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Gender: Male
Status: Married
Age: 44
Sign: Aries

City: Virginia Beach
State: Virginia
Country: US
Signup Date: 9/5/2006

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Monday, October 13, 2008 

I have been traveling for the past week or so. My 38 year old brother William passed away last Tuesday from an apparent cardiac arrest and I drove home to be with my family in Western New York at this very stressful and distracting time in our lives. Renée and I arrived back home here in Virginia Beach safely around 1AM and life returns to a semblance of normalcy. I appreciate the sympathy and condolences that are sure to follow this announcement but please know that they are unnecessary; I am at peace with my brother's memory. He was a bear in spirit and when he loved, he loved unreservedly. By the same token, Heaven help you if you threatened his family. He is sorely missed by all of us.

The ceremony was very nice and went smoothly but was dwarfed to my mind by the Autumnal beauty of the Appalachian foothills at this time of year, the sight of which I have always associated with "home" and now and forever with my brother. I know my mother was comforted by our presence. It was especially nice that my youngest brother was able to return from Afghanistan in time for the service. If you choose to offer prayers, please offer them in support of my mother's strength and for the safety of her children abroad as my brother Mike returns to that land and my brother Curt will again follow in a few months.

The show must indeed go on. Bill would accept nothing less.

Warmest regards,

- Chip QNP

thanhtuyen

 
Your mum is a very special lady to have given births to handsome, brave, and loving men. I will keep her in my prayers and also for your other two brothers and you and your family too Chip.
Much love and peace,
thanhtuyen
 
Posted by thanhtuyen on Monday, October 13, 2008 - 1:26 PM
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Ren(ee)

 
I'm glad I was there with the family...that's all :)

Along the same lines with Queen: "Who wants to live forever?"

AND I was right about the year Freddie Mercury died!! WOOHOO...in your face!

Anyone who reads now will go, "his wife is a jerk! She must think death is a joke. Why does he stay married to her?!" I assure everyone that I'm not making light of anything but rather trying to lift some spirits in my own way.
 
Posted by Ren(ee) on Monday, October 13, 2008 - 5:00 PM
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LucentShadows

 
No Renée, you don't sound like a jerk at all. I know you've been there all the way for Chip, being supportive and simply being a wonderful person! I realize this sounds odd coming from one that you don't know... but I know you must be a wonderful person since you are married to Chip... I can't imagine it any other way. :)
Best thoughts to you, Chip, and all your loved ones.
And to you, Chip - my thoughts... you already know.
Truly,
- T.
 
Posted by LucentShadows on Tuesday, October 14, 2008 - 8:02 PM
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Sherri

 
Chip,
Very sorry to hear of your brother's passing. No matter how much you are at peace with it, it is still hard. Also, I had no idea you had other brothers in the military. Much thanks for their service, too, and definitely prayers for their safe return. It was good to get a message from you, but not under these circumstances. Hopefully next time its a happy note...

Sherri
 
Posted by Sherri on Monday, October 13, 2008 - 10:04 PM
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Stephane Blache

 
As i told you before, I think 38 is way too young to die. We should always cherish every living seconds of our life for we never know which one will be our last. My best thoughts with you and yours my friend.

 
Posted by Stephane Blache on Tuesday, October 14, 2008 - 5:43 PM
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