Although i have written many blogs i think that i will write my most important blog of my life tonight. I have often spoke of love and the things that love can do to one's heart the goods the bads and all in between but i must say that love will never treat a heart badly. Love can only be good... If you're heart is hurt by what you think is love you are mistaken and what you feel is only infatuation. And letting go of infatuation is a very important part of life. For when we hold on to infatuattion we continue to believe that the feelings inside are more than infatuation and convince ourselves that it is love. The best thing that we can do is take the horrible feelings and heartbreak that comes with getting rid of the stumbling blocks of Love. You will be sad because you are losing people close to you. But you will gain the freedom that true love brings to you when you find it. You also must do certain things to make sure that you make it through this tough time emotionally stronger or at the very least not weaker.  To do this you must trust your friends to be there for you and that they will love you no matter what you say or do. It is my opinion that friends are more important than even your own family. Your family loves you my family loves me and thats all fine well and good but families have very little choice in loving on another. ANd the love that they feel is a love placed there by nature. I believe that the love that friends share is much more powerful and long lasting than the love of your family. I can show people everyewhere proof that what i say is in some way factual if you look at the statistics look at how many disfunctional families there are in america i.e. divorces, broken families, etc. Then take a look at how many disfunctional groups of friends there are. Your friends love you for who you are inside. Your family loves you because they are required to love you. Its true that your family can love you for who you are but they have to love you because you are a part of their family. Familial Love is strong and will get you through many of lifes struggles, but friends will always be there for you and you can always trust them to be honest with you. If they are true friends.

To all my friends I love you all...

RAMEN