I've never liked the concept of sexuality. I never quite knew why I didn't like it, I just knew I didn't like it. I would never answer questions about my sexuality, even when kids are young and discuss it in elementary and middle schools. I just never cared enough to say what I was and what I wasn't. To me, it never made sense. I suppose it's that way for many young kids. I also suppose as most kids grow up, they come to terms with sexuality and make a clear-cut definition.

I just think that sexual orientation is the weirdest thing. No matter which way I flip it, I can't find the pros to establishing a sexuality. Religion, I understand. I definitely get why people identify themselves as a certain religion. It gives them hope, a fate, something to believe in, a set of rules and regulations. I also understand why people identify themselves with nationalities. Stereotypes didn't come from outer space. It makes sense to identify with religion, nationality…hell, even movies and music.

Sexuality boggles my mind. Why would you want to define yourself based off what gender you like to have in your bed? All sexuality does it cause chaos. People hate others for sticking it in that hole instead of the other one or bending their hands this way instead of that way. I believe you pick who you are in life but you don't pick your orientation. You're born gay. You're born straight. You're born bisexual (blonde fake tanning orange skanks who kiss other girls so guys jizz themselves don't count. They also don't deserve to live but that's something else entirely.) So what's the big deal fighting over something that can't be helped? You can't help being born with red hair as opposed to brown hair. You can't help that you weren't born with blue eyes instead of brown. And aside from the Holocaust, we haven't had many wars or deaths because of that.

How can someone believe they fit into one definition? Is anyone really straight? Is anyone truly homosexual? How can one completely write off an entire gender simply because they have a vagina or because they lack one? Most people, although they have their preferences, wouldn't completely write off blondes because they like brunettes. There are little surprises everywhere. How can one entire gender be written off your to-do list? What if you miss that little surprise? What if it's not little and the most amazing thing?

Why is there so much hatred toward people with different sexual orientations? Straights hate and kill gays. Gays hate straights. Aren't there more important things to care about? I'd rather fight for animal rights. Lower gas prices. Stop global warming. These things matter. If you're a guy and you have a cock in your mouth at night doesn't enter my mind at all. I'm not the best at prioritizing but seriously; I think I have one up here.

I don't care what you do. If you're a good and honest person to me, I'll like you. Treat me with respect and we'll be fine. Make me laugh and we'll be best friends. What you do behind closed doors is what you do behind closed doors. Partake in same sex relationships. Don't. Break out those whips and chains. Don't. I really don't give a shit. As long as you're a good decent person, do what you want. Don't cheat, don't steal, don't murder. Then I wont' like you. But seriously…sexual orientation isn't going to make me not like you and I don't understand why that would make someone dislike anyone.

No, I'm not going to say what I am. I'm not going to say if I'm straight, gay or bisexual. I don't really even know what I am. I don't care, honestly. I'll fall in love with the person, not the parts. You can work with whatever parts someone has. You can't always work with personalities. To me, it's all about personality. I wish more people were like that. Can't we concentrate on war, poverty, animals and crime rather than sexuality?

There's so much hate in the world and I don't understand most of it. Why is sexuality such a big deal? Why do you, personally, need to define yourself by sexual orientation?