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Capt. Midnight



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Gender: Female
Status: In a Relationship
Age: 23
Sign: Aries

City: Kansas City
State: Missouri
Country: US
Signup Date: 4/29/2005

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Thursday, September 20, 2007 
I'm really lonely. I hate feeling like this. Even though I have someone lying next to me, I feel like I'm the only person in the world... or at least the only person in the world that notices I am indeed in it. I hate that my best friend lives 1851.31 miles away. I hate that I feel like I can't talk to any of the friends I thought I had here. I hate that I feel like this if I don't have someone to talk to me 24/7. I'm such a needy bitch.

Maybe if I liked myself more this wouldn't be an issue. How the hell am I supposed to like myself more? I used to take "self portraits" to cheer myself up, it was kinda like "look, you're not so bad, life doesn't suck as much as you think, right?" but it doesn't work anymore. I actually hate taking pictures of myself now. I always want to take a photo of my cute make up, but I usually end up filing my photos away because I look like fat, disgusting shit. I'll sit there and pick apart everything that's wrong with me.

• lips are crooked, barely have an upper right side
• facial jewelry is affected by said crookedness, looks retarded
• nasty yellow bucked teeth with a fantastic open bite
• right ear is about 1/2" lower on the head than the left, makes glasses sit crooked
• pores are fucking huge
• increasingly apparent GFGF (generic fat girl face, ie: squishy cheeks that run into the nose creating fat lines, chins, fat around eyes making them squinty, etc)
• what Brad describes as "caveman eyebrows" which is in actuality a roll of fat on the forehead
• right nostril is MUCH larger than the left, thicker also
• blowout in septum makes jewelry sit crooked and generally look like shit
• cheeks, nose and chin are always red
• huge crater of a pockmark smack dab in the middle of the forehead

And that's just my face (and an incomplete list). I really had to stop myself from listing everything I hate about physical appearance, it'd probably take up your whole FL though, I'd hate to do that. And no, I'm not too hard on myself, I really hate hearing that, just because someone else doesn't think it's an issue doesn't mean it's not really there.

I'd really like to just talk to someone right now. I don't know what I'd say, but I don't know, I just feel like crap.

You know, after reading this over, I sure do hate a lot of things. Jeremy pointed it out the other day when I was at the shop. First I said I hated my stupid lips for being crooked (and causing him to think it'd be a bad idea to put more holes in them, even though I have room "They wouldn't be symmetrical, and you wouldn't be happy."), then I said I hated how red my face always was, and then I commented on how I hate the way I "tan" - getting burnt then becoming slightly darker and hella freckled. I also commented on the fact that I hated how I wasn't all over pale anymore. Well, you know, I gotta let the hate out.
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meganekko.

 
talk to me :D asfor crookedness guess what, half my face doesnt work, so my left eye is slower in blinking, when i smile, i look like a tard, and i get major pains in the left side if i laugh to much cause it yanks the muscle, so remember, it could be worse. and all that you described i didnt know and when i checked in pictures i didnt see it.

im pale and covereddd in freckles, i cant tan. try that tanning lotion, ya know with the self tanner in it, it does work.
 
Posted by meganekko. on Thursday, September 20, 2007 - 7:43 AM
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Capt. Midnight

 
I know it could be worse, but you should know that doesn't make things easier to accept. I'm not making light of your situation, my granny had Bells palsy and I remember how hard it was for her. I can identify with the pain though, a big reason for why my face is so "crooked" is because I have untreated TMJD, and have for many years. My neurologist suggested I wear a splint when I sleep when I was seeing her about my headaches, but my grandma never did anything about it. And you know, it's not all just looks, the unevenness of my mouth accompanied with how shifted my teeth are have been making my speech more and more distorted every year. If I don't focus on talking slow and enunciating everything I say, my words will get garbled and often people don't understand what I'm saying and make me repeat myself several times. It makes me feel like I'm going crazy because I understand myself just fine. Coupled with my paranoia, it makes me feel like people just don't want to listen to what I say.

Also, I hate tan. I hate hate hate tan. I want to be a creamy white, but even that is unattainable since I'm so fucking pink.
 
Posted by Capt. Midnight on Thursday, September 20, 2007 - 7:56 AM
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James Bond♥

 
actually, i have never noticed any of those things. but then again, i dont ever see you and you see yourself more than anyone LOL. so you would notice that stuff. and even though its a cliche, EVERYONE has things they hate about themselves. and you really do have to embrace it, to accept it, and love it. and btw i think freckles are super cute!
 
Posted by James Bond♥ on Thursday, September 20, 2007 - 4:55 PM
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♥Yum Yum Bumblebee Tuna♥

 
I've actually always thought your teeth were really cute...<3 I like teefs.
 
Posted by ♥Yum Yum Bumblebee Tuna♥ on Friday, September 28, 2007 - 4:22 PM
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Forbidden Fruit

 
You can't see youself even close to how others see you... where to start... you have disgustingly perfect skin! And as for a caveman brow, shut up you don't have forehead fat! Your forehead is perfectly smooth. Pockmark? I didn't even see one which is very strange because I have one in like the exact same place and I hate it and always notice when others have them. (seems to be a common place)
Your lips are perfect and so is your nose you bitch lol. You're so wrong wrong wrong! I've seen your face very close and it is perfect... I always tell you that you're beautiful and I don't say these things to be nice I say them because I am jealous!
When are we hanging out so I can show you how strong my pimp hand is?
 
Posted by Forbidden Fruit on Monday, October 01, 2007 - 9:14 AM
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Alex
Alex Story

 
OK babe quit beating yourself up. At least you got someone to sleep next to. I havent had a steady boyfriend scince i came out over 4 years ago! you think you or your life sucks so bad, give mine a go. We wont even go into what i hate about my face/body there isnt enough time. . . ive learned to just focus in on what i do love/like about myself, and leave well enough alone with the things i dont. hugs and kisses well hugs at least i dont do the kissing thing unles it involves tounge! lol j/k ;) ttyl
 
Posted by Alex on Tuesday, November 06, 2007 - 9:49 PM
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Jake Oakes (NEW SONGS!!!!)

 
Ok...I love you...but. CHILL!!!!!!!!!
 
Posted by Jake Oakes (NEW SONGS!!!!) on Saturday, February 09, 2008 - 10:52 PM
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