lol this is an interesting subject...what made you write about it...today?

well a hoe is a hoe, which is a hoe which is a hoe....

the thing is at some point, EVERY woman is a hoe to some man. That girl could be an angel but coming from another man's mouth she is a hoe, slut or bitch.

at some point in your life, u have dealt with all the horrible names our women are called. My question is how do know which one is what?

people are who they want to be. If a woman has been mistreated in her past, she recalls on that past experience in daily life. Women who may get paid for money have been abused. Some women who are whoring themselves out might not have been abused but may have a sexual addiction in which they figure, why not get paid?

To be perfrectly honest, every woman is some sort of whore or slut, by definition. Sleeping with men for money, security or just in hopes of being loved is all an example of getting something for sex. the only type of woman that does not get something for trading her body is a sex addict. she does it for the sheer pleasure of getting fucked. That is called HEDONISM. Men are the epitome of Hedonist. They do things just for pleasure.

I ask, so who is the slut?
 

that is not always the case melissa when a woman finds a MAN who loves her back with just as much intensity as she does the intamacy she shares with him is not alway for him to return anything back and that includes "Sleeping with men for money, security or just in hopes of being loved is all an example of getting something for sex". sometimes she just wants to see him happy and thats it, does that make her a slut she gets no currency nothing physical, or emotional only mentally because she knows already that he will do the samething for her under the same reasoning even if she dosen't return it back . thats called a selfless act ,and another reason a woman who performs under these circumstance isn't a slut is because that is a derrogitory term there nothing bad about a strong black queen wanting to take care of her man just because he is a king and she knows a king should be treated a certain way
but im sure you know that because you seem like a selfless sista who stand behind her man no matter what "money, security or just in hopes of being loved " and thank you for being that
 

If I may regress oh beautiful one, you did say a hoe is a hoe by definition. A woman or a lady I, as well as you and anybody else with common sense, would not place in the same category. Most woman can be bitches from time to time but it is not the very essence of there being and this is what seperates them.

Also I don't judge these females, they judge themselves when they sit in the beauty shop and dog out each other. Maybe females need to actually implore the advice that they give men on dogging them out. STOP DOGGING OUT EACH OTHER. lol

Thanks for responding to
 

LOL! I agree.....same thing goes for bitch ass ni**az and trick ass marks!
 

As Ice Cube would say "some of you niggaz iz bitches to"! lol
 

we dog each other out as humans, as blacks and as genders. Mercy did digress however the truth is people are jealous. men are salty because they cant have us women the way they want and thats why some men call us women, whores bitches and sluts. Some women believe that man will love them if they put out and some wake up and actually realize a man wont love you until he is ready and/or feels it is time or right. Then there are some women who figure, why love a man who probably doesn't love his mother and I could just get a few bills paid. Im not condoning or condeming any of these behavior's but i do understand it and i do sympathize for women who do ANYTHING to get a man's attention...
 

I can go with that
 

I concur
 

"Interesting Topic" I think a Bitch is a Bitch and a Ho is a Ho etc etc etc Only if you answer by such the name. It's easy to place "labels" on women to make them seem less than they are when some men can and do access the same attributes as these so called gold diggas, hos, bitches etc...Just like there are Women Whores there are Men Whores.. and they are all labels. You've heard the songs (different ones) where the man sings and request that his lady be a woman in the streets but a whore in the sheets.. A whore is a whore is a whore, married, dating or otherwise (free).. Each party is wanting something from the other at all times...
Deuces
;o) U f33l m3
 

I got to agree with this. I find that alot of men feel less then a man so in return most feel the need to be disrespectful towards a female. Alot of our black man dont know the worth of a real women. Maybe they're frontin, maybe cause they were never taught how and vice-versa. I believe it all starts in the home and what was taught as a child by the things we seen. When we are older we tend to look for those same things. So, we as a people really need to think of our life styles for our children so they wont be subject to doggin and MALE OR FEMALE out. We as women need to stop blamming all men and men women and remember change is constant.
 

Men do kind of dog yall out so I also agree with some of what you said. But let's analyze this, these guys really aren't men but boys who search for manhood by disrespecting females. In retrospect, the same way I classify women and bitches seperately, is the same way you yourself should classify men and stupid ass dudes seperately.
 

*raises glass* i like that
 

Thanks for the response princess. I'm feeling the ladies on here but I need some guys to get their take on it.
 

lol...........I feel you homie,but you know you are one deep mofo!!!!I like that in ya.....Can the church get a AMEN!!! ONE LOVE -WHITEBOY MIC-
 

The Difference Between Hos and Bitches
Hmmm.... lets start by defining these words so we get a clear understanding:

1) prostitute |--prästəˌt(y)o--t|
noun
a person, typically a woman, who engages in sexual activity for payment.
• figurative a person who misuses their talents or who sacrifices their self-respect for the sake of personal or financial gain : careerist political prostitutes.
2) slut |slət|
noun
a slovenly or promiscuous woman.
3) gold digger
noun informal
a person who dates others purely to extract money from them, in particular a woman who strives to marry a wealthy man.
4)bitch |bi ch | informal derogatory/ a woman whom one dislike or consider to be malicious or unpleasant.

Now I believe each of these words serve a purpose. These words help us categorize certain types of women in our society. We need these words to enlightenment us and those who are unaware that their actions define them to be a gold digger, prostitute, slut, and a bitch. If you are a woman and you fall under these definitions then you have two choices: stop the actions that define you to be a gold digger, prostitute, slut and a bitch or be the best gold digger, prostitute, slut and bitch you can be. I personally don't care what category you chose, but if you fall under any of these categories please be ready to be treated accordingly by men and women in our society. Now what I don't like is people using these terms or words in the wrong context. For example don't assume a women is a slut or a gold digger without clear evidence, and don't call a women a bitch unless she consistently acts like one. I'll finish by saying women make the world go round, they are our queens, it's just sad to see that some choose to be less than what they're meant to be.
The Truth doesn't lie, peace
 

I agree with you 100%.Women know the terms these words mean, so if you don't want to be call a slut, don't act like a slut, if you don't want to be call a hoe, don't act like hoe. Like you said if they fall in that category they should be treated accordingly.
 

Excuse me: I thought I read somewhere up and through here a man said a woman will take care of a man (The man) b/c he is a king. Let me just say this, I’ve never been called a whore, slut or gold digga but I’ve certainly been called a bitch, I can admit that sometimes I can and will be a BITCH, Meaning I’mma give it to you how you bring it to me. and please believe we all have some BITCH in us even you “men”, I’ve always been an Independent woman; I’ve never been that lady to wait around to see what I can get from or out of a man. I work full time/part time and I’m a student working on my BA. I’m never going to “take care of a man” well wait I am taking care of 3 at the moment but guess what I birthed these 3 into the world. I mean I’m a woman first, if I have a good man of course I am going to be good to him in every sense of the word, but a man, a king takes care of home so if he’s doing that fine I will give him all I have from within, but as far as take care of a man financially while he sits on his “Thrown” ha’ that will never happen not with/from this sister. And if I can’t find one equal or very close to “me” in every sense than I’m okay being with myself, because though I may be alone I’m never lonely, thus never desperate. Because at the end of the day I’m doing for me and I always will do for me, but I will be the Bonnie to his Clyde if he’s the right “King” !
Please believe I’m working two jobs b/c I want to and not because I have to, I want to b/c I want nice things I want to be able to travel and get up and go when I want to and without waiting on anyone or anything. I’m enjoying what I do, meaning I work hard but I play harder and at my own expense.. But if a man wants to do that for me I’m down for that too ;o)
 

I just had to add this to the mix: LOLOL (not all of it but you catch the drift)
Chorus:

You wonda why they call U bitch


Look here Miss Thang
hate to insult your game
but yous a money hungry woman
and you need to change.

In tha locker room
all the homies do is laugh.
High five's cuz anotha nigga
played your ass.

It was said you were sleazy
even easy
sleepin around for what
you need

See it's your thang
and you can shake it how you wanna.
Give it up free
or make your money on the corner.

But don't be bad and play the game
get mad and change.
Then you wonda why these muthafuckas
call you names.

Still lookin' for a way out
and that's OK
I can see you wanna stray
there's a way out.

Keep your mind on your money,
enroll in school.
And as the years pass by
you can show them fools.

But you ain't tryin' to hear me
cuz your stuck,
you're headin' for the bathroom
'bout to get tossed up.

Still lookin' for a rich man
you dug a ditch,
got your legs up
tryin' to get rich.

I love you like a sista
but you need to switch
and that's why they called
U bitch, I betcha.
 

That's TUPAC yall,
Title: 2Pac - Wonder Why They Call U Bytch
I ain't plagiarising
 

Preach
 

I agree with Mercy. It doesn't matter the difference between a hoodrat, slut, bitch, or gold digger. They're all PEOPLE (not just women, because men can be labeled those names too) that we all should avoid in order to find meaningful romantic relationships and friendships. You should love and appreciate the person you get involved with, otherwise what's the point? And don't let yourself get abused by someone else, maybe the first time you didn't know. But if you let yourself get taken advantage of over and over by a gold digger or slut, then you have no one else to blame but yourself. And Mercy...."peace and hairgrease"?? That's way dorky!!! hehe
 

Leave me and my nerdiness alone lol
 

all these terms are just hat. TERMS! They go for men as well. I know a few bitch ass men.

I know a few mansluts and the men on the corner who sell rocks all day and try and fuck EVERY WOMAN who walks past....thats a hoodrat.

so ya see, the term bitch slut and so forth are all just labels put on women to protect and stop them from cheating on their men and dishonoring their family.

Biblicly speaking, any woman who has had sex before marriage is considered a jezebel....People need not throw stones and they are living in glass house built on quicksand!!!
 

Whoa
 

Preach!
 

You already know what it is Carsha. We are two peas in a pod.
 

LQQN@ dat ish! ^
 

wow that shit was different but true