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Gender: Female
Status: In a Relationship
Age: 37
Sign: Leo

City: CLAREMONT
State: Clare
Country: US
Signup Date: 3/29/2005

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Wednesday, June 29, 2005 

Current mood:  sick
I had a very funny feeling the other day while walking across campus. Lately I’ve taken to noticing the wildlife that lives on the campus, namely squirrels and all types of birds. Yet in watching the wildlife the other day, I was struck with a strange feeling of mortality – that everything dies, and what remains is nothing. And I understood why people cling desperately to the thought of an immortal soul. As humans, everything we are is a huge investment of time and money. Someone somewhere invested a lot to see us through into adulthood, be it our parents, relatives or the taxpayers. And in between birth and now are irreplaceable experiences and memories that make us uniquely us, things that if we were to make an exact clone of ourselves today, it still would not, could not be us. True that there are genetic personality predispositions, but it is the sum of our experiences that forms the bulk of who we are. I had an epiphany many many years ago, as a teenybopper, when dutifully serving time as an altar girl at a Catholic Church in my neighborhood. I never really could get myself to believe in god or heaven or anything else, but I tried nevertheless to entertain the possibility. Until one day, while listening to the deacon give the gospel, I stood upon the altar, clad in a white vestament, standing with expected reverence, when I locked my knees. I saw the church start to darken, darken, darken, then pitch black. A second later, my parents had me outside the church and I was suddenly awake. But the period of time from my having fainted to the time my parents brought me outside was all gone. There was nothing, no perception of the passage of time, just minutes lost in the blink of an eye. It was then that I finally understood death. Death would be the same as fainting except there would be no waking. Everything just ceases without even the consciousness of knowing that it ceased. And given all this, as I walked across campus the other day, I confess I was gripped with a bit of fear when I thought that all of that, every last bit of who and what we are ends with the last breath and the last heartbeat. Everything that is us is formed by mere chemical reactions in the brain, and when those cease, so do we. We can never be here again, the moment, once lost, can never be relived. There is no time machine, no reincarnation, and no heaven above. So what does that leave for us poor mortals? That we should live for today, we should write, make, create, think, do, cherish the moment, and live each day with the desire to create an immortality of memories that lingers on in those left behind after our time has passed.
Alby

 

Thanks for sharing those deep and insightful thoughts.

Perhaps I am mis-eading a connection between your two most recent blogs, but for a few years I have thought that some people seek their "immortality" by producing offspring.  True, they are creating an entirely different spirit or entity, but I think some think that by sharing their morals, memories, lessons learns, guidance and other significant parts of psyche, that some of themselves continues on through their children.

I mostly think it is vanity, simplicity and poor planning that leads to childbirth, and that when someone raises their child they think they have served some higher purpose.  I have no first-hand knowledge of this since I do not have children, and do not want to, but it is a subject I have given some thought to.

Anyway, kudos to your idea of striving not only to live for today, but to leave positive memories that live beyond our fleshy existence!


 
Posted by Alby on Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 6:16 AM
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bassbitch
Melanie Sisneros

 
Albert, you hit the nail on the head! My musings were how the child-free, goddless ones reconcile mortality. :)
 
Posted by bassbitch on Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 3:00 PM
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West Side Dave
West Side Dave

 
Heavy thoughts, indeed! Personally, I am a firm believer in the afterlife, reincarnation, etc. Maybe it`s my Catholic upbringing? Still, THIS is the only life we can be ABSOLUTELY certain of, the only one that counts. So yes, we should DEFINITELY live for today and live in hope for tomorrow. Or to quote Kansas: "Don`t hang on, nothing lasts forever but the Earth and sky. It slips away, and all your money won`t another minute buy."
 
Posted by West Side Dave on Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 10:37 PM
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Doug
Douglas Kasper

 

I've always equated death to falling asleep and just not waking up.  When you sleep you don't know you were asleep except for the fact that the clock says it's eight hours later. 

Live for today for tomorrow we all die. 

 


 
Posted by Doug on Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 8:29 PM
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bassbitch
Melanie Sisneros

 
Ahhh, but in sleep, you dream. In death there are no dreams....
 
Posted by bassbitch on Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 10:53 PM
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Doug
Douglas Kasper

 

Are you sure there are no dreams in death?  The only reason you know you had a dream is because you woke up and remembered it.  Maybe in death you eternally dream....


 
Posted by Doug on Thursday, June 30, 2005 - 10:59 PM
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smylex

 
Perhaps life is the dream and when we die, we wake up to our true lives.

See, I'm trying to use that as a basis for my own religion and make millions of bucks off of rubes who would believe such nonsense. 

Now, if you want to truly know what happens when you die:

They put you in a box, cover you with dirt and they won't even let you out on weekends!  Those bastards! 

 
Posted by smylex on Saturday, July 02, 2005 - 8:47 PM
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Anastasia

 
Mleghhgh! It's me, Anaahghhgh! I agree that there's nowhere to go after we die, there's nobody (our blood or otherwise) who will carry on our dreams, since they have dreams of their own. The only thing we can influence by any means in the lives which will be carried on would for their own good, not for the sake of remembering us. When we're gone, those remaining just have to find a way to get rid of all the junk we collected while we were alive. ;) eBay lives on!

Also...when I think of religious peoples' life-paths, they worship a god for the selfish motive of attaining everlasting life through heaven and meeting Jesus (damn groupies!). Waste of human flesh, living as a fantasy character from an old book which was written to help children learn morals from fictional stories back when there probably were no schools...oh yeah, and scare them into believing in god by his loving wrath.
 
Posted by Anastasia on Saturday, July 09, 2005 - 8:34 PM
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"Insane" Kain Thornn

 
Wow, that's some seriously deep thoughts.  I'm struggling with the big demon of makin enough of myself that at least one person will look back on my life (after the chemicals have stopped reacting) and say "Hey, he did sumpin cool!"
 
Posted by "Insane" Kain Thornn on Tuesday, July 26, 2005 - 7:17 PM
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speedemon

 
Hah!If only you showed so much insight in other areas of your life....j/k!I happen to totally disagree however. What you say does in fact apply to 99% of the people on Earth. The Abraham Lincolns, Jimi Hendrixs, Buzz Aldrins, Marie Curies and Sigmund Freuds do not suffer the same fate.
 
Posted by speedemon on Saturday, September 03, 2005 - 9:15 PM
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Komrade Joe

 

Hey Mel

One question that would have crossed my mind while crossing the campus is "How did all these beautiful things get here?". As I grow older this question keeps nagging at me. While i dont subscribe to any one religion i have come to the conclusion that this cannot all be "happenstance". As for what happens after death we can only theorize. None of us have died, for any length of time, and returned to tell about it.

The more questions i ask the more i realize how little i know. One thing i do believe in is prayer and the power of positive thought. I have read some studies that showed that people praying can raise the room temp dramatically. What the hell that means i dont know but pray cant hurt and only takes a few seconds.

I have a big gash in my chest right so please pray, to whomever (god, buddha, allah, or a head of lettuce) that i get better.

Keep cranking the metal

Gordo


 
Posted by Komrade Joe on Wednesday, December 28, 2005 - 11:14 PM
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{Red} Karma

 
Very True. Death IS eternal. Life is only temporary.
 
Posted by {Red} Karma on Monday, May 01, 2006 - 4:50 PM
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Sean☆Aaron XL - The Kahuna Rockstar
Sean Aaron

 

First of all, Very well expressed.  I love people that get me thinking.  And all I knew before this was that you are a bad ass bass player! 

I bank some of my spirutuality on a few things. 

1. Physics proves that energy can not be created nor destroyed.  It changes forms.  So where does the energy that was life go when it leaves this existance?  I believe it goes somewhere.  Where?  I can only dream about that.

2. I/you/we all were conceived and were born and don't remember really anything until we were about 3 years old.  It did happen.  Even though you don't remember it!  My point being a lot does happen that you don't remember (not to bring up my past Whisky Drinking Days) - so maybe after you die you'll know or experience it, and then not rememer.  Who knows??

I SO SO SO agree with you about living for today.  None of us really know what happens next.  The only thing you really can count on IS today.  I LOVE your words too about what to do with TODAY.  I'll have to remember to "we should write, make, create, think, do, cherish the moment" at all times.

 


 
Posted by Sean☆Aaron XL - The Kahuna Rockstar on Sunday, May 21, 2006 - 12:45 AM
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Kill-Kenny

 
from the perspective of a heathen anti-religious science nut who is had too many brushes with death, i have got to say that there are two classes of experiences:
1.  the "oh shit" darkness.  it happens so fast, all you can think of is "oh shit" and then "where the fuck am i?" as you awake in a strange room hopefully not surrounded by strange people.  i have experienced this through drugs and through serious trauma.
2.  the "please oh please oh please" moment.  you see it coming. the pain is not all-consuming.  it would almost be better if it was because then you wouldn't have anything left to feel the fear of death looming.  begging for a cessation of pain while simultaneously begging to continue life.  this funnily enough is also through drugs and through trauma and i have got to say that I can really do without any more painful brushes with death.

death and its perceptions of value cannot be separated.  dying peacefully.  dying with dignity.  dying before one's time. dying well.  dying horrifically.  death is all about the experiences of those who have brushed against that door and those who do not have those experiences and must "die" vicariously through others.  death is the supreme unknowable.  it is not death that consumes us and fills us with doubt.  it is life.




 
Posted by Kill-Kenny on Tuesday, October 24, 2006 - 1:05 AM
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J Black

 
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Posted by J Black on Friday, May 04, 2007 - 8:12 PM
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FRANK
Hell No

 
Very good Blog, I must say. There is no man in the clouds. There is only nature. How could there be a god when the universe or our sun is destined to die. That means everything gets erased. So yeah enjoy life to the fullest because it will soon be time to die and that sucks. But I bet my life when you die you do dream. Your life will flash through your eyes. That includes all the ups and downs in your life.

Dead but Dreaming great song from Deicide check them out.
Also check out my band Choking Her
 
Posted by FRANK on Wednesday, October 29, 2008 - 7:42 PM
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