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Category: Romance and Relationships
They want to WANT a woman, to worship her, to please her, to ravish her, and to sweep her off her feet with their physical and emotional presence.
And for the woman to be utterly and completely taken with them and what they do.
I'm sure you've seen or heard this kind of male fairy tale before.
So why don't men just act this way with women if this is what they want?
Ahhh... welcome to dating.
Because most women don't create the experience that will make a man FEEL this way.
So here's a “center-piece” of the puzzle...
I call it the “Pursuit Gene”.
There's a drive in men that makes them want to be CHALLENGED... and to overcome that challenge.
Men want to be challenged by the idea of meeting, attracting, and pursuing a woman.
And then they want to win the woman over and feel stronger as a man for having done it.
Men deal with this in one of two ways:
1. They find more “freedom” and emptiness by physically being with a woman in the short term
2. They find connection and love by physically AND emotionally being with the woman in a deeper and “longer-term” way
Here's the AMAZING part...
A woman helps him choose which it will be with her.
Interesting...
The point is, men LOVE the chase.
Some men might tell you that they don't.
They do.
Men love the chase and the challenge not in their “logical” minds, but down where it counts.
They love it in their FEELINGS and EMOTIONS.
It's part of their genetic make-up.
But if a woman loses control emotionally, seeks HIS APPROVAL or thinks she can trade sex to receive love before a man's experiencing an intense desire to WIN HER OVER and to be with her, then something bad happens.
The man loses that feeling of excitement and challenge with her.
He recognizes that the woman has already given over physical and emotional CONTROL to him.
Which destroys the strongest “lead-in” to creating lasting love with a man.
It's just one simple word.
ATTRACTION.
Men want to feel ATTRACTION.
And I don't mean that they want to talk about it or analyze it so that it makes “sense”.
They don't want to listen to what a woman tells them is going on and then come to accept and understand how and why they should be in love.
No. That's not how men work.
Instead, they want to FEEL their desire for a woman inside their whole body, emotionally driving them, and for it to be undeniable and unrelenting.
Get where I'm going here?
If you don't make a man FEEL ATTRACTION for you and trigger the emotional desire deep inside him to win you over and be with you for the long term, then there's no amount of talking, sharing, or SEX that can change his mind.
Experiences and situations that will make a man respond to a woman with INTENSE DESIRE and ATTRACTION.
And not just in the “empty” physical sense, but instead with more deeply connected feelings.
He'll wonder why he didn't find you and figure out how to be in love sooner.
12:27 AM
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