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Wednesday, May 24, 2006 
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Welcome to Cali-PORN-ia! Home of strip clubs, adult bookstores, &
gangsta rap! Here on the West Coast we are truly living in a sexually
saturated society. Everywhere you look porn can be found. With
inter-net speeds faster than ever, sexual images are being piped into
our homes, and with a click of a mouse you can be surfing the world
wide web of sin. Even popular men magazines such as Maxim, Stuff, and
Blender which can be found at your local grocery store are flooded
with sexually explicit material. All of which should be considered porn.

The porn industry brings in over a billion dollars a year and has even
penetrated the four walls of the church. Sexual impurity has become
rampant in the body of Christ because we've ignored the costly work of
obedience to Gods standards. Pastors, Youth Pastors, leaders, and
people of all ages have been sucked into the bondage of frequenting
XXX sites as part of their daily lives. Many are asking, "How far
can I go and still be a Christian?" They believe the lies and
deception that Satan is whispering in their ears. The lie that says
viewing pornography won't hurt anyone, yet in reality it's stealing
intimacy from your spouse or future spousenot to mention intimacy
from your relationship with God. Jesus Himself said, "Anyone who even
looks at a woman with lust in his eye has already committed adultery
with her in his heart." (Matthew 5:28)

Porn can lead a man to cheat on his wife, rape a woman, and even
sexually molest his own daughter. Those involved in pornography
usually find themselves depressed, discouraged, & detached from their
loved ones, including God. Bottom Line...Pornography is destructive
and will cause spiritual death! Next time you find yourself staring
and lusting over a naked woman on the computer screen, television, or
the new DVD you secretively bought from the liquor store, ask yourself
this question. Would you want someone fantasizing & masturbating
while looking at an image of your daughter? Of course not! We must
become like Job in the Bible and make a covenant with our eyes to not
look lustfully upon a woman. (Job 31:1)

Please know this...there is freedom & forgiveness found in Christ.
For years we've been taught that it's taboo to talk about issues of
sex, porn, & even masturbation in the "church". That is another lie
of the enemy. It is vital that we come out of the shadows of shame &
sin and find our true identity in Jesus. Proverbs 28:13 tells us
that, "Those who conceal their sins will not prosper. But if they
confess and forsake their sins they will receive mercy." There is
hope for us who choose to be held accountable and live transparent
lives.

If you or someone you know is struggling or addicted to porn, please
check out the below websites for resources that can help you in your
battle against sexual temptation.

xxxchurch.com
dontbepimped.com

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Miss♥Steff

 
 You know everything you said is TRUE!! It has devestated my marriage, intamacy, self-esteem and trust. You & I have talked.
I think alot of people do down play the effects of porn on our relationships, our family's and our mentality.
Thank you for being honest & saying what no-one else wanted to say, admit or bring up. You are so awesome. I am so glad you posted this as a blog.. Now everyone will get to see it...
<3
Steff
 
Posted by Miss♥Steff on Thursday, May 25, 2006 - 6:08 PM
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STR8 STRAPPED & TROUBLESOME

 
EVERY SINGLE THING BOTH OF U SAID IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE, BUT PEOPLE IN THE HEIGHT OF THEIR ADDICTION ARE BLINDED BY THE PSEUDO-PLEASURE WHETHER OR NOT THEY ARE MISERABLE...WE HAVE TO FOCUS ON AN ALTERNATIVE...NOT JUST CURSE THE DARKNESS BUT IN LOVE AND TRUE EMPATHY SHINE A LIGHT...I REALLY COULD HAVE BENEFITED FROM SUCH A LIGHT WHEN I WAS OUT THER GOIN' HARD, SLANGIN', BANGIN' AND TRIPPIN' LIKE A DAMNED FOOL...I'VE COMPLETELY RECOVERED FROM ALL THE CRACK, HOIN', LOCKDOWN, CIGS, ALCOHOL, SLEAZY MOTEL ROOMS AND PORN WITHOUT EVEN THE SLIGHTEST DESIRE OR INCLINATION REMAINING AND TOTALLY WITHOUT REHAB...ONLY JESUS CHRIST STR8-UP...AND I'M STILL COOL, GOIN' HARD WITH THE PIERCES AND TATS AND HARDCORE THIRD COAST CHRISTIAN RAP-AND THE RAP CHOPPED AND SCREWED AND OTHERWISE, A NEW CAREER, CONDO, MONEY AND ALL DAT...JESUS CHRIST IS REAL ONLY IF YOU ARE TALKING FACE-TO-FACE TRANSPARENT VERBAL RELATIONSHIP AND NOT 'RELIGION' INSTITUTIONALIZED WHICH HE HATED AND STILL DOES...CHECK IT...SEE MY PROFILE AND PICTS AND CAPTIONS FOR MORE FEEDBACK ON ALL DIS!!!   LOL!!!
 
Posted by STR8 STRAPPED & TROUBLESOME on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 11:18 PM
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Girl gamer 女性ゲーマー

 
Great site i will tell everyone i know that struggle with this. May god bless u and stay humble. peace
 
Posted by Girl gamer 女性ゲーマー on Saturday, June 17, 2006 - 12:19 AM
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Recovering Sinner

 
I got my first "Taste" of porn-hellia around age of 11, I was exposed to sex before that, I am now 37 and I fight daily with this crud. I feel for anyone who enters in to its claws thinking it will be ok, just a quickie... well this quickie of pleasure turned into years of hell, heartache, torment, and even related depression. If they do not outlaw porn they need to do like smokes, a warning label a nice big one on front of all "adult" businesses. WARNING PORN IS ADDICTIVE AND DESTROYS LIVES AND RELATINSHIPS AND SOULS! just my opinion, one based on over 26 years of experience.
 
Keep Up The Great Work May God Bless You and Yours and May He Open A Million+ Doors To You.
 
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Posted by Recovering Sinner on Thursday, June 29, 2006 - 5:12 PM
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Big Mercy Beats

 
Thanks for confronting this issue head on. God Bless.
 
Posted by Big Mercy Beats on Wednesday, July 26, 2006 - 2:36 PM
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Very, Very True...It took me reading several books years ago to help me see that I had a problem. Steve Gallagher's autobiography "Out of the Depths of Sexual Sin" was the hardest book to read because it SO close to home with me. Keep hitting us all with the truth, no matter how hard it is. I try to do the same in my blog...I invite you to join my blog!!!

Love the music and will be getting yours soon!!

Travis


 
Posted by on Wednesday, August 02, 2006 - 4:28 AM
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ANTHONY

 
love the way u put it out there and for keeping it real churches need to teach and preach on the issue and be real bc this  is a touchy subject but it need to be talked about keep the faith and may God bless you in everything you do for the kingdom God blees 1

 
Posted by ANTHONY on Tuesday, October 03, 2006 - 5:22 AM
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Esther
Esther Statton

 

I love it where you say, "Many are asking, "How far can I go and still be a Christian?" .. this question breaks my heart. the question should not be. "How far can I go?" but, rather, "How pure can I be?"  Hey.. i know its hard to be pure but the ultimate prize of purity is seeing Christ! Some times that is the only thing that really motivates me to be pure because the temperary pleasure of this world seem so strong. I say this because I know that the lure of sin can seem extremly strong and you feel helpless but VICTORY IS POSSIBLE. Sin has lost its power and sting because of the cross. Because of Jesus Christ we have something better than sin..we have his promises! I am convinced the only way we can over come sin is to truly believe and cling to the promises of Christ. We will turn to something to bring us pleasure.. that just the truth of it so i pray that we dig in to the power, victory, life and promises of Christ Jesus... like the song says.."your blood speak a better word than all the empty claims i heard upon this earth. it speak righteousness for me and stands in my defence, Jesus its your Blood..." what amazing truth!

"the Lord has won a mighty (and is still) victory by his POWER and HOLINESS" psalm 98:1b


 
Posted by Esther on Friday, October 27, 2006 - 3:05 PM
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Go Hard Or Go Home

 
I HAVE NEVER HEARD A MAN ADMIT THIS BEFORE. MY HUSBAND ISNT ADDICTED I DONT THINK BUT WHEN I DONT WANT TO MAKE LOVE HE WILL TELL ME HES GOING TO DO THAT. OR BEFORE HE GOES TO WORK EVEN IF HE HAD MADE LOVE TO ME THE NIGHT BEFORE. I THINK THAT IS WHERE THE INSECURITY COMES FROM. WHEN I HAVE THE CHANCE IM GOING TO HAVE HIM READ YOUR BLOG.
 
Posted by Go Hard Or Go Home on Monday, October 30, 2006 - 4:02 PM
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.sandra.

 
Dude I think you're awesome! I wish we had more people standing on the Word of God like yourself! This can help so many people by making them realize the truth about satan's deception. Thank you for wanting to be my friend! I am blessed to meet another like-minded believer! God Bless You and keep making HIs Word known!!!
 
Posted by .sandra. on Monday, October 30, 2006 - 6:12 PM
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Ro

 
Hey guys, big ups on putting it out there.  Roundabout ministries is a great ministry for  people struggling with porn addiction and same sex attraction also.  Great tools to help fight against it and people to connect with that can help you get through it, check out 'the fight' space (on my friends).
 
Posted by Ro on Thursday, November 30, 2006 - 7:13 AM
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Jessimaca

 
I disagree with this..But I doubt this will stay on your site for very long..You probably take off the opposing views but whatever..I dont think that porn is sin and that it leads to destruction..And I don't believe that the ned to put a warning label on porn..People may get addicted but its not dangerous..Its seen as morally wrong but its not dangerous
 
Posted by Jessimaca on Saturday, December 23, 2006 - 3:26 AM
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Terry

 
If you don't think that porn is dangerous, talk to any number of us wives who have lost or are on the verge of losing their husbands due to this.  My children are in danger EVERY DAY to being exposed to this.  Will they think it's OK for their husbands to do this?  Not picking a fight with you, just don't think you are as informed as you should be before posting a statement like you did.  Porn is absolutely dangerous, and I hope someday you DON'T learn that the hard way.
 
Posted by Terry on Friday, March 02, 2007 - 10:13 PM
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Edd

 
Any addiction is dangerous. If your addicted it means that somthing else has control over you. Once your not in control you have no idea where your gonna wind up, and it might not be a nice place.
 
Posted by Edd on Saturday, February 17, 2007 - 10:27 PM
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    Porn is addictive and it is destructive! There are so many in the church who do keep quiet about this and like to skip the subject just because it is unconfortable and it might offend someone, sad but all true. Lets be real having sex with someone other than your wife or husband is wrong. Fantasizing  about having sex with someone other than your spouse is just as wrong and destructive! 
 
Posted by on Sunday, January 28, 2007 - 7:59 PM
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SIGH...this is tough but here it goes.  i've only shared this w/the HOLY GHOST for fear of being judged but  i am addicted to porn.  it is something that i have struggled with before and then i managed to conquer it (or so i thought) on my own.  this time i find myself praying to GOD for someone to tell because the WORD says, paraphrased, 'confess your sins to your brother so he can pray for you and be healed' and IT also says, in RED LETTERS, 'pray for your brothers in MY name and you will receive what you pray for'.  please pray for me in this matter.  i find myself like paul in romans 7...'that which i do not want to do, that is what i do'.  this is horrible and i am tormented by this addiction.  i know that i love the LORD and i do desire to do HIS will.  as a strong willed person, it is most frustrating because i know that GOD has something special for me and my family but this addiction is delaying the blessing.  i once wrote a song called 'buzz or a blessing' and that dealt w/my addiction to marijuana and the LORD revealed that i can't have both...i had to choose.  this is a very similar situation i can't have both and its rhetorical i'd rather have the blessing(s) of GOD but this addiction chokes me.  it is not like i'm not aware that it is wrong, and dangerous, but i in my own strength cannot defeat this.  i am humbling myself now and asking the BODY OF CHRIST to lift me up before the LORD and pray that the HOLY GHOST will be with me.  i've been disobedient to the LORD and i know that is the reason for some of the strife in my home.

 

thank you for your prayers
in CHRIST

mk


 
Posted by on Sunday, January 28, 2007 - 11:12 PM
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Carissa
Carissa Rogers

 

Normally I don't go off on people for what they post but this is bull.  Porn does not cause people cheat on their significant other, rape people, or molest their children.  Rape and molestation are commited by people who are sick in the head.  Cheating occures when a relationship hits a rough area and the partners don't want to deal with it.  Just because someone looks at porn or frequents stripclubs does not mean that they do any of these things.  My roommate used to be a dancer, we have porn in the house and we even have a pole in our house.  Most of my friends and employers work at exotic clubs as dancers, bartenders and waitresses. Even my mother and aunt were dancers in their younger years.  None of these people are rapist or child molesters. Very few of them have cheated on their partner.  You put alot of religious quotes and materials in your post.  How would you tell non-religious person that porn is bad?


 
Posted by Carissa on Saturday, February 10, 2007 - 9:39 PM
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that's MRS. BITCH to you
Jennifer Easters

 

i may not be a "religious" person, but i do have faith and am a believer that there are bigger things out there than just us.. i myself do check out porn from time to time however. my fiance and i have been sexually active (obviously to anyone who knows that i am carrying his child) since about a month after we met and began dating. he is currently out of the state, in the Marine Corp.. he's been gone since December 27th. Now.. the statement saying that porn leads to people cheating on their significant other or whatever.. that's completely incorrect. i have not been with anyone other than my fiance since we started seeing each other, i don't even look at other men in that way. cheating does not stem from an addiction to porn. cheating is a mental sickness called sexual addiction. if anything, i think checking out porn can actually help to keep someone from cheating. it's also a pretty good way to venture into new things with your partner.. learn new things if you know what i mean. if not porn.. check out some kama sutra books LOL 

::steppin off my lil soap box::


 
Posted by that's MRS. BITCH to you on Thursday, March 01, 2007 - 3:07 AM
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Guns do ot kill people people kill people. But you think twice about killing somone if you have to blungeon them to death with a spoon becuase you have no gun. It is a matter of convienence. Porn is convienient. No comitment. No relationship. Just a quick fix of fill in the blank.

Fact: Men are visually stimulated, Women are emotionally stimulated. Porn targets than man visually. Victoria's secret sells things that are pretty so men look and are excited then in turn tell the women they look great and the women then are fed emotionaly.

Yes there are exceptions. Yes women can be atracted by looks and men do conect emtionally. But why is porn a billion dollar industry with a 85% cunsumer base of Men? Men are visual.

I have been married for 10 years. Lots of junk in my past. My wife knows all of it. And I can say there is no women in no magazine that will fulfill me the way she does. Sex is not a mere act of physical dynamics. Say what you will abaout God, but he did design our bodies. It is as simple as 'lock and key'. Sex was his idea. But it is spiritual. You are conecting on more than a physical level.

Porn eleiminates that spiritual act and lowers it to a primate level. I love my wife. I respect my wife. I can see her naked whenever I want. What do I need porn for? If your fiance never looked at you in the face when you made love, or only wanted sex after he looked at porn would you still feel pretty?

Isn't there something deep down that says I want to be pretty? I want to be his and his alone? I mean wouldn't you feel wierd if he shared pictures of you with his marine buddies? You have value beyond words. You were created with a purpose.

I do not want to sound arrogant or like I am singling anyone out. I am just sad at how men and society have allowed the priceless beauty and innocence of women to be exchanged for a second of worthless pleasure from a 4 dollar magazine or liqour store DVD.

I thank you for your support and love you give your fiance as he serves our country. I will pray for you both and the baby to be. Congartulations.

 


 
Posted by on Monday, March 12, 2007 - 7:50 PM
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Randur Siitam

 
God Bless you brother for standing up
 
Posted by Randur Siitam on Thursday, February 22, 2007 - 3:24 AM
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Yo, I feel ya. I had an addiction to porn for a long time ago. One reason was because my wife wasn't giving me the attention that I needed(bedroom time) and another is because we didn't spend time together like married couples should. She would act like she didn't want to be around me, spend time with me...she would spend more time with friends and everything else. They would get a whole day with her and I would only get 5 minutes to spend with her. So, I would go to porn shops to make her mad because I was trying to hurt her, so she would spend time with me. But i got to the point where I was tired of doing what I was doing. I just made up my mind that if she is going to act like that then so be it, God sees everything and I have to keep myself pure. So, since I made that committment, I haven't been fiending for sex. It doesn't even bother me like it use to. I don't even worry about it cause the bible does say Husband submit yourselves to your wife and vice versa. Now when I even see porn anywhere, I just turn the tv or just keep walking because I know that God has a plan for me and I can't let lust hold me back from fulfilling what God has plans for me to do.
 
Posted by on Sunday, February 25, 2007 - 6:42 AM
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marcellus coleman - the unofficial page.

 

Man you better talk.

Amen.


 
Posted by marcellus coleman - the unofficial page. on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 6:44 AM
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Terry

 
Thank you for your words, they are powerful.  I really pray the people who post against you don't ever have to go through what we who porn has hurt go through almost daily, if not daily.  I will continue to read your posts as inspiration.  Thanks for the invite!!  God Bless
 
Posted by Terry on Friday, March 02, 2007 - 10:12 PM
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Urban Church radio's featured PREACHERS

 
Very real and relevant for what is being perpetrated against the children of God in this day.Pornography has to be exposed for it's destructive nature and evil rootings.The Word says"When the Light shines darkness flees" and "We are not to be ignorant of the devil's devices" also "Give no place to the devil" ...I thank God for your genuine love for the Truth and boldness in bringing this plague into the Light of God's Word..God bless you soldier!!
 
Posted by Urban Church radio's featured PREACHERS on Friday, March 23, 2007 - 1:50 AM
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Im not in Kansas anymore toto
Eric Rose

 

Wow, hit that nail on the head.  I am 17.  I first fell to porn at age 10-13, got saved. then fail into the lie with a girl. That was almost a year ago.  I lost my virginity, the one thing i can never get back or return. I didnt just loose my future wife's gift but gave it away. after me and her broke up i turned to porn to get that tempary "statisfaction".  I have gotten better at not going into it, but like all humans do we still sometimes struggle with it.  The worst part about it is i KNEW and stilll KNOW better. i have somewhat been raised in the church. i have an amazing calling on my life as a minister of the gospel.  thank you for being on of the few that will openly face this currupting force called sexual sin. GOD BLESS you and your ministry.


 
Posted by Im not in Kansas anymore toto on Wednesday, March 28, 2007 - 8:52 PM
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The Divine Miss White
Divine Miss White

 
Our men are vulnerable to the seduction of porn; however an intimate relationship with their Saviour is one of the best preventatives in today;s polluted media saturated age.
 
Posted by The Divine Miss White on Tuesday, May 22, 2007 - 10:42 PM
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young.bam

 
if your already corrputed is there a reverse effect?im a young man who feels like a young man.im not the most beautiful man in the world but im attractive..im out going i like to meet different people..its hard to meet woman and not lust..if its not the natural urges telling me to lust its the clothes of a woman or the dameanor of a woman.woman are sexy and its hard to get that out of my mind.heres a little story that fucked my head up for awhile..i remember like it was yesterday.i was about 5 or 6 and i was playing down the street at a neighbors house.long story short i remember her sending me home for something i did that i thaught was okay..she told me to take my MANISH butt home.i was like manish what does that mean..and everysince then i could see what she was saying now.we are naturally horny creatures so how do we deal with that.i mean im in college when i meet a girl that im really diggin is it not okay to kiss her after we both feel comfortable enough to do so?man im stressin here cuz sex has been made more than what it really is so therefore it a taboo.sex is beautiful thats how my lil girl got here but when taken out of context its dirt and nasty in the eyes of some.SOMEONE HELP ME please
 
Posted by young.bam on Monday, July 23, 2007 - 9:25 PM
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Jammie on top of the world.

 
OK just to make things clear, I am on Minister R and B's side. He has spoken the truth, he has spoken God's word. Either if you have a relationship with God or not, God's word remains true. Let facts be facts and opinions be opinions.

Now there are facts out there that back up what he is saying.
If you are intrested in the subject of pornography and it's effects, or want to get more facts without feeling pressured into a different belief system, or would like statistics, information, or help with pornography addiction, go to www.xxxchurch.com or on myspace click on my profile and then go to my top friend list, and you'll see xxxchurch on there. They are Christian based, but are also experts on this issuie.
If your opinion is different than somebody elses, express your opinion with respect. There is no need to disrespect somebody because their beliefs are different than yours.
 
Posted by Jammie on top of the world. on Tuesday, July 24, 2007 - 6:06 AM
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† J Beezy

 
Bro, you're absolutely right! Everything you said IS fact. Some may read it and think differently, but it is easy to criticize when you are surrounded in "darkness". When God gives you the "light" aka holy spirit, things will become clear and porn will be exposed for what it is==>sin!

For those who doubt the truth of what the minister has stated: I saw porn for the first time when I was 5 years old (TV). I didn't understand it. The second time I saw porn was in the second grade (playboy), I still didn't understand it, but I liked looking at it. By the time I was in the third grade I knew how to use computers and the internet fairly well. I would surf the internet for "sex pictures." By the time I was in fourth grade I attempted to have sex with a girl in the third grade. Sadly, she was willing also, but THANK GOD I had trouble getting "it" in. I continued to look at porn until the 6th grade. In the 6th grade I began masturbating to the porn I was viewing. (The masturbation made the porn even more addicting) By the time I was in the seventh grade I was open with my buddies about looking at porn, etc., and my buddy let me borrow a video he got from an older friend of his. This movie took my initial desires for sex/women and twisted them into even more perverse desires. I remember in the 7th grade it got to the point where I would masterbate in upwards of 6 times a day at times. Usually it was because I was bored and didn't feel like leaving the house. This stuff continued until I was in 11th grade and I began dating a Christian girl who had loose morals. My perverseness was at its peak at this point and I began to suggest to my gf that we "try new things." Screw that phrase. Try new things=lets get even more demented/perverted. Being "open" is cool (within marriage) but even then it needs to be out of a pure heart not to experience nasty akward carnal desires. It got to the point where nothing my gf would do could "get me off" because porn had desensitized me. By the time my gf and I had broken up, (I became saved at this point, thanks to her), porn had already messed both of us up. SHE NEVER EVEN VIEWED THE PORN, BUT BECAUSE I DID, IT MESSED HER UP TOO. I still struggle with porn every once in awhile, but because of my pursuit of God and a relationship with Jesus, and desire to become godly, I am getting much better at it.

Porn is not ok. It is of the devil.

God bless those struggling!

Joshua
 
Posted by † J Beezy on Wednesday, August 01, 2007 - 5:38 AM
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Rachel
Rachel Mitchell

 
U ARE SOOOO RIGHT. U WERE LITERALLY TELLING THA TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THA TRUTH...
 
Posted by Rachel on Monday, September 10, 2007 - 4:19 AM
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Scientology is a cult

 
Haha. What a great joke! ...oh, it's not a joke?
 
Posted by Scientology is a cult on Wednesday, October 31, 2007 - 6:54 PM
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