There comes a time in your life that you will eventually go through  a storm.  I have been through so many storms with relationships, death, struggling and other obstacles that could come in my way.  What I learned is that God will not put more on you than you can bear.  Also he will put someone their for you in the time when you are going through.  Since my son died I learnt who my real friends were.  Friends I have not been close to since high school.  Through times like these I saw the ones who has been by my side and I love them for that.  To my very very best male friend.  I love you as a friend and in other ways.  You stood their by me in every way possible.  You wouldn't have it no other way.  You love my kids just like your own.  My son started to call you dad why I don't know only he knows the answer.  So if you don't know by now in time you will see how much I really care.  As for the storm their is no situation that you are going through that God can not handle and see you through.  He is an awesome and mighthy God.  He open doors where you can't see how are you going to get through them.  When your praises goes up your blessings will surely come down.  I have tried him and I know.  When you feel like there is nobody who cares they will show up.  It takes time but they will be there.  When your kids are acting out just take it to jesus.  He will fix it and make it all right.  If you don't get anything out of what I am saying just remember somebody elses storm may not be the same as yours but you will be alright as long as you give it to jesus and let him handle everything.  Put him first and everything I mean everything will be added unto you.  I know I am a living testimony.  I love everyone even the ones that don't love me.