One way to make your Good Man feel good as a man is by giving him full credit for all of your orgasms and to do so sincerely and with enthusiasm. Remember that your Good Man always wants to feel appreciated by you, always wants to be your hero, your sexual Samurai warrior, especially regarding your orgasm and total sexual satisfaction and exhaustion.
Your Good Man will love you even more for any ways, sexual or nonsexual, that you make him feel good about himself. Essentially, every time you express appreciation for anything he does for you, he feels like a hero---a Samurai…, which makes him feel good as a man. Find ways (sincerely) to make him your Samurai. Even taking out the trash has "hero" potential. You ask him, "Sweetheart, could you take out the trash when you have a chance, please." Later, when you realize he's taken the trash out, say to him, "Thank you, baby. That was so nice of you. I appreciate it." Now he can, and will, think of himself as just a little bit of a hero to his appreciative woman. Your Good Man wants to feel needed by you, important to you. When you let him k now that he is needed and is important, he feels so good as a man. He feels like a Samurai, a powerful warrior for his woman.
To keep your Good Man in love with you and energized in your relationship, do everything in your power to express sincere appreciation frequently to him so that you make him feel wonderful about himself. And the very best way to do that is to give away credit for your orgasm to him. Make him feel better and better about himself as a man. And he'll be so happy to see his Good Woman becoming more and more of an American Geisha, as you make him feel more and more like your sexual Samurai warrior.