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State: Madrid
Country: ES
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Tuesday, April 10, 2007 

Current mood:  pissed off
Category: Movies, TV, Celebrities
In case you haven't heard the story, read  Don Imus' comments here.

Women of African descent have it hard enough in this country without having to fight the continual perpetuation of -isms spouted by someone as ignorant and MAINSTREAM as Imus. "Rappers call women hos all the time, so what's the big deal?" whines Imus on Al Sharpton's show on Monday. Rappers put out an image where they're hoodish, uneducated, and ghetto. Nothing is expected of them. Are Imus' role models rappers, now? When Imus, so casually in conversation, refers to those young ladies as hos, that's on a whole 'nother level. I appreciate the points a call-in congresswoman made on Al Sharpton's show: "Those young women have fought hard to get where they are and maintain at majority-white Rutgers. They made the team, made it to the playoffs, excelled academically, etc. only to have it torn down by this ignoramus (not her word) with a microphone over the airwaves with millions of listeners." Imagine their life on campus now? They're a huge spectacle. EVERYBODY'S talking about what that man said about them. On the show, Imus gets flustered. "I can't get anywhere with you people." YOU PEOPLE?! There, he said it folks. The old 'you people', which separates us from his people. Many a listener was waiting to hear him slip and use the n-word.

It's wrong for black folks to say ni66er, but it's d@mn sho' wrong for a white person to say it. It's wrong for a rapper to call a black woman a ho, but it's d@mn sho' wrong for a white person to say it. And heck YES we can hold them to a double standard. We bend over backwards to meet multiple standards on a daily basis with regard to ourselves and in comparison to them. Remember the old, "We have to be twice as good?" That still holds today, so double standards abound.

Michael Richards' apology meant nothing to me and neither does Imus'. It's appalling that he even wants to go talk to those young ladies, too. And say what?! What Richards and Imus did are not equal to me. In my blog about Richards, my premise was who cares about Kramer? He doesn't have a national audience. He's in no position to hurt us. He isn't spreading his excrement across the airwaves. Not so with Imus.

Just like allowing white people and others to use the "n-word" is making it more innocuous, allowing the mainstream use of the word "ho" in reference to us is on its way of becoming the same. Soon television will be full of SNL skits & sitcoms referring to us as hos. They're alluding to rappers' use of the words as the excuse, too. If they've taken to emulating rappers, why not imitate the positive ones? Are we truly becoming a Ghettonation and as someone lamented, the degeneration of society begins when the upper classes begin to imitate the lower classes? (Imitate the educated vs the uneducated.)

After Al and 'dem take care of Imus, let's move on to rappers and stop the madness. That way, no one will have an excuse for racism or misogynism.

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Read about his initial comments here:
http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/wireStory?id=3016648

Read highlights from his appearance on Al Sharpton's show here: http://www.mediabistro.com/fishbowlny/scandals/imus_on_sharpton_show_i_cant_get_anywhere_with_you_people_56617.asp

Read about his suspension here: http://www.mediabistro.com/fishbowlny/scandals/nbc_cbs_radio_suspend_imus_for_two_weeks_56650.asp

Rutgers players agree to meet with Imus: http://www.newsday.com/entertainment/ny-etimus0411,0,2365073.story?coll=sns-ap-nationworld-headlines (Best story I've read surrounding the incident.)

Currently listening:
Strange Fruit
By Billie Holiday
Release date: 30 September, 1999
Madame AnGeLa to You
Madame Angela S.

 
"Are Imus' role models rappers, now?" Lol, Isn't his response like  a kindergarten child defending himself with: "But he did it too!" My neck snapped back when I heard the audio. I wanted to climb through the TV and choke Imus myself. The "Good Ol' Boy network" is alive and thriving.

These women are true role models and shall not be moved. Imus is a miserable narcissist (redundant) who will only stop when his supply  has been taken from him (ie radio).

But we still have the problem in modern culture as a whole of females not realizing their own self-worth and allowing any man Hip Hop or not to demean them and exploit them. I know  "hos" and "bitches" are regular vocabulary throughout every culture and economic status these days with the youth and beyond. My daugther has been instructed to make sure anyone she personally encounters will never feel like they are able to  call  her out no matter how "cute" they serve it up. She is practicing early the art of commanding respect.

Imus would never been able to walk down to the court and say those same words.

Not only do we need to stand up for ourselves but as women, we need to stand up for each other.

 
Posted by Madame AnGeLa to You on Tuesday, April 10, 2007 - 9:05 PM
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Black on Purpose

 
Yes, his response was very kindergarten-ish. I'm also miffed with those who offer the excuse that, "Well, rappers say it. What's the difference?" or "Oh, he talks about everybody." What's that got to do with the price of tea in China?? If I'm speeding and get caught, I can't say, "Officer, look! Everyone else is speeding. You didn't stop them." No, I got caught and I face the consequences. It's called personal responsibility.

Angela, it's wonderful that you teach your daughter how to respect herself and ensure others do the same. If more mothers/mentors did that, rappers wouldn't have a 'video ho' to hire & men like Imus wouldn't have an opportunity to admire and imitate them.

 
Posted by Black on Purpose on Wednesday, April 11, 2007 - 3:07 AM
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Angelic Beauty

 
THAT WAS A VERY HURTFUL AND SHOCKING THING TO HEAR I WAS'NT FAMILIAR WTIH IMUS UNTILL I HEARD OF THE INCIDENT. BUT ITS SICKENING AND I REALLY HOPE HE IS BANNED FROM THE RADIO BECAUSE THERES NO EXCUSE AND IT WAS ABSOLUTLY DISGUSTING.IM SURPRISED THEY ARE WILLING TO MEET WITH HIM . I THINK WHAT HE CAN DO TO SHOW HE'S SORRY IS AGREE TO RESIGN BECAUSE THE WORDS" IM SORRY" ARE'NT GONIG TO ERASE THE HURT AND DEVASTATION HIS WORDS AND IGNORANCE HAVE CAUSED THESE YOUNG WOMEN AND ALL BLACK WOMEN.
 
Posted by Angelic Beauty on Wednesday, April 11, 2007 - 2:46 AM
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Black on Purpose

 
Sickening in the appropriate word. IA that his 'I'm sorries' are weak and he can keep them. When he was asked  by Al Sharpton what he felt the consequences should be for his actions, his response was, "I don't know. I haven't thought about it." To me, that proves he is not sorry for what he said and I wouldn't even want to be in the same room with him, if I were those young women.
 
Posted by Black on Purpose on Wednesday, April 11, 2007 - 3:01 AM
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CURLYGURL

 

I'd heard about the comments, but the first I've seen on TV was tonight, on Anderson Cooper 360.  I thought my eyes were gonna roll right out of my head.  Some of my thoughts...

A)  "Rappers do it"

puh-leeze... I can't stand it when someone, particularly someone in a position of authority (and when you have a nationally broadcast show, you give the impression of having such) starts excusing his/her bad behavior because of what so and so says or does.  I say to Imus the same thing I tell my 10 and 7 years olds. 

What's that got to do with you?  If all the rappers jumped off a ten story building, would you follow them?

B) "It's a double standard"

As if, like you said, Black people don't live under a double standard.  And even if they didn't, THIS outcry is not the result of a double standard.  Now, I have a problem with the language used and the way women are portrayed in many popular rap and hip hop songs.  I also have enough sense to realize that it's far more offensive to insult specific individuals with racial and sexist slurs than it is to levy those same slurs to a generic or hypothetical woman in a song.

C) "What's the big deal?"

Well, if you don't know what the big deal is about the insults of "nappy headed" and "hoes" then you shouldn't be using them seperately, much less together. Didn't anybody teach him not to use big words he doesn't know?  There may not be many letters in that slur, but there's a whole lotta history and a whole lotta meaning.

 

 


 
Posted by CURLYGURL on Wednesday, April 11, 2007 - 3:57 AM
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Black on Purpose

 
Yeah, the '10-story-building comment' should've been asked of Imus. It would've made him see how childish his reasons are. You are SO inside my head on B). (I always say you can read my mind.) Couldn't've stated the differences better myself.

@ him using big words. It's funny but when I've talked to some people about this the conversation has gone like this:

A: He called those girls hoes.
B: Yeah, and nappy-headed ones at that!

LOL! I bet it was the word 'nappy-headed' that did it. It baffles me that NO ONE points out the fact that the producer used the word 'ho' first. It's Imus 'nappy-headed ho' response that seemed to have gotten everyone's attention.

 
Posted by Black on Purpose on Wednesday, April 11, 2007 - 10:11 PM
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