There are no guarantees in life, I would think most people know that by now. Things - people and times change, that is a given. Some change for the better and some for the worst. I feel it is important for every individual to be happy and sometimes there is a price to pay for that, you just have to be prepared and make sure your change is worth it in the end.
Can someone be consumed by their dreams, desires, fantasies and hope, yes, they sure can. Does that make them a bad person, hell no!, it makes them real.
Do I believe people lose themselves in time, yes they can. Is it possible they take on a different identity due to their surroundings, YES! I think some people settle for their situations because that is the way it is and that is all they know but as time moves forward, I believe that is wrong, everyone deserves to be happy, everyone!

The more I sit and try to analyze life, the more I realize that there are more unhappy people out there because that is what they choose, why – because more than anything they are afraid of CHANGE. Is change always fluffy clouds and sunshine, no but it can be a new beginning. I often listen to Shinedown’s song, Second Chance and I cannot do anything but agree. Goodbyes are not always pleasant but sometimes just what ones needs is to move forward and find that happy place……….

Enough for now but I will be back ;)