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	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	I don't have a problem with your questions, as long as you don't have a problem with my answers You ready...GO!   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Friday, November 21, 2008 - 2:49 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	I got it from you?   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 12:08 AM [Reply to this]

	Robin	I am already convinced! Enjoyed this clip...nice to see your face :) I know you better put that damn cigarette out lol!   Posted by Robin on Friday, November 21, 2008 - 4:21 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	I usually don't smoke , only in the cold and the rain.   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 12:10 AM [Reply to this]

	Ingrid *Sapphire* Ingrid Jeudy	Kerry you mean to tell me a guy is going to turn down a waman sexually ... just because he wants to keep his friendship with a woman? Did I hear you right?   Posted by Ingrid *Sapphire* on Friday, November 21, 2008 - 5:17 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	Not HE, but THEY. Understanding has to be mutual and goals and objectives have to be common. Otherwise you end up EXPERIMENTING with a potentially gooe healthy kinship...resultingin ruin. Although he should attempt to ESTABLISH this initially to possibly omit excuses and irresponsibility on her part later. I mean females typically tend to react and respond to their emotions. Very impulsive creatures you are emotionally. We are impulsiveas well at times as itrelates to CONVENIENCE Good Question   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 12:16 AM [Reply to this]

	Alphonso	This is wassup, Kerry! Preach man, preach! I don't have any questions man, but I decided to just keep things business and professional for now on and let the pleasure come to me... I'm building my brick wall real close and simple. That's all I can say. Peace!   Posted by Alphonso on Friday, November 21, 2008 - 5:38 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	Becareful of building that brick wall around yourself. You usually end up trapping your own self unfortunately. You can have fun responsibly, but never loose your FOCUS.   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 12:19 AM [Reply to this]

	LATINTEMPTRESS LATIN TEMPTRESS	There you go again in my city lol. I don't have any questions, I already know everything I need to know. Just showing you some luv and support *smile* *KEEP IT SIMPLE AND KEEP IT MOVING*   Posted by LATINTEMPTRESS on Friday, November 21, 2008 - 6:11 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	No one knows everything they need to know....including you. Not that you need to learn anything from me. Comment can be percieve as suggestive which I'm sure you meant it to be. And I could be takingthe bait here. So Imma put a lil bait out there of my own.... You could have kept it moving period. Being you went 2 years answering these types of questions from me. Maybe you could help somebody out here now. Don't keep all the answers to yourself...unless of course... *smile*   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 12:26 AM [Reply to this]

	ply	stepping to the mic- what have been the biggest challenges you've had to deal with on message boards and blogging? how have these venues helped or hurt you? what are 3 things that are necessary in your life, whether or not you have them?   Posted by ply on Friday, November 21, 2008 - 6:20 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	1) Condescendingness - They seem to undersestimate your ability to reason through their malice 2) Help- being able to feel the pulse of the audience. Ultimately trageting like minded individuals. Hurt - They can expose weaknesses weeding through the ones you areclosest to. Double whammy if they get to them. Or suddenly they turn on you. Can be taxing and draining. 3) A-Integrity - being a person of my word. Owning what I say and stand for in yourface and out. B-Redemption- Righting my mistakes forthe ones I love at all cost over , under, around , and through all the adversity C-peace - Having no fear or regrets on my death bed, no matterhow soion the day may come. If I have my way, I won't shed a tear, no crying, not one flinch of nerve. I plan to go Honorably...accepting my fate Very Good Questions Polly. But I am not surprised from you...Thanks   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 12:38 AM [Reply to this]

	ply	thank you very much!   Posted by ply on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 4:23 AM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	No...thank you very much   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 4:43 PM [Reply to this]

	Blacktiger - Author of Aspirations Of Love	What was your biggest challenges you had when you wrote your first book? getting started, selling, or just getting your name none so people would want it? Whats the best way to present yourself to get your name none to sell your book?   Posted by Blacktiger - Author of Aspirations Of Love on Friday, November 21, 2008 - 9:54 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	1) Thinking am I credible or qualified enough after I realized according to them I wouldn't ever be qualified. I decided right then, I would QUALIFY, CLASSIFY, and DIGNIFY my mothaphuckin self. And not worry about burning a bridge no one would ever allow me to cross. So I build my own bridges now and kick ass and take names while doing so without apology Depends on who belive you are...You pitch yourself to that audience. Target your audience. Have to know who you are at the core though. And above everything stay TRUE to that.   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 12:44 AM [Reply to this]

	MakeUaDrink	Unyielding confidence is a powerful tool. How a person perceives themselves is so much more important than the perception of others...especially when it's applied with potential and combined with self knowledge.   Posted by MakeUaDrink on Monday, November 24, 2008 - 4:29 AM [Reply to this]

	Ingrid *Sapphire* Ingrid Jeudy	Kerry, Kerry!!! where you at? I got questions for you mane We see how some stars can loose support from fans (supporters) once the fans are aware that they are in a relationship (like Usher). I know that can happen to authors, how can we separate our private life from our readers (supporters) without us making them feel like were building up a wall?   Posted by Ingrid *Sapphire* on Friday, November 21, 2008 - 10:12 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	You have to make a conscience decision on which you aregoing to be committed to. Usher may feel as though he is loosing anything , because he has madethe committment to the relationship. If you are as established as Usher that may make your decision making a bit more difficult. That why it is paramount that we examine things from every angle before making committments. Let's just say it helps morein the beginning and may not hurt as much in the end. Let me know if I answered your question. It was kind of tricky all of it being together   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 12:48 AM [Reply to this]

	Ms. Erica Ms. Douglas	No question from me. Just want to say that once again, you've dropped the knowledge. Keep doing you no matter what. ~E~   Posted by Ms. Erica on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 1:39 AM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	...you droppin some shit yourself I see...Looking good mama   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 4:19 PM [Reply to this]

	De_Licious The Tenacious Writer De-Licious JOhnson	Kerry I got mad luv for you. You are so real and down to earth, you are a real playa :-) You know when to act a fool and when to be serious. You are passionate about what you do. You genuinely care about people, you share your luv, life, time and knowledge with them. You spur of positivity and that is plus added to all your other attributes. Pleaseeeeeeee don't go hollywood on us. You're aready a star :-) Smoooooooches!!!   Posted by De_Licious The Tenacious Writer on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 2:17 AM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	Thank you Dee, but you are waay to kind. I 'm bout as crazy as anybody on a bad day at times. I am grateful for your tolerance though. But a STAR , I dont want that pressure mane. I'm just a regular ol Joe trying to catch up with these mistakes I mad and erase'em before somebody else notices so far it aint looking too good. But it aint over til its over mane   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 4:22 PM [Reply to this]

	MakeUaDrink	Well just keep shining bright like you do Kerry. No presure. It seems to be nature for you is all.   Posted by MakeUaDrink on Monday, November 24, 2008 - 4:13 AM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	Not shining...reasoning   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Monday, November 24, 2008 - 4:29 PM [Reply to this]

	MakeUaDrink	Looks like I picked a good day to get back to my computer. I've been missing you and the Wagfest family. ;-) Imperfection and the understanding of our own personal flaws can breed a comfort zone as well as motivate each of us towards success or failure. *What is one of your defining moments that have turned your life in a new direction?   Posted by MakeUaDrink on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 3:54 AM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	WAGFEST...hands down. The growth of it has forced me to tame some of my bad habits a bit more. And re-anylyze some things. Another level of responsibility mane. I am having a difficult time adjusting to how I would normally manage some things. Can't fight as quick anymore...I so hate that mane. I always have never minded a good fight...But to kick a perpetrators ass was devine Luv is luv now mane...painfully too, I aint use to conceding   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 4:26 PM [Reply to this]

	MakeUaDrink	It might seem like your conceding due to the "change" of managing situations the way you normally would in the past but it sounds to me like you are finding the proper tools to build your house (WAGFEST) on a strong and stable foundation. Growth is often painful but well worth the results of progress.   Posted by MakeUaDrink on Monday, November 24, 2008 - 3:56 AM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	Actually it's that painful at all. The growth part I mean. Pretty intoxicating, addictive and liberating once you get the hang of it. The upside definitely outweighs the down. It's hard but its fair... mane   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Monday, November 24, 2008 - 4:31 PM [Reply to this]

	~Julie~	Kerry, Relationships... whether professional, casual,or interpersonal all require a certain level of attention and commitment. Defining those roles with boundaries is paramount when establishing one's self in private and the public sector. When everything in life has to be managed, what areas do you find it particularly challenging to manage? (if indeed you find any area to be a challenge.) As a business man and visionary, how do you decide or prioritize what gets your focus and commitment? Captivated and convinced by your highly developed reasoning skills..... truly a gift and an even greater gift when shared with the masses. Phenomenal indeed....and precisely brilliant! "never let up, never back down, relentless in your pursuits" at the end of the day......   Posted by ~Julie~ on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 4:19 AM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	When everything in life has to be managed, what areas do you find it particularly challenging to manage? PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS HANDS DOWN. AS YOU SAY THEY REQUIRE ALOT OF ATTENTION . WHICH IN MY CASE WOULD MEAN REQUIRING AT LEAST HALF MY FOCUS. A SACRIFICE I AM UN PREPARED TO MAKE. THE WOMAN I END UP PLEDGING TOO WILL HAVE TO HAVE MADE MOST OF THE SACRIFICE INITIALLY AT THIS STAGE. I AM NOT SURE I AM DESERVING OR WORTHY TO AS THAT OF A WOMAN...YET. SO I STAY IN MY LANE AND KEEP MY FOOT ON THE GAS IN HOPE THAT JUST MAYBE I IGHT BE THAT FORTUNATE BEFORE ITS OVER WITH. NEVER THE LESS I DONT HOLD MY BREATH NOR MY NUTS ON THIS ONE (if indeed you find any area to be a challenge.) As a business man and visionary, how do you decide or prioritize what gets your focus and commitment? BUSINESS FIRST , SECOND AND THIRD...NOTHING ELSE CAN MATTER AS MUCH WITHOUT THE DEEPEST UNDERSTANDING POSSIBLE. MORE THAN LIKELY BETWEEN 2 THAT HAS THE SAME THINGS IN COMMON. MEANING THEY RUNNING THEIR OWN BUSINESS ALSO. OR THEM HAVING A LIFE PRIOR TO ENTERTAINING THE IDEA OF SUCH WITH THE LIKES OF ME i LIKE THE QUESTIONS, GOOD JOB AS USUAL BY YOU AS WELL JULIE ANN MACNAMARA   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 4:36 PM [Reply to this]

	CHARLENE	In the Psychobabble world that is called...."Singleness of Purpose", "Man on a Mission", Driven by Determined Destination", "The Tenacity of a Torpedo"," Onset Outcome Oriented" "I would rather be ashes than dust. I would rather that my spark would burn out in a brilliant blaze than be stifled by dry-rot. I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet." EVERY GOAL, EVERY DREAM, EVERY VISION EXTREME......TAKES AUDACITY! YOU PERSONIFY THAT! Before taking the steps, a wise man knows the object and end of his journey W.E.B. DU BOIS Bravo!   Posted by CHARLENE on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 5:53 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	W.E.Dubois huh?...I like that, but Ilike yours better(winks)   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 5:58 PM [Reply to this]

	dirtysweeet--ONE RACE: THE HUMAN RACE mitsi scott	Well i tried to ask a question and my puter killed it, so i guess it wasn't sps'd to happen. How bout i just drop off some kudos to you. Looking forward to seeing you in Seattle!   Posted by dirtysweeet--ONE RACE: THE HUMAN RACE on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 5:49 AM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	SEATTLE IT IS THEN BABY   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 4:37 PM [Reply to this]

	Im Like Cognac, i Taste Betta Aged (36yrs) ;)	(raising my hand)..Ok Mr Swagga, I got a question for u... mayb of topic but i wanna know anyway.. Ur a damn good Author and we all know it. we log on dailey and b all up in ur blogs...attend wagfest and listen to u on BTR..ur like the pip piper of the internet world...lol...u teach and we all learn and follow.. anyhoo!! WOULD U EVER WRITE A BOOK ON ALL THE SHYT U TALK ABOUT.. (LUV.LUST.RELATIONSHIPS.DATING.CONVERSING.PIMPIN.MAKING MONEY.SEX.BEIN A PLAYA..HOW TO GET STARTED IN UR OWN BIZZ OR BECOMMIN A GREAT AUTHOR..SIGN'S WE AS WOMEN OR MEN SHOULD LOOK FOR.. ETC...) YA KNO ALL THAT SWAGGALICIOUS SHYT U TALK ABOUT THAT HAS US ALL LOVIN U. (LIKE THE NOTORIOUS B.I.G SAID) a step by step booklet for u to get (LOVE IS LOVE) SUGA   Posted by Im Like Cognac, i Taste Betta Aged (36yrs) ;) on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 6:12 AM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	Trust me they don't listen to hear me spit jewels baby...they listen to hear me fuck up...so far so good. We been recovering from our fucks effortless these days. It's hard but its fair. One problem though, That means it WILL ONLY GET WORSE. Nothing we are looking firward too...but I be damn if we aint gon be PREPARED LOCK N LOAD GOTDAMN IT! P.S. That book concept is actually in its infinite stages as we speak babygirl...we on it.   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 4:42 PM [Reply to this]

	MakeUaDrink	I am very intrigued with that book concept! Very interested in hearing more of the "KEW" angles in those areas. Sounds to me like something that could really peel away the layers and get to the meat of things.   Posted by MakeUaDrink on Monday, November 24, 2008 - 4:07 AM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	You think?   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Monday, November 24, 2008 - 4:32 PM [Reply to this]

	CHARLENE	Mr. Wagner, You are right!..... with taking things nice and slowly and knowing what you want out of it. I feel it is important to know when something is right and when it's not. Keeping it or letting it go. Good Blog, even better video!! Question....When is that book coming out about RELATIONSHIPS? luv is luv! See you in Seattle!   Posted by CHARLENE on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 3:33 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	A woman after my own heart with mature ubnderstanding like that. The book is in the works, try late next year   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 4:44 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	What should the wife do, WAIT or WALK or make em BOTH PAY? Not really good for anyone to be overly suggestive of anothers relationship issues. You'd be surprised at how often the stories ae only half ass told. But FOR SAKE OF ANSWERING THE SCENARIO. In this extreme situation I would tell my sister to KEEPP IT MOVING. But not with malice on your soul if you can help it. RELIEVE, RELEASE, RECHARGE MAMA, never relive or regret. Life's is a lesson when you can make good on a bad bet...consider it a blessin. Maing them pay would take too much unneccersary enrgy and only end up SETTING YOU UP FOR FAILURE in the process. Note: never leave someone to get a reaction...leave because your are that tired , but that strong to do so...and not look back. As in I love you...but I am moving on...get busy living or get busy dying mane Should she maintain the unbreakable friendship they had or just let it perish because of all the lies and betrayal he did to her? If he isn't taking FULL RESPONSIBILITY for his gambling with their livelyhood. I wouldn't trust that he would relapse. INTEGRITY has to be evident ... Not guilty because you got caught, but a conscience because YOU WERE WRONG. One way to tell is , He wont attempt to rekindle that lost love. He will attempt to be sincere and genuine in how he shows them he cares from now on...without credit or reward. That's the sacrifice he made...MEN with INTEGRITY...accept their fates, even when their is NO WAY TO WIN...you do it to be fair to the ones you love and cherish Yea its a helluva scenario! Actually...scenario is very typic...we like to live in denial though, Very good questions and thanks for trusting us...Shani and myself... Wagfest it baby!(wink)   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 5:35 PM [Reply to this]

	MakeUaDrink	"Maing them pay would take too much unneccersary enrgy and only end up SETTING YOU UP FOR FAILURE in the process." You said a mouthful there. IT's like the Chinese proverb says, "When you seek revenge, dig 2 graves."   Posted by MakeUaDrink on Monday, November 24, 2008 - 4:44 AM [Reply to this]

	ply	>>>You'd be surprised at how often the stories ae only half ass told.<<< when and how did you first 'get' this and how has this phenomena effected your interactions?   Posted by ply on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 6:57 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	Oh loooong time ago. I realized when ever people call u with gossip...ITS NEVER ABOUT THEM or What they said. And nobody EVER wants you to ask any questions. Hence: "DON'T SAY YOU HEARD IT FROM ME" You just listen and believe what they say without following up on anything. It affects my interaction with the ones who MAINLY don't won't and have never taken resposnsibility probably. I prefer it though. I always get to see who I am REALLY DEALING WITH. Otherwise you would never know...Pressure will bust a pipe mane   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Sunday, November 23, 2008 - 12:03 AM [Reply to this]

	ply	clearly!   Posted by ply on Sunday, November 23, 2008 - 9:25 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	Could have really gotten long winded on that one..but Im trying to keep it simple   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Sunday, November 23, 2008 - 10:18 PM [Reply to this]

	ply	understood. i love the long winds tho, anytime........   Posted by ply on Monday, November 24, 2008 - 3:21 AM [Reply to this]

	IVANNA right (lol) U a CLIMBx ivanna howles	Hello Mr. Wagner, what's goodie. I aint gone strain ur brain today. So i'm gone keep it mild and sample for a brotha. My question is: Kerry, what do u want to take away from this publishing game. Would you chose the money and the fame or the loneliness and the shame. Would you try to maintain both and how would you do that if both you game was slipping in the homefront was slipping. Basically, how would you combat and reasccess things to regain your stability? Thanx for the opportunity to pose a question....It's been real. Wagfesting it Baby hugs ivanna.   Posted by IVANNA right (lol) U a CLIMBx on Saturday, November 22, 2008 - 6:51 PM [Reply to this]

	Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology	No u starining my brain...as usual. Try understanding your thoughts first...THEN attempt to document them for the rest of us. It ain't good to try and be too smart...especially if you may not be. Try humble and conservative. Get more milage that way. Yet for the sake of crossword puzzling , I'm gonna attempt to uncross this train wreck of a clue you have posted here. Lemme see...I will just answer the only complete sentence I see here. GAME...You too grown for playing them is why one would be slipping. It is only toi be recognized , acknowlegded and understood. Never gamble on 50/50 odds. Only play if you have what it takes to not only win...but be a WINNER Then lead...not follow   Posted by Kerry E. Wagner LIVE!!! ...does it without apology on Sunday, November 23, 2008 - 12:10 AM [Reply to this]

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