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Sharon Bidwell


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Gender: Female
Status: Married
Age: 101
Sign: Capricorn

Country: UK
Signup Date: 10/18/2006

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Friday, October 30, 2009 

Current mood:  aggravated
Category: Life
Hmm...yes, we're off again. Our holidays this year have been like London buses: none for ages and then several come along at once. The fact is not having had a break of any sort and finishing the year with more holiday days left than Santa (though I suppose he doesn't just deliver toys so if he's making toys all year he doesn't really get a holiday? Sorry - tangent, though why if Santa delivers the toys do we have to buy them?) we decided enough was enough. We needed a break. From my wanderings, you can probably tell.

I'll tell you all about out trip upon my return. For now I want to rave about reasons to need a break. I'm beginning to wish I'd never heard the word SatNav for a start. Now, I'm a good navigator but having got caught in the systems around Exeter and seeing rather more of the industrial estate than we would like, we gave in and bought one. It arrived this week just in time for our break. It seemed fine and then we got the free map and software update online. Not only did I have to download 4GB of data over two evenings, the instructions were as usual less than helpful. In fact some of the instructions such as how to register you don't receive until after you've...um...registered. Is it just me or do we see a flaw and lack of common sense issue here? Lack of common sense in today's world is a big issue with me.

The download works fine and the site tells us it's all successful...only the unit then won't work. Today it seems to work but we still get an error message appear first. Having got in touch with customer services they've sent us a file to transfer to the SatNav. It will be interesting to see what happens next. If you don't hear from me again it could be we've diverted and we're trying to navigate the wilds of outer Mongolia in order to find our way back.

Once home I have manuscripts to work on. I'm trying to finish something new and short and then I have two novels to play around with, one of which is causing me problems. I have some feedback on it, which I'm not sure I quite understand. There are times a writer could truly use an editor but I'm not quite at that stage yet so I may have to do the one thing I don't usually do and look for a Beta reader. This is difficult. There can be a trust issue although in this case I'm very well covered. I could ask a friend but that's not such a great idea. It can be useful but I'll explain another day why asking friends to read your writing isn't the best thing. It's best if a Beta reader has some idea of writing, of story structure. It's even better if it's another author (especially a published one) because they'll understand exactly what you need but a well-rounded reader is fine. It has to be someone who doesn't mind m/m romance and who isn't easily *cough* shocked. LOL. In that case, I have to disqualify myself because I'm sure no one is more shocked than me. I've got a good book yet I'm floundering with it.

Did Shakespeare ever feel this way? Oooh, there's a hint to my going away. It's only a mid-week break so you don't need to miss me too much. Now if anyone would like to volunteer to do my packing this weekend...
susan

 
PACKING, I'm GREAT AT PACKING. If I was there, I'd DO IT FOR YA. :) :) :) :) :) I'm the EXPERT at making sure EVERYBODY has EVERYTHING THEY NEED. :) :) :)
WOW, if you need some one to critique your books, just ask SARRAH, she's the ENGLISH LANGUAGE and PUNCTUATION QUEEN around HERE. JEESH, I HATE IT when she reads my blogs, because they usually end up not being ME after she's done with em'  ")
As for the GPS, WELL, just ask Bill about HIS. Bill is NOT one to take it well when someone tells him how to DO SOMETHING. SO, last Christmas, after 18 years of going on trips and getting LOST and HE NOT ASKING FOR DIRECTIONS, I bought him a GPS. YES, SANTA BROUGHT HIM A GPS. I had DREAMS of going on trips and not having any YELLING and getting there ON TIME, and ACTUALLY FINDING the place that we intended to GO TO. WELL, ONE HAS TO TRUST THE GPS. He DOESN'T TRUST the GPS. He YELLS AT THE BOX, like he YELLS at SARRAH and me when we tell him, "PLEASE DON"T GO THAT WAY DAD/BILLL"  ") He calls the GPS,"The Bitch in the BOX" He tells EVERYONE that he can be driving down the road, just him in the car, and that BOX is just like having ME IN THE CAR. EVEN THOUGH I'M NOT THERE. THANKS BILL, I always tell him.  ") For example. We're going to the beach, and he programs it into the box. As we're going down the road, "B" tells him to TURN RIGHT in 500ft. NOPE, he yells at the box that he doesn't WANT TO GO THAT WAY. SO, he doesn't TURN. For the next 10 min. the "B" in the box tells him to TURN AROUND and go BACK to blah blah blah point. He YELLS at the "B" in the box for the next 10 min.  ") SOOOOO, as to the "B" in YOUR BOX, GOOD LUCK WITH THAT!!!!!!!!!  "_   Can't WAIT to hear how the trip went with YOUR own personal "BITCH IN THE BOX"   :) :) :) :) :) :)
Have a BEAUTIFUL and SAFE HOLIDAY SHARON!!!! HUGSSS TO YOU, LOTSA LOVE TO YOU and God BLess   Susie  p.s.   DON'T FORGET YOUR CAMERA AND CHARGER and.............  ")

 
Posted by susan on Friday, October 30, 2009 - 3:30 PM
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Sharon
Sharon Bidwell

 
Thanks SO much for the laugh! It would be nice just to get the thing WORKING! Still getting an error message which we have to clear but then it seems to know where we are. Even if it's working it's going to be annoying to keep getting an error screen first! As for it telling you to go a certain way we've tried one simulation and it wants to take us to London and then through the MIDDLE of London, SO NOT the direction we would take because of congestion charge and traffic. Yeesh. So I can appreciate the way Bill shouts at it a little. If we take a certain road this one is supposed to recalculate and work out the route we 'want' to take. We can but live in hope!

Hubby is the best packer. If I'm honest I leave it to him. I'll wash it all before and after but he can pack it. LOL. And oh...no, I wouldn't ask your Sarrah if only because I'd be too embarrassed. She'd wonder what strange woman you've made friends with, who writes such strange things! LOL. Sx

 
Posted by Sharon on Friday, October 30, 2009 - 3:37 PM
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susan

 
OMG, Sarrah is almost 18. She's 18 on Dec. 14th. I think sometimes she probably knows more about STUFF than her MOM DOES.  ") Know what I MEAN? THings probably shock ME alot more than they shock SARRAH. HONESTLY. She always tells me "You're so OLD MOM" and in some ways, I guess she's right. JEESH, my Gramma was born in the late 1880's and my Mom was born in 1917. SOOOOOO, YEP, I was brought up a little PROTECTED and Old fashioned, but I DO KNOW ABOUT STUFF.  "") Mighta taken me AWHILE to figure it all out, but I DO KNOW STUFF.  ") Sometimes, I'll hear Sarrah and Ty talking about "STUFF" and I'll ask her what she's talking about and she'll say,"OH MY GOD MOM, GO AWAY"  WELL, I TRY to find out about all the new "STUFF" I really do.  ")  HUGSSS TO YOU SHARON, LOTSA LOVE TO YA and God BLess     Susie :) :) :) :) P.S. I did have two kids ya know.  Had to know SOMETHIN' about that STUFF.  ")
 
Posted by susan on Saturday, October 31, 2009 - 3:16 PM
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Sharon
Sharon Bidwell

 
LOL. Oh, you did give me a good laugh. I'm sure I'd be the most embarrassed out of the lot of you though. No one's more surprised than me by what I write and very occasionally I'll get 'heighten this sex scene' and  I'm like OMG, where's the pillow to put over my head and hide under. It's a surprise to some that many erotic romance authors have a 'comfort zone' and I strayed over mine in this instance. I'm still convinced that not knowing my work she would 'wonder' about me. Heeheehee.

Finally seem to have the damn satnav working! Gagggh. And it wasn't anything we did wrong. Knew the route but got it to take us to garden centre. Got metal stand 'thingie' with a bell on it for the garden and it came up half price so got a bargain. Also got some nice nibbles. We have a fab garden centre not 'too' far with gifts, plants, pets, food etc. Spent some time wandering through their 'Christmas wonderland'. :o) Sx

 
Posted by Sharon on Saturday, October 31, 2009 - 3:22 PM
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Anne
Anne Brooke

 
Have a super time!!! And sympathies re the SatNav. Lord H is thinking of getting one - though I live in fear ...

Axxx

 
Posted by Anne on Friday, October 30, 2009 - 3:30 PM
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Sharon
Sharon Bidwell

 
Be afraid, Anne. Be VERY afraid! Some technology is definitely to be feared. Sx

 
Posted by Sharon on Friday, October 30, 2009 - 3:37 PM
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