any of you  may recall that DOH had a health scare a few months back, with one of our own, Slim Bloodworth. On Sept 25th I posted a blog  ( you can still read it, it's called Slimmy) about the severity of the situation, how Slim had actually died on the table and that we were actively asking for help to get Alex (slim's girlfriend) to Ottawa, in order to drive Slimmy and her car back to Texas.

Then, a miracle! A friend of a friend said, "Gosh guys, I've had medical expenses before, and I just got a decent settlement,  let me help!"

NOW, let me say that I have never met this person, but my faith in humankind was restored. One person could spare $250 dollars, and another would be immeasurably helped by gaining $250. FANTASTIC!

And even better, DOH offered to make payment arrangements and were told  not to worry about it. (personally, i think money is a funny thing but with open dialogue, and communication,as long as everyone does what they say, or at least TALKS about things, it can be handled among adults, like adults)

Again, we were amazed and humbled, many thanks were dolled out, Slim and Alex wrote a very nice thank you card, sent it to the friend who connected us, and life was grand. NEVER Again was the money mentioned, and when our friend said hey Jen, when do you want this back, Jen L smirked, as if to say        "I'm big pimpin' now thats chump change", so there was NEVER a discussion of payment

until YESTERDAY.

Our gracious donor, decided to show up at our friends JOB  ( now granted I know that she works at a casino, but that doesn't mean you get to show up and start yelling) and demanded money!

at this point it should be said that DOH has been third party to all of this, it is the lesbo world, after all, and its been a lot of  " I know someone who knows someone" So anything I'm typing has been told to me, but lucky for us, yesterday was all witnessed by a DOH gal!

yup, Walked into her Job, and was very much trying to be an aggressive dominant top, I guess, with " Give me my money back, and You WILL call me and deal with this and screw you, blah blah blah"

What Jen L (yup, if you're in Buffalo, and you know her, then pay attention to this part) didn't realize is that she walked into someone PLACE OF EMPLOYMENT and began Belittling her at her job, in front of her boss!!

(oh, and it's all on camera you idiot, it's a casino)

(cause for legal recourse, or more importantly, as you all know how I feel about blogs, it's cause for an ass beating)

 so much so, that the boss, and friend of  the gal being belittled, TOOK OUT CASH TO PAY JEN L, just so she would stop harrassing our dear friend who set this all up to begin with.

So, I have decided to write a blog about it, and I know I bitch about using the internet to bitch about problems, but I really just need to put it out there, because I feel like people who think they can do something under the guise of "helping" only to turn around 5 months later on some sort of power trip over $250 dollars needs to be reminded that she's not alone, that people pay attention to that kind of behavior, that a simple phone call that said, "hey guys, times are tough, any chance you have some of that money, even though I know I said don't worry about it" would have done it, but no Jen L, you thought that you had a right to walk into someones JOB and belittle them, because you're such a frickin' angel and had donated some cash. FUCK YOU

I realize you have an advantage, because I have no idea who you are, and It's not hard to find me, but  trust me lady, I plan on telling this story to everyone who will listen because you're the kind of special scumbag I like to save my passive aggresiveness for, unfortunately I don't know you well enough to make character attacks like " what happened, gamble your life away ?(she WAS at the casino) or, what did ya do, put all that money up your nose?"

BUT I do know the girl you came after, and you should thank god she doesn't want her name dragged into this, she's been humiliated enough, but if she did, I'm pretty sure this entire  lesbo town would tell you to fuck off, cause she's just one of those folks everyone loves.

So Jen L. Thanks for nothing, thanks for turning into a 5 year old incapable of picking up a phone and having a conversation, thanks for publicly displaying what a waste of breath you are and most importantly thanks for doing it in front of someone who won't just sit there and take it.

someone get the whiskey.