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Nichapat (2)
Saturday, August 16, 2008 

Current mood:  confused
Category: Romance and Relationships
I was watching a show this evening about a tanning salon and all the goings on involved in running/working in a salon. One employee was tanning a customer (using the spray stuff) and chatting. The employee was telling the customer about a serious relationship she was having and that it may be the big one. The customer asked her a question that blew my mind; are you ready for a nice guy?

Now, I've talked with many ladies about the attraction to bad boys and/or nice guys. I won't go into details about that now (but I have written a little about it on the blog already), but when I heard the customer ask that question, I knew that I was right all along about something.

Most ladies have told me that they are looking for a nice guy. I tend to think that although there are ladies looking for this type of guy, that the percentage of ladies looking for a bad boy is high. I have heard countless times from ladies about a guy cheating on her or treating her badly or just not being responsible in the relationship. Yet, at the time of the relationship, her AND her friends recognize the guys bad boy qualities.

I have always had the feeling, regardless of what ladies have told me, that it seems there is a period of time in most, not all, ladies dating experience that they seem to be drawn to bad boys. After a learning experience or maybe it's a period of time, they then start to really look for a good guy. There is more I can write about this, but time won't allow me at this time. I just wanted to share this idea with you all because it all became clear to me when I heard the lady ask, "are you ready for a nice guy?"
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Nichapat

 
30 Yrs has passed. Where is a nice guy ? Only met a nice lady all the time when I look at the mirror heehee
 
Posted by Nichapat on Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 4:03 PM
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