I'm sorry you feel so shitty my dear - you deserve someone consistently wonderful, not just when his or her mood is right. Patience is a tough fucking bitch of a virtue, but it's an important one - I'm still working on mine...
 

surely only one thing can cure this the bannana phone =).You know that im always here for you you have always been such a good friend any guy who can't see how much of a wonderful person you are should just stop while they are ahead because nobody should ever remove a smile from your face.
 

well as a guy, i don't know how much my words are worth to you right now, but here goes. i had the best relationship i ever had not too long ago. `she` was my empress, the one thing in my life that was truely good. i fucked it up because i was an irresponsible alcoholic asshole and i would kill to have a second chance. the average guy would at this as freedom, where i see it as a theatre of tragedy.

i guess what i'm trying to say is not all guys are like the ones you've been dealing with lately. when i initially got together with maggie, it was right after my stef decided to get back together with jonny. as much as that upset me at the time, it taught me a very valuable lesson: think with your brain first, and your heart later. I didn't jump right into loving maggie. i made damn sure she was right for me first. then i let the rest unfold.

basically, you should look for a guy along those lines. if they drop the l bomb in 2 days, its a safe bet they're thinking with their dick and playing the fact that you are a somewhat emotional girl.

so i guess my advice is to upgrade your bullshit detector and to make damn sure you and whoever the next love interest is are on the same page at the same time.

good luck,
mp
 

size='2'>I wish I could make your pain go away! But just know that Im always here for you and I will try my best to be a great friend. I'll eat tones of ice cream with you I'll be your shoulder to cry on. I'll make a big poster of his face and then throw darts at it with you.... (that would probably be really fun. can we do that to tys face 2 when I get pissed off at him? haha) I know I have told you to just lay off of him but its not my decision and that I cant tell you to do something that you dont want to do. But I would like to give you respectful advice with out hurting your feeling and I know I probably have cuz you know I dont really care for the dude. But I dont like someone who hurts my friends feelings and makes them feel bad! I wish telling him to be a man and not a player would help....But I really dont think it would help. What ever you decide Im with you! :) I love you and you are one of my best friends. If hes not the guy for you, that doesnt mean that there isnt a guy/girl out there for you. You just gotta give it time. Try not to look so hard, let the person your supposed to be with find you, but remember from your past what kind of person is right for you. Maybe you could write down some pros and cons about the dude your wrote this blog about. If the pros are more than the cons maybe he could be someone you could date, but if the cons are more than the pros maybe its just better to move on. But its totaly up to you! anyways Im just going on and on and on. So I love you and I hope what I said helped you just a lil bit.



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My dearest Krista,

I understand your pain completely. I spent three years of my life with a man that i thought i could spend my life with, but we all know that it wasnt meant to be from week one. Then i met a man that swept me off my feet, and made my every dream come true. Yes he was older, yes he had baggage but who doesnt, right? WRONG! He broke my heart into so many pieces im still trying to pick them up. So I left. Well this is your time to step back an take the time to find your self and what you really want in life. Spend sometime being single and just havin fun.

Now when i say have fun i dont mean have sex or fool around. But take your life back into your own hands and show those men what they are really missing! I love you girl, and i know that this may seem hard, but BELIEVE ME, I understand!

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Catrinalee
 

ok. im still pissed at u for disrespecting my family like that, but im sorry for what u r going throw right now. u do deserve better. i am truly sorry.