It will Jane. Time as they say is a great healer!

Merry Xmas to you and your family

From Me & Mine

Sarah x

 

Isn't mass media the greatest? Hell, even me, a little 21 year old feminist in Texas came across this. It really inspired me and although I understand you feel like you might feel like you are losing a little bit of yourself, realize that in the end if someone like that is going to stab you in the back you shouldn't be with them because they won't protect you. Protection is the one thing I need from my friendships and relationships - because when people who are close and trusted by me and they abandon me (emotionally or otherwise) it is such an uninspiring feeling...it's like I don't even want to trust an yone else again because this one person I trusted with everything has proven me to be an ass....any ways, in my own little Texan way, I see what you are going through, and I have told many friends about it. It's empowering.

As well, how about setting up some linkage to your blog and any other links that provide narration of your recent feats of revenge. My mother mentioned something about it in the car the other day on the way to work, and she mentioned something about you tearing up his teddy bear? Well, I don't know, but that was what I was told.

I wish you the best of luck and would recommend you either looking at the lyrics of or listening to the music of "Le Tigre" - a feminist grrrl electronic-pop art band from Califronia. and they are catchy (well, I tend to think so, but what's my opinion?)

 

i would love to giv him and her a smack ,least now u no and u can be happy!! i fink ur gr8 ,well done ,chin up ,ur betta off out ov it  xx
 

WOW!!!!!

 

Well done jane im so proud of you!!!! the same thing happened to me 7weeks ago he cheated on me with the town bike!!!

lets just hope he catches something nasty!!!

Merry Xmas  xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

Whatever your belief system, fate, God, history - whatever you want to call it, it has a funny way of working.  I put 1st Husband's girlfriend's head through a glass window.  My lawyer went beserk:  "Oh no!", he screamed," you'll get done for GBH!"  "No, I won't", I replied, "there was enough cocaine in that flat to kill an elephant!".  He married her and did his karma come back and bite him - she had an abortion, which I know hurt him deeply.
 

I just saw your revenge billboard ..
Go Girl ! U rockk !..

The revenge is only one third of what they`ve done to u ...
But HELL!! they deserve it !!!!!!

I really do hope u feel LOADS better and get on well with your life .. :)
God bless~
 

Hi Jane hi have been listerning to your emails on BRMB, can i say what a jerk that man is and he will be sorry as for ur 'mate' what mate can do that, i wanted to say enjoy christmas with ur kids get very drunk and eat lots of nice things then go out and enjoy life show him what he is missing, and the board in Brum very classy. Nicola.
 

Kia Orana!

Firstly..Da asshole & da tramp need a good island hiding! Traditionally, with wooden flip-flops or anything thats close to you 

Im glad I saw dis on Womans Day (NZ Mag)...im sure most women around da world can relate to your situation & know how you feel...including me.

I'm on ur team gurl!

 

 

Jane- I take my hat off to you, lady. You ROCK!!!!
 

Well done jane, hope u have had a good xmas! :]
 

You go girl!!! I, too, was "under the influence" of wanting so much to trust a man I was dedicating my life to...and was also burned by the realization that he was f*cking my best friend, a friend that sat with me in my house, drank my tea, consoled me through suspicions and was "there" for me...HA! Turns out, they were seeing each other on the sly for over a year without me knowing, and in my bed, too! I found out by laying a small tape recorder in a concealed place in our bedroom while I was off to work...I couldn't believe it myself upon hearing their voices...it was unmistakeable, and the proof I needed to clean house. After going through that years ago, I will tell you, that time, indeed, does cleanse the wounds, and there is indeed, hope. I have now found the man that has been through just as much, and in finding each other, we have been blessed with love, once again. And I have also been blessed with new friends, after the degree of mistrust I had, that too, is a blessing.

So, my dear, hold your head high, and don't look back! 

Penny (and Rick)

 

Things will get better. I know it may not seem like it now, but it will trust me. I wish that I would have thought to do what  you did.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your scum bag  of an ex husband and scum bag of an ex friend deserve each other your so much better off without them.  By the way I live in the USA and saw your story and wish I would have thought of that
 

I'm going through a very similar situation.  However, my ex-husband to be is dating a former student of his who is only 18 years old.  While my attorney has advised me not to attack him or her at this time, seeing your story inspired me.  It's good  to see somebody else doing what their heart tells them to do.  In time, mine will get his.  I'm just laying low for right now.  You go girl!  We will get through this and better better women for it.  "That which does not kill us, makes us stronger."

 

Kellie

 

hi jane. sorry to hear about what your disgusting husband and best friend did. way to go, l wouldve did the same thing to your girlfriends clothes too. you could find someone better and move on. what goes around comes around.  l wish you the best of luck in the new year and stay strong.     tiff & ang
 

<P>after all the comments from all the people this may not sound very convincing anymore,, but this is 2007, a new year (altough it's already may),, glad to see you moving along with life; not only I but alot of other people have found inspiration in your story,, hope all is well, and please accept my, (kind of late) best wishes for the new year, happy easter, and  :) may the divinity grant you whatever it takes to reach your state of happyness;;</P><P> </P><P>love,, maven</P>