. Keep it up and just never forget the experiences u had the the new ones ur gonna make. Love ya.

 
Posted by *KRISTIE* on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:19 PM
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Lee™ thats me !!!!!

 
Amazing ..
 
Posted by Lee™ thats me !!!!! on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:20 PM
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HEATHER

 
IM SO GLAD THAT YOU STOOD UP TO PUFFY, BECAUSE HE SEEMS TO HAVE A LOT OF BITCHASSNESS IN HIM!! IM GLAD THAT YOU WERE ABLE TO COME INTO YOUR OWN LIFE AND NOT LET ANY ONE HOLD YOU DOWN. I DNT THINK I COULD WORK WITH HIM EITHER.
HE'S A LITTLE TOO MUCH! LOOKIN FOWARD TO SEEING YOU IN PLAYBOY! YOU GO GIRL! HEATHER
 
Posted by HEATHER on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:20 PM
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JaNiNe A!!
Janine Anderson

 
I am so happy that you have found peace within yourself. I hope the other girls can do the same thing. Thanks for the blog.
You are inspirational!
 
Posted by JaNiNe A!! on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:21 PM
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Miss Ashley
Ashley Johnson

 
Aubrey,

I wasn't the biggest fan of Danity Kane, but I did like the group. And like you said, "...there are things that happened between the five of us that you'll never know...that you'll never see..." You're right. Making the Band Series showed us what they wanted to. We'll never know the true situation.


But, luckily, the past is the past, and it's meant to be that way. Everything happens for a reason.


Everyone should stop blaming you, and pointing the fingers at who's the blame for the break up. It's not the END. You never know what's to come in the future.


There's no need to constantly have to dwell on it.


You have a clothing line (which I need to ask you some business related things), a charity, and many others ideas in store for your career.
Good luck with it all!

Anyways,
I wish you the best, love!

Be humble, respectful, intelligent, and sincere. Always be watchful, careful, and honest with yourseslf.


Love You,
Ashley "AJ" Johnson

P.S. To All Who's Reading This: "All good things DON'T come to an END.
Let's LOVE more and not HATE in 2009"
 
Posted by Miss Ashley on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:24 PM
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Uncle Johnny

 
Well done!
 
Posted by Uncle Johnny on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:24 PM
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~♫~Alicia..aka Sweets~♫~

 
Make sure you get your money EVERYTIME a DK song is played on the radio or wherever!!!! You deserve it cuz you were my FAVORITE from the get go! You will rise up above the negativity and you will have a great career in music! Keep workin' that voice Aubrey!!!! Winners never quit..and quitters never win! That's my motto!!!
Love ya!!!

 
Posted by ~♫~Alicia..aka Sweets~♫~ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:24 PM
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~*~ Chelsea~*~
Chelsea Sweet

 
Aubrey that is good.. I can see u guys growing back together.. In life we all have to take what we have done wrong and change those.. U guys can pull back together.. Not seeing and hearing you guys sing is sad... It is taking your differences in life and putting them aside to become better as a group... U are such an amazing girl.. U work hard. And u are deffly one of my favorites out of the group. That is why i liked danity kane so much.. Congrats on putting a blog out. It takes a big person to do that.. And that was good.. Love u aubrey.. Hope to hear more from u.. Peace.. Chels
 
Posted by ~*~ Chelsea~*~ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:25 PM
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Echovalve Georgia Street Team
EChovalve echovalve EChovalve echovalve

 
Way to go, ma'am! Keep truckin' & doing you!!!
Now---come check out Echovalve & let us know what ya think!!!!
You are truely fabulous!!!!!
 
Posted by Echovalve Georgia Street Team on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:25 PM
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☠Japayuki☠

 
p.s.
love the new set up
 
Posted by ☠Japayuki☠ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:34 PM
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GET BACK

 
wow...thats was so nice.i love you boo.your so talented.and im one of the sad fans of danity kane.i was there from the begining.i actually still bump ur dollhouse album on my ipod like everyday.one of fav albums.but ur amaizing.and i will support u on everything u do.hopefully i meet u one day.i already met d woods.and she was awesome.one of my best friends does ur hair sometimes.her name is ms. monique..lol.u inspire me.luv u.and i will be pickin up that playboy mag.yesss bitch.

 
Posted by GET BACK on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:35 PM
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☠Japayuki☠

 
well said. it's just kind of sad that a new season is gonna start so they have to keep bringing up stuff that you are already past! you know how mtv and tv is.. they want to keep bringing stuff up and want a reaction! i'm happy you did post this with class and didn't try to ride the hype train and did it your way.
luv ya girl!
 
Posted by ☠Japayuki☠ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:37 PM
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♥BlaCk BarBie♥Ms.Go HarD Officially out the Wood.

 
I like that, "its not over when you lose, its over when you quit. " So true, so real. I <3 ya Aubrey, f* the way they judge you, I hate it.

 
Posted by ♥BlaCk BarBie♥Ms.Go HarD Officially out the Wood. on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:37 PM
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♂♀aahduhm ™

 
I love you Aubrey.

Your star was shining too bright for DK newayz
and Imma fo sho get that Playboy ;]
 
Posted by ♂♀aahduhm ™ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:37 PM
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* ROBYN *
Robyn Ortega

 
Wow, that was beautiful. I'm so sorry what happened in DK, but Diddy and Dawn were way out of line, and who the hell does Q think he is with his minor 2 cents? Jealous of Dawn??? Please.... girl, you can be a rockin' solo artist, in the covers of any magazine you want, model clothing, lingerie, and work on duets with huge stars. I would love to hear you work with Kanye West, or Pharrell. I definitely back you up. Aubrey is DK, and it will never be good without you. I will follow you.

 
Posted by * ROBYN * on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:38 PM
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GUCCI TY||Lambò Taz¤SKINNY JEANS CREW¤
TyKia H.

 
I LIKE THAT YOUR LETTING GO. GOOD LUCK.

I LOVE YOU AUBREY, KEEP YOUR HAD UP
 
Posted by GUCCI TY||Lambò Taz¤SKINNY JEANS CREW¤ on Friday, February 06, 2009 - 8:38 PM
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