Because I have a few TV and film credits, at times I have been treated like a 'star.'
Because I was a teen beauty queen, was frequently in the newspaper and was often at high brow events, I was regarded as a 'star.'  Because I've been on the radio and was once on the air worldwide, I've been considered to be a 'star.'

Well my friends, in the real world those are all moments to be proud of.  It is a blessing to have accomplishments and to have those who sincerely celebrate your successes.

Now that I'm older and have endured just as many losses as wins, my whole reference point for stars is quite different.  A few years ago as I spent time in the emergency room in three different hospitals, I saw the real stars, the new stars in my life.  It is those who do what they do to serve others without fanfare that are the real stars.        I saw doctors, nurses and orderlies respond with readiness to attend to each and every patient with the same regard.  Because I was blessed to see community service in my family, it is incumbent upon me to continue the tradition of giving back in any way that I can.  Boy oh boy, when I was young I never pondered the fact that the ones giving time and money were making sacrafices perhaps despite the fact that they had problems of their own.

Today, I know many who are re-defining new chapters in their lives.  They are rebounding from--- in a word, LIFE!  Although in California we are known for our glitz and glamor, there is nothing pretty about struggling while giving it your very best effort.  In the past weeks, I have been reminded by those that love me that I am a 'star.'  Yeah right?  What is that?  I haven't felt 'star' like.  In fact celebrity is a by product of popularity and if that popularity comes as a result of displaying exceptional gifts and disciplines, then I humbly wear the title. 

Yesterday while pulling out of my driveway, knowing the depths of what I really felt, The Spirit gave me a new meaning of a 'star.' 

Something or someone that shines no matter how dark the night.  Bingo!  THAT'S THE KIND OF STAR THAT I'LL STRIVE TO BE!             A star that shines, though the light may be dim, it still keeps it's glow, giving light and hope to those who can still---
look upward.

Jazzy love,
Miss Rita Shelby

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