It's hard as hell being a woman with strong feelings. Sometimes I think I take things too seriously and to be honest, I know a few people who will agree. Maybe one of you beautiful people can help me out with this one though... I won't start by asking why do people lie but that is a good damn question. Maybe if one of you is bold enough you can delve into that question and give me a response that will make it make sense to me. What I don't understand is why does the fact of there being a lie make you much more critical of the person than what the lie actually is? For example, say you are the type of person who has very good understanding… You understand that when you first meet someone there's a chance that they are at least 'friends' with someone else, and  you just want them to let you know up front so you know what you're getting into. So they say nothing and ya'll hook up and it's all good. Then a few weeks later you find out there's someone else. Now three weeks ago you would have been like well that's cool we're just kicking it right? But after you find out for yourself you're like: "you lying piece of shit"! This isn't my exact reason for asking but if you need an explanation here goes… I have a friend who is on the DL living with a girl and talking marriage and since I'm very open minded I can handle his sexuality but my thing is why lie and pretend to be homophobic? I mean being in the closet is one thing but why treat people who are very much like you the exact way you don't want to be treated? I feel like if you are bold enough to fuck women and be sneaking around with grown ass men then at least be man enough to accept yourself for who you are and stop stunting! And please don't just say people lie because they want to because there has to be a point. If you are in a relationship with a woman and you really want to be with a man why lie to lil mama when you can just as easily be like "It's not you it's me" lol no seriously, why carry the lie places it doesn't have to go? Like to the damn altar! Relationships are easier to get out of than cars so give me a break if you're saying people lie because they want to … Why be bothered with someone you don't want when you don't have to?