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Sandee Westgate

Sandee Westgate


Last Updated: 11/18/2009

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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Sign: Taurus

City: Orange County
State: California
Country: US
Signup Date: 9/15/2006
Monday, June 22, 2009 

Current mood:  bummed
Category: Life
I've learned that you cannot make someone love you.  All you can do is be someone who can be loved.  The rest is up to them.
I've learned that no matter how much I care some people just don't care back.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but whom you have in your life that counts.
I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.
I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.  Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other.   And, just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.
I’ve learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt, and you will hurt in the process.
I've learned that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.  Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.
I've learned that heroes are people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I’ve learned that you can keep going long after you can’t.
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Tony
tony mauro

 
Well said Sandee. Remember that the same strength that got you where you are today will also get you though whatever is happening in your life that initiated this post. ..<br />....-T..
 
Posted by Tony on Monday, June 22, 2009 - 3:22 PM
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☆★ IZZY ★☆

 
soooooooooooo true, its like someones reading my mind<br />
 
Posted by ☆★ IZZY ★☆ on Monday, June 22, 2009 - 3:26 PM
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Steven

 
There is a lot of true things and wisdom here, that's nice.<br />I've learned that before hating someone, you have to love him.<br />Take good care Sandee<br />Gros bisous<br />Au revoir<br /><br />May everyone be peaceful!!!
 
Posted by Steven on Monday, June 22, 2009 - 3:36 PM
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Adriana

 
..So true. (:..
 
Posted by Adriana on Monday, June 22, 2009 - 4:03 PM
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How to lose a guy in 10 comments! lol

 
Sorry to hear what happened Sandee. You guys looked good together but maybe that's just on the outside? I think a lot of us has been there done that type of situation. Life will go on...
 
Posted by How to lose a guy in 10 comments! lol on Monday, June 22, 2009 - 5:14 PM
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patrick
patrick brunet

 
"Eleven Hints for Life"<br /><br />1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.<br />But what is more painful is to love someone and never<br />find the courage to let that person know how you feel.<br /><br />2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who<br />means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was<br />never meant to be and you just have to let go.<br /><br />3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a<br />porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away<br />feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.<br /><br />4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose<br />it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been<br />missing until it arrives.<br /><br />5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an<br />hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it<br />takes a lifetime to forget someone.<br /><br />6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,<br />even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you<br />smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day<br />seem bright.<br /><br />7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,<br />be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and<br />one chance to do all the things you want to do.<br /><br />8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it<br />hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.<br /><br />9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck<br />a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may<br />heal and bless.<br /><br />10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best<br />of everything they just make the most of everything that comes<br />along their way.<br /><br />11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with<br />a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone<br />around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,<br />you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.
 
Posted by patrick on Monday, June 22, 2009 - 6:38 PM
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JJJENSEN
Jamie jensen

 
..that is so true,and if only more people could learn to see it..
 
Posted by JJJENSEN on Tuesday, June 23, 2009 - 9:36 PM
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Armendariz
Peter Armendariz

 
Hope that all is well, and that life brings you all the Happiness, Love and Joy that you deserve. Peter<br />
 
Posted by Armendariz on Wednesday, June 24, 2009 - 3:14 PM
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wheeler

 
that's deep!

 
Posted by wheeler on Friday, June 26, 2009 - 5:09 PM
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James
James Vaughn

 
damn right that is ture life go on  sandee give on tell the truth good lucky
 
Posted by James on Tuesday, September 01, 2009 - 2:48 PM
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