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Denise Hale


Last Updated: 11/19/2009

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Gender: Female
Status: Married
Age: 50
Sign: Scorpio

City: SAN JOSE
State: CALIFORNIA
Country: US
Signup Date: 3/6/2005

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Friday, December 01, 2006 

World AIDS Day: Dec. 1, 2006

none World AIDS Day 2006: Calling everyone to account

In 2000, heads of state made a promise to halt and begin to reverse the spread of AIDS by 2015. New reports by UNAIDS and the World Health Organization (WHO) indicate that, as of 2006, the epidemic continues to spread in every region of the world. By now more than 65 million people have been infected with HIV and well over 25 million people have died of AIDS since 1981, 2.9 million in 2006 alone.…

In honor of my brother Scott who I lost to AIDS in 2003, I would like to acknowledge Worlds AIDs Day today and remind everyone the epidemic is not over:  If you would like more information go to AIDS Educator

Today I remember your mischievous smile, your warm heart, your quick wit, your ability to cut to the chase, your incredible creativity, your contagous laughter, your insightful mind, and all the good times we shared.  I miss you Scott. A part of you will always remain a part of me.  I look forward to the day we will be reunited in spirit once again.

Click her for Memorial Video of Scott

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enrique

 
2015 is unacceptable
why should millions african babies die
for the sake of a few fat multinational pharmaceuticals' profit?
the patents they acheived were supported by our tax dollars
and we should demand that they receive the proper medical attention
now

the loss of a brother must be an horrific experience
terribly sorry for ur loss dear denise
thank u for keeping his spirit alive with u
and sharing him with us
 
Posted by enrique on Friday, December 01, 2006 - 8:06 PM
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Evolving
Denise Hale

 

Enique, thank you for sharing his spirit with me today.  I think it is important to be reminded of the real people behind these numbers and statistics.

I agree the goal of 2015 seems unacceptable and what truth you speak of in regard to the pharmaceutical companies. A very good movie to see regarding the subject of the power behind these pharmaceutical companies is "The Constant Gardener.


 
Posted by Evolving on Friday, December 01, 2006 - 8:26 PM
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enrique

 
i saw it denise
great movie
a summary couldn't do it justice
simply beautifully shot and acted

again
my heartfelt condolences for ur loss
 
Posted by enrique on Friday, December 01, 2006 - 8:42 PM
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This is true Aids continues to spread and the sad fact is that its been put under the rug. People for that reason have a false sense of security. Aids continues to reach out its evil hand daily. Here in Miami.. we have people because of this same false sense of security being infected by it on a daily basis. Many put there trust on these so called "coctail" Which is a multitude of pills that aids victims take. Yes... it does prolong their lives... but it creates many side affects and its very expensive.I think the bottom line here is that more information should be out there daily just to keep people aware of the lingering danger that Aids still has on our society as a whole.
 
Posted by on Friday, December 01, 2006 - 8:32 PM
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Evolving
Denise Hale

 
Oh so true, we have been lulled into a false sense of security but the danger is still very real. The virus can lie dormant in a person's system for up to a decade!  Good to see you again Valentino. Thank you for stopping by.
 
Posted by Evolving on Friday, December 01, 2006 - 8:35 PM
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Mugsy

 
I share in your pain, as I also lost my brother to AIDS.  Stephen Gendin was a leader, an activist, a writer, and an innovator.  He challenged the notion that people with HIV couldn't lead productive, happy lives, and often caused controversy with his candid editorials of an openly gay man living with the AIDS.  He died a month after he came to my wedding in 2000, and although he looked frail and weak, he still exuded a courageous spirit from within.   His courage lives on today in many of the faces of people who are surviving with HIV. 
 
Posted by Mugsy on Saturday, December 02, 2006 - 1:36 AM
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Denise Hale

 

*Hugs* Yes, we share a special connection. Your brother sounds like a wonderful man as was mine.  I know you loved him as I loved Scott. Another face to a number that so easily gets dismissed when the number does not represent somone we love. Thank you for sharing in my pain today, as I share in yours.  Thank you for sharing Stephen with us.


 
Posted by Evolving on Saturday, December 02, 2006 - 8:03 AM
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Kiwi Warrior Queen

 
Very tragic state of affairs Denise...I had no idea of the numbers affected by A.I.D.S.  Please accept my condolensces for the loss of your beloved brother. 
 
Posted by Kiwi Warrior Queen on Saturday, December 02, 2006 - 10:24 AM
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Denise

 

Thank you Di.  I know the numbers are overwhelming.


 
Posted by Denise on Saturday, December 02, 2006 - 4:05 PM
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Wesley

 

Denise,  

That was a beautiful tribute to your brother Scott.   You've done a wonderful job of sharing your memories of him and you should be proud.   I've not quite seen such a great virtual memorial before.   You've managed to give me a glimpse into his life and humor and some of your shared life memories.

It's nice to know he had a wonderful sister like you and that he was loved.   I'm so sorry for your loss, yet also so grateful to you for utilizing his memory for a cause that has been swept under the rug in our country.  

I'm sure this would have made Scott proud.

Love,

Wesley

 

 


 
Posted by Wesley on Sunday, December 03, 2006 - 7:39 AM
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Denise Hale

 
Hi Wesley, thank you for the kind words and for sharing with me memories of my brother. I agree that the threat and lack of a cure or vaccination for AIDS has been swept under the rug. You, of course, are one that knows this all to well. *hugs*

 
Posted by Evolving on Monday, December 04, 2006 - 9:17 PM
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Gurustu

 

I look forward to the day when it's the disease that's a distant memory instead of our loved ones. Your tribute to Scott was beautiful, and I'm sure you made him smile.

Together we can overcome this disease and the procrastination, politicing and lack of compassion that's lead us to where we are today. Let's make tomorrow better.

See my letter, "Farewell to AIDS"

Keep the light on!


 
Posted by Gurustu on Sunday, December 03, 2006 - 12:03 PM
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Denise Hale

 

I read your letter and I hope my friends will do the same.  Thank you for being a part of the solution.  Thank you for sharing in my memories of Scott today.

*Checking light* Yep, it's still on :)


 
Posted by Evolving on Sunday, December 03, 2006 - 6:52 PM
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*sigh* I miss uncle scott, what a funny guy he was. He always seemed to brighten the holidays, and they will never be the same, but we can remember him while we enjoy eachothers company because, essentially, he is with us.


And yes, 2015 is a long ways away which saddens me because it means many more deaths were not prevented . Still, we can only pray that the date will come sooner and that the deaths will end Until then, we pray, and hope and spread the love around.


 
Posted by on Monday, December 04, 2006 - 12:24 AM
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Evolving
Denise Hale

 

Hi Sweetie! So glad you made it to my blog.  I agree the holidays will never be the same without Scott, but how wise you are to note we still have each other.  I think we all appreciate each member of the family more because we went through this experience together. I join you in prayer that the date to end this disease will come sooner so that other families may be spared the sorrow and loss our family has had to endure.

Love You,

Aunt Denise

 


 
Posted by Evolving on Monday, December 04, 2006 - 2:17 AM
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Max

 
Nothing can bring back the physical Scott but his spirit lives on within you and your family. I know what he means to you as you speak of him often, both here and privately with me. I can't even imagine what you went through even though I have had many friends die for one reason or another, most of which I talked to you about, but none were family. My heart goes out to you Denise and all those that have lost a loved one to this terrible epidemic.
As most have said, 2015 is an unacceptable date.

 
Posted by Max on Monday, December 04, 2006 - 7:41 PM
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Evolving
Denise Hale

 
So true, he may not be with us here physically but he does live on through us in spirit. Thank you, Max.
 
Posted by Evolving on Monday, December 04, 2006 - 9:24 PM
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Evelyn, Student of Serge Raynaud

 

I'm sorry for the loss of your brother Scott. I loss my Uncle to AIDS as well as my Stepson.  The drug cocktail did not extend their lives.

 However my kid has two friends that are HIV Positive for the past 17 years, They will never get the disease because they are carriers. Carrieres dont get the disease.

About 20 years ago when I had to help my daughter prepare an assignment for school (not Aids related) I sat down

as she perused through the books and  I found some interesting publications on a corner table. These publications stated that a cure was found for Aids but that the Pharmaceutical companies didnt want to sell it because they make more money from people's illnesses.I dont know how true this is but if the library had these publications on their end table maybe there is some truth to it. ***evelyn


 
Posted by Evelyn, Student of Serge Raynaud on Wednesday, December 06, 2006 - 4:53 AM
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Denise Hale

 

Hi Evelyn, thank you for sharing my memories of Scott and for sharing the loss of your Uncle and Stepson.  Yet two more lives needlessly lost for a disease that is preventable.

I sure hope the story about the Pharmaceutical company is not true as it is very upsetting.


 
Posted by Evolving on Friday, December 08, 2006 - 4:07 PM
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Evelyn, Student of Serge Raynaud

 

I also hope that it is not true but I think that it is , I have just heard it from too many sources, and for a public library to have that kind of info on their end table leads me to believe so. there is a ray of hope though. I did see on channel 13 public broadcasting a young man who had full blown Aids and he healed himself completely. He became vegetarian, consumed natural medicinal herb teas, fresh vegetable juices from a juicer, did yoga, meditation, biofeedback, visualizations, and took the Aids cocktail that they give everyone as well. This man fought like a real warrior and won and they interviewed him on television but it was many years ago.Unfortunately,  I couldnt help my uncle because he didnt know he had it and his death was unexpected because he didnt get sick except for one week, and I couldnt help my stepson because he was deaf mute, and difficult to communicate with, since I didnt know how to sign, he never grew up with us, my husbands kids were already adults when we married and lived on their own.

***Evelyn 


 
Posted by Evelyn, Student of Serge Raynaud on Sunday, December 10, 2006 - 3:50 AM
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Evolving
Denise Hale

 

Well I do believe in the power of the mind, and it sounds like if it is caught early enough and the cocktial administered along with other healthy practices it can be beat.  My brother didn't know he was sick either.  He had tested negative five years prior to his falling ill and was celibate from that time on up until his death. Apparently the disease was still dormant in his system when he tested negative.  A good example of why it is important to get tested regularly even when one is not sexually active.


 
Posted by Evolving on Sunday, December 10, 2006 - 3:44 PM
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