For those who don't know me,  I am moved to a town house in Hopkins, June 1st cuz I missed the cities. I live with my 6 year old son Tyson and my 4 year old son Martin.  I also have 2 dogs.  I have a Pekanese named Zoe and a Palmeranian named Teddy.  Well the first thing I will talk about is the question everyone wants to know.  Why do the kids live with me?  I met Kristina 4 years ago and we got along really well.  After a month we moved in together and everything was pretty good.  Then one day a private investigator called and informed me that she had a 1 year old so and was married.  Her husband was in Korea in the military and she had abdonned her son with mother without saying a word when she moved in.  I went to her with this information and told her it was over and she needed to go home but then she told me she was pregnant with Tyson so I stuck around.  Her husband came home and took over custody and to this day he still does.  So I stayed and things were one lie after another.  I finally got the guts to end things again and what do you know, she's pregnant with Martin now.  Things were to bad at that time so she moved to her moms and we kinda stayed together but right before Martin was born, we couldn't do it anymore and we ended it.  When Martin was 2 weeks old she dropped them off for my weekend visit and disappeared for 6 months.  Then she came back like nothing happened.  She hasn't seen them in 7 months now but calls every week if that counts for anything.  She is very unreliable and generally only sees them when it is convenient for her and not for me.  She also owes me $12,000 in child support since she refuses to work and nobody will go after her for some reason.  Tyson was born with a brain cyst.  By the time he was born, a small part of his brain was gone and everyone feared for the worst.  Besides a few small surgeries and close calls in the beginning he developed very well. 2 years ago he had a seizure when he was in Colorado which they believe was caused by him being in a airplane, but since then he has had only zero serious problems and is more developed than most 4 year olds.  He's had two small problems since but was said to be not a big deal.  Martin walked at a very early age, 8 months, and he says whatever is on his mind now but sometimes I am the only one that understands him :)   My mom, Kelly,  and her husband Jay live in Osakis, where I graduated from high school, with my 18 year old brother, Devon, who is moving to St Cloud for college in the fall.  My sister Sara lives in Rockford with her husband Shane and their 3 kids.  Destiny is 7, Kendra is 5 and Austin is 3.  Austin and Tyson were born on the same day, same hospitol :)  I went to the University of Morris for 4 years and got my Bachelor Degree in Management.  Then I went to Alexandria and got a degree in Hotel Restaurant Management and Accounting.  So after all my schooling, I have a Bachelor's in Management, Assosciates in Hotel-Restaurant Management, Associates in Small Business Management, Assosciates in Accounting and a cetificate in Hospitality Law.  I am a financial adviser with Wells Fargo and I bartened every other weekend.  I have goals but right now I love spending all day with my kids and working while they are sleeping pretty much.  I have everything I need financially and we are happy so that is what counts.  I could give them much more but not without taking my time away.  What I am looking for....Well, for sure I am looking for friends.  I like to talk and I liked to be talked to.  I won't lie and say I'm not looking/ready for a relationship, I just know that I will not rush in to like I have in the past.  I like a certain speed to a relationship.  Don't rush into something and then change your mind and want to slow down and vice versa.  Decide what you're looking for and stick with it.  I am looking for someone who has similar interests to me and respectfull towards interests that are different, they have to have a sense of humor because I do, attractive to me and attracted to me, and most importantly....likes kids, wants kids, likes pets and wants pets.  My 2 kids and my 2 dogs are my family and without them, you can't get to me .  :) Well that's me :)