I've had many relationships that have failed for one reason or another. I have taken those failures and turned them into a learning tool. I have been with my guy for almost 2 years now and everything has gone perfectly so far. We have never had a fight because when something is bothering us, we know how to talk it out.
1) Dont be a clingy bitch!! Go out with your girls and give that dude some space!! Trust me, space will bring you closer together. Be independant!!
2) Seriously, you dont need to call and check on him10 times a day!! In fact, why call him at all?? Just send him a little text letting him know your ok or thinking of him. Wait to talk to him later so you have more to talk about face to face..
3) Dont put all your business out there on the first date!! If you want to be married and have kids, good for you but dont let him know right away unless he brings it up first..HAHA. Most guys will run away from that topic. What ever happend to giving that dude a little mystery and a great chase?
4) Let him be a guy and do guy things with his buddies!! Yes that includes strippers ladies!! Come on, what is he gonna do? run away with her?? LOL..Just have your purrell ready when he comes back home!!
5) YOU HAVE TO TRUST HIM!! If you dont have that, your relationship is doomed!! Unless you find some evidence to not trust him, thats a different issue.
6) Just be yourself, Don't ever change for anybody. There's a reason why people are different.
7) Take care of him.. If he hurts, rub his back..If he's sick, make him soup.. etc, use your imagination. Same goes for the guys, take care of that woman.
8) If he wants to be lazy, shit, be lazy with him
9) Relationships are not about what you want ladies, Its a compromise! Relationships work both ways and he has wants too. Let your guard down and stop being stubborn.
10) Listen to him and let him vent if he has a bad day! Dont say a word until he's done talking.. If you have a good guy, he will do the same!!
11) I thought whinning was only for babies.. Come on ladies, how old are you? Hate to say it but guys shut you out when you whine and we all know what happens when he shuts you out...So save a fight and dont do it.
12) COMMUNICATION!! You got something bothering you, talk to him about it without an attitude.
13) Be patient!! You know guys can be a little slow.. haha..
14) If your going to constantly complain about him, then maybe you should ask yourself if you really need to be with him!!