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TARINA TARANTINO

Tarina Tarantino


Last Updated: 12/12/2009

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Sign: Taurus

City: LOS ANGELES
Thursday, April 09, 2009 
Yesterday morning I got a tweet from a twitterfriend that said "I wish I had your job" and it made me think about a time in my life, when I was working two jobs (as freelance makeup artist and MAC retail artist) and also persuing my jewelry design work as well. I am so fortunate to get so many emails every week from people all over the world saying how inspired they are by what I do for a living. Often I am asked how I was able to achieve my dream job and if I have any advice on how they can do it too. One email in particular mentioned how she just felt stuck, hated her current job, and was miserable because she wasn't doing what she loved. I have blogged about this before and realize that its a topic that is even more important now, in the current state of our economy. I am thinking about the people who are in a job that they dislike, and were thinking about making a move toward something that would make them happier. Now they might feel stuck as the idea of looking for another job (when their might not be one out there) is scary, so they have to stay where they are. I remember when I was working for MAC (cosmetics) years ago at the Beverly Center in Los Angeles as a retail artist. In the beginning it was amazing, working for such an incredible company and getting paid to play with makeup every day. A few months into it I realized how hard retail could be, dealing with customers who were not always friendly and sometimes angry that we were out of stock on a particular item, or just plain difficult. Having to clean constantly (anyone who has ever had to clean cosmetic tester units can attest to the tediousness of this job) and standing on my feet for hours and hours and hours and hours and…..well you get the idea. Then there are the personality conflicts and drama that arise among co-workers in the retail environment. We also had installed these halogen lights that were right at your eye level above the displays, they provided gorgeous light to see the colors of the collections, but felt like they were burning out our eyeballs all day. I was starting to feel unhappy at work and coming home really tired and crabby all the time. I was actually contemplating quitting and persuing my freelance makeup work full time again, but much like today, the economy was uncertain and freelance work was less available than before. One afternoon when I was walking home from work to my nearby apartment thinking again about quitting I realized that it was not the job that was bad, it was my attitude. I started thinking about how fortunate I was to have this job at all and decided to take a different approach. Instead of getting frustrated when a customer was being difficult I would find a way to turn the situation around and make them happy with humor and charm (which often led to them buying more lipstick!). Instead of complaining about my feet hurting and all the cleaning I had to do, I would try to find solutions to make these things better and easier. Most of all I decided to have a happy attitude no matter what the day would bring, which is not always easy, but I found that I was coming home less exhausted and feeling so much more productive and having more fun at work. Suddenly I loved my job again and look back at that time with fond memories. From that moment on I decided to always approach whatever I am doing with a positive outlook.

Finding what you love to do and making it into your livelihood should be the goal of everyone. They say that if you love what you do then it never feels like work. When you hear someone say “attitude is everything” believe it, a good attitude and love of life in general is contagious. In fact, it is a quality that we look for right away when we hire new people into the company. Its not where you start, its where you go and how you affect others along the way that makes life sweet. With a good attitude and passion for what you love to do you become unstoppable and will soon find people telling you that they wish they had YOUR job too!…
That's the way to live a sparkling life and follow your sparkling dreams! Xoxo &*****Tarina

*~*JADE*~*

 
EXCELLENT post.
I needed to read this today! Very inspiring :D
 
Posted by *~*JADE*~* on Thursday, April 09, 2009 - 8:00 PM
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Courtney

 
This blog is wonderful! Very inspiring!
 
Posted by Courtney on Thursday, April 09, 2009 - 8:00 PM
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┼♥Whiskey Chase♥┼
Drunken Mermaid Extraordinaire

 
thanks! i just wrote my genral manager a long winded letter about the laziness and bad attitudes in our location and how they are contagious... when other people harp all day about the negitive it slowly but surley seeps into the atmosphere.




a good attitude is everything.




despite all the personal time our jobs seem to steal from us it's important to find time to do what you love no matter what it is.

 
Posted by ┼♥Whiskey Chase♥┼ on Thursday, April 09, 2009 - 8:00 PM
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Nickels♥
Nicole Prestwood

 
Could you be anymore amazing, seriously?! Even though the positive attitude is something I've been living through my life for the last couple of years (not always easy though) it so refreshing to hear (or read) someone who is so successful and who I admire greatly say it.
Thank you!
 
Posted by Nickels♥ on Thursday, April 09, 2009 - 8:00 PM
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Staci lynn

 
Thanks for that. I needed to hear that, and I do agree with you, attitude is everything! I wish the beverly center would hire me! Haha.
xoxo -Staci
 
Posted by Staci lynn on Thursday, April 09, 2009 - 8:00 PM
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Karl.os

 
Thank you for this, sure as heck makes things seem nicer then they can truly become.

I as well had to discover that having a good attitude for school and what not was the best thing for me. In many ways, I'm the only happy one in crabby situations now.
:)
 
Posted by Karl.os on Thursday, April 09, 2009 - 8:51 PM
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Jodi♥GS&ND♥MJ R.I.P.
This is It Jodi

 
I admire u!
 
Posted by Jodi♥GS&ND♥MJ R.I.P. on Thursday, April 09, 2009 - 8:51 PM
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Deanna

 
I really need to read this today as well! Thank you Tarina!
 
Posted by Deanna on Friday, April 10, 2009 - 2:12 AM
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Darleen

 
So so helpful! Amazing.

 
Posted by Darleen on Friday, April 10, 2009 - 2:12 AM
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Josh Edwards
Josh Edwards

 
We have everything we need to get everything we want! I enjoyed the read.
Ciao
 
Posted by Josh Edwards on Friday, April 10, 2009 - 2:12 AM
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I Sell Panties!™[RIP]
Jenn Fowler

 
I think you read my mind today. Retail is slowly killing me...its really nice to know you were in the same position and now you have an amazing company! Thank you : )
 
Posted by I Sell Panties!™[RIP] on Friday, April 10, 2009 - 2:12 AM
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Laura (BA) (DF) (5C) (AFI-ist) (BOD) (HR) (MH)

 
Excellent!!!
 
Posted by Laura (BA) (DF) (5C) (AFI-ist) (BOD) (HR) (MH) on Friday, April 10, 2009 - 2:12 AM
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Jenn
Jenny Bovio

 
Thank you for this! I too work in retail and it can be really trying sometimes.
My favorite trick is to wear a piece from the Pink Head collection - I have had some of the coldest customers crack a smile and say "I love your necklace!" No one can resist sparkles!
 
Posted by Jenn on Friday, April 10, 2009 - 2:12 AM
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TARINA TARANTINO
Tarina Tarantino

 
love that!!! it all comes full circle if anything i have designed could help make the people in your life smile! xo
 
Posted by TARINA TARANTINO on Saturday, April 11, 2009 - 12:07 AM
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Phil
Phil Leaver

 
Pos out look on life is important, love and everything else will follow! Happy Easter and all the best!
 
Posted by Phil on Friday, April 10, 2009 - 2:12 AM
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Jen Page [Actress]
Jen Page

 
Attitude AND lipstick are everything! ;)
 
Posted by Jen Page [Actress] on Friday, April 10, 2009 - 2:12 AM
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TARINA TARANTINO
Tarina Tarantino

 
YOU KNOW IT!!!
 
Posted by TARINA TARANTINO on Saturday, April 11, 2009 - 12:08 AM
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Tiffany

 
This blog is absolutely amazing.
^^



I agree with it wholeheartedly. I always love what I am doing no matter what it is, whether its my retail job or helping out at the food court. I think that this is the secret to happiness...plus, it's really hard to be crabby or mad when you're always wearing hello kitty with bright pink hair!



Thanks so much for writing this!
 
Posted by Tiffany on Friday, April 10, 2009 - 7:19 PM
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JewelsD
Jewels Diva

 
In these times, that was what we needed to make us remember it's all up to us. No one else will make our life better or easier. We have to help ourselves make our own life the one we want to live.

 
Posted by JewelsD on Friday, April 10, 2009 - 7:19 PM
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aLL regressed and heaLed..in Time
Christina Ornelas

 
your attitude TRULY effects all around you. your job, and relationships..



thank you TT for speading your sparkles..
 
Posted by aLL regressed and heaLed..in Time on Friday, April 10, 2009 - 7:19 PM
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TARINA TARANTINO
Tarina Tarantino

 
wow I am so thrilled that you all are feeling inspired and positive! its the only way to have a happy life!xo
 
Posted by TARINA TARANTINO on Saturday, April 11, 2009 - 12:36 AM
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Disasterpiece
Breezy FoSheezy

 
Wow.

This was passed along from a friend,
and I must day that I agree 110%

How refreshing to hear such a positive outlook in such a scary time.


Nice.


♥Sabrina
 
Posted by Disasterpiece on Saturday, April 11, 2009 - 1:45 AM
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CupcakeFace™ - The Cupcake Ingénue

 
This is what I want to do... but I just dont know what it is I want to do.


You are amazing xx
 
Posted by CupcakeFace™ - The Cupcake Ingénue on Tuesday, April 14, 2009 - 5:48 PM
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Maurilio The Brat Prince

 
Great post I try to always stay positive. You are someone to look up to and you always make everyone smile. God am I the only guy on here lol.
Have a great Easter
 
Posted by Maurilio The Brat Prince on Tuesday, April 14, 2009 - 5:48 PM
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punkinz
Alexandrina Jordan Skylar Wycoff

 
Thanks for sharing that! I totally try to be happy everyday on my way to work and class. Synth pop usually helps.
Carrying my Tarina bag never fails to bring sparkles to my attitude!
 
Posted by punkinz on Tuesday, April 14, 2009 - 5:49 PM
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punkinz
Alexandrina Jordan Skylar Wycoff

 
Thank you! Sometimes I hate going to class, but I put on my makeup while listeing to synth pop and everything gets better...and if that doesn't work, then I'll grab my Tarina bag and carrying that makes the whole world full of sunshine and sparkles!
 
Posted by punkinz on Tuesday, April 14, 2009 - 5:49 PM
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sheeluvlee♥fp
Shee Luvlee

 
my pops has always told me "if you're not living your dreams you are only living someone else's" .. stay focused and positive.. it truly helps.. and look at the bigger picture. If you're not 100% inspired with your current situation, realize its getting you to where you want to be if you put this energy toward a positive foundation. the economy sucks but its not everything, we're all in this together believe it or not. why make it worse by dwelling on shit that is out of your hands?

i love this post! & it came at a great time. thanks tarantino!!

- sheena
 
Posted by sheeluvlee♥fp on Tuesday, May 12, 2009 - 6:15 PM
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D-Zinesonline

 
Thank you for writing this Tarina! Currently I hate my job(I work at a small shop selling swimsuits), but I did realize that I needed to change my attitude and boy did it change things at work! Although I do still hate dealing with customers who get nasty, but I just try to laugh it off because if they could only see how they are acting they would laugh too! I do make jewelry and handbags on the side too, and its the love of my life (well besides my boyfriend!) Thats what I truly enjoy doing and I hope that one day it can be my full time job!
Thanks so much for inspiring me! I look foward to working for you one day!

Danielle
 
Posted by D-Zinesonline on Tuesday, June 16, 2009 - 1:41 AM
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B_d e t t e

 
wow thank you for the words of wisdom just as ill be starting my day at work as well with a joyful attitude





very uplifting Blog! :)
 
Posted by B_d e t t e on Saturday, August 15, 2009 - 12:05 AM
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