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Janelle Pierzina



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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Age: 28
Sign: Capricorn

City: New York City,
State: New York
Country: US
Signup Date: 10/13/2003
Saturday, March 25, 2006 
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't wan t you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set o f friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
(Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
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KitKat

 
I'm going to have my daughter read this (she's 19). Thanks Janey for posting it.
 
Posted by KitKat on Saturday, March 25, 2006 - 10:05 PM
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Happy Marcy

 
Thank you for posting that. Wish i would have read it 6 years ago.
 
Posted by Happy Marcy on Sunday, September 10, 2006 - 4:20 AM
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Anthony
Anthony Mark

 
This is so true.
Thank you for posting this Janelle.

Best regards
Anthony

 
Posted by Anthony on Saturday, March 25, 2006 - 11:38 PM
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Rascal

 
OK, I give up. You can have me back!  I'm all yours. 
 
Posted by Rascal on Sunday, March 26, 2006 - 12:15 AM
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none

 
Smart woman...you have your head on straight!
 
Posted by none on Sunday, March 26, 2006 - 12:35 AM
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Bridget
BRIDGET ISCRUPE

 
boy you hit the nial right on the head. i was telling a friend last night this same thing,she is having alot of problems in her marrige.........
 
Posted by Bridget on Sunday, March 26, 2006 - 1:26 AM
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asli

 

That is soo true Janelle. Good on you!!


 
Posted by asli on Sunday, March 26, 2006 - 2:45 AM
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Rascal

 

Oooops!  Forgot the Kudos!   I wanted to give you infinite kudos, but they would only let me give you two!   


 
Posted by Rascal on Sunday, March 26, 2006 - 5:38 PM
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FireandIce
Angela Wright Stevens

 

"A relationship should consist of two WHOLE individuals".

That's what I try to tell people I know that are trying to live for just that person. This was something I needed to read, especially before I got married


 
Posted by FireandIce on Wednesday, March 29, 2006 - 2:38 PM
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»-(¯'v'¯)-» PØRTÚGÚÊ§Ê PRÑÇʧ§

 
Hi Janelle


This is so true I love your Girl friends page erika do you know where she got that back ground so pretty. I hope you are good Almost time for BB7 won't be long this will be my 7th year watching Big Brother.
 
Posted by »-(¯'v'¯)-» PØRTÚGÚÊ§Ê PRÑÇʧ§ on Wednesday, April 05, 2006 - 6:57 AM
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ツ HughGiffsaphuk ®

 

hmm.. verrrrry interesting.  I agree with almost all of it and I think ALL women should read this along with guys.  But the problem is.. after women read this, how many of them will follow it.  I'd say a sorry 1% of the female population.  That's just way our world works right now, it's fucked up like that..  Just bein' real.  haha...and no i'm not bitter.  Just honest.  Have a nice day!

 

Good blog, haven't read a good one in awhile. 


 
Posted by ツ HughGiffsaphuk ® on Wednesday, April 19, 2006 - 10:55 PM
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I luv my kallyssa bug

 
wow this was powerful im in this situation now with my ex i needed to read this thanx 4 posting it by the way im a huge huge huge fan xoxo tarah
 
Posted by I luv my kallyssa bug on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 11:30 PM
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Tell me why this is soooo true that at first I smiled, but by the end it seriously made me tear up. Man...just think, if everyone really followed this, how much would our marriage rate increase???? The divorce rates right now is horrible!!! I think we should all give this a try!!!!
 
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paula
Paula Fitzhenry

 
That's great and so true.
 
Posted by paula on Wednesday, May 03, 2006 - 8:09 PM
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~ARLENE~
arlene limon

 
I really needed to read this, right now. Your KARMA drew me near...actually, I was catching up on Kaysar's page, and it led me to yours...Kismet...
 
Posted by ~ARLENE~ on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 3:33 AM
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Mary

 
Just wanted to give you kudos!
 
Posted by Mary on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 5:35 AM
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Frayda

 
so true! i wish more women would listen to this
 
Posted by Frayda on Thursday, June 22, 2006 - 6:37 AM
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MysticSoul

 

Words to live by Janelle!  Thanks for the post  

I'll probably come back and read it a few more times!!


 
Posted by MysticSoul on Thursday, June 22, 2006 - 4:38 PM
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Dede

 
Amen!!!!!
 
Posted by Dede on Thursday, June 22, 2006 - 10:43 PM
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Tamz a SANGA!
Tammara Faye

 

I love this... but every time women read this we never take heed to it. We always revert to our same weak ways... but it's definitely a good reminder.

Thanks Janelle


 
Posted by Tamz a SANGA! on Tuesday, June 27, 2006 - 4:54 PM
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Mrs. Bowser
Kim Bowser

 
Thanks for posting this, I really enjoyed reading it, amazing how it is so true!!!  Hope you don't mind that I posted it in my blog as well so that others can read it.  
 
Posted by Mrs. Bowser on Friday, June 30, 2006 - 2:33 PM
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Where were you when I was19 and pregnant!?! I had to figure this out the hard way!!
I'm so glad that you have posted something like this. It shows the young girls what to look out for, and reminds the more *cough cough* exsperienced crowd to look past the pretty blue eyes.
Thanks Janelle!!


 
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Very true....Good luck with the show I'm rooting for you.
 
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.Tina.

 
Janey, you are the best. That was so true. Thanks for posting that<3
 
Posted by .Tina. on Tuesday, July 11, 2006 - 1:30 AM
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Missy
Missy Shears

 

Janey,

Sooooooooooooooo true! All women should read this!

Missy


 
Posted by Missy on Monday, July 31, 2006 - 2:00 AM
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SHerI .aka. HoLLyWOOD

 

THANK YOU JANIE FOR THIS I AM GONNA HAVE MY DAUGHTER READ THIS, SHE IS ALMOST 18 AND REALLY NEEDS TO HEAR THIS FROM SOMEONE ELSE BESIDES ME. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK ON THE SHOW, WE ARE REALLY HAVING A BLAST WATCHING YOU AGAIN THIS YEAR.


 
Posted by SHerI .aka. HoLLyWOOD on Wednesday, August 09, 2006 - 7:51 AM
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angel baby
Kelli Evans

 
hey jani.....i have to say that you are one smart cookie! iam 31 and i have been through 3 marriages! wish i could have read this about 9 years ago!!! but what sucks about it is that there are alot of woman that will read this and will say "wow that is so me" but wont do anything about it and stay right where they are at! i know cause iam one of them myself! loved this and i will send it to all my female friends and family!
 
Posted by angel baby on Sunday, August 13, 2006 - 4:36 AM
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debbie

 
EVERY YOUNG GIRL SHOULD READ THIS. THANKS FOR POSTING IT!
 
Posted by debbie on Tuesday, August 15, 2006 - 3:24 AM
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Chelsey

 
Can I add this to my page?? I love it. You rock in BB7. You are truly an ALL STAR!
 
Posted by Chelsey on Saturday, August 19, 2006 - 12:57 AM
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A5 Reynolds a.k.a. Queen of APPS
Amy Reynolds

 

Wow Janie!  You hit this one right on.  You go girl.  You have done such a good job in summing it all up!!!  I am going to send this to my sister.  I wish I would have had this advice 10 years ago, okay maybe more.  :)  Thanks so much for posting this!    

Tonight is the night that you are sad in the house, Howie just left on the feeds.  So sorry!  You're obviously a smart girl and can handle the train wreck!  Hopefully you give them all whats rightfully theirs!  :)  Do we get a bye-bye BITCHES!  ??? 


 
Posted by A5 Reynolds a.k.a. Queen of APPS on Saturday, August 19, 2006 - 4:29 AM
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♥ Every Rose has its Thorn ♥

 

Hi Jani,

I really needed this boost right now, good reminder!  Thank you!

You are so right about all this.  Do you mind if I borrow it for my blog?  Hope not.  We need to spread the word. 

I'm a #1 fan and you're doing an awesome job like always!  You go, girl!

Rose


 
Posted by ♥ Every Rose has its Thorn ♥ on Tuesday, August 22, 2006 - 4:52 AM
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MARK

 

JANEY HAS MEN FIGURED OUT!  WATCH HER PLAY THEM OUT ON THE SHOW. DR. WILL? C'MON, SHE NEVER LIKE FOOL...


 
Posted by MARK on Saturday, August 26, 2006 - 7:27 PM
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*.: pRiNcEsS :.*

 
U save WOMEN everywhere! lol
 
Posted by *.: pRiNcEsS :.* on Sunday, August 27, 2006 - 10:26 PM
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Top

 
So much of this is very true. I am happy to have met and love a woman that never needed advice on love or relationships. Hopefully many women read this and learn from your words, grow and develop.
 
Posted by Top on Friday, September 01, 2006 - 5:54 AM
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Christy
Christy Thompson

 
Hey Janelle....Just wanted to say how glad I was to read this...I just went through a bad breakup and I didn't expect to see it when I visited your page but it was really what I needed.  Thanks :)
 
Posted by Christy on Sunday, September 03, 2006 - 9:07 AM
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OK I am your friend so I hope you are see'ing what you wrote and you live up to it to. I am a man but I am your friend and You are right if a man cares about you the way he should you come first to him but you have to make him feel he comes first to you. Be good be care full please I don't like to see friends get hert. your friend Clint
 
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This is the best thing I have ever read about men/relationships.  Love you on BB all star!!! You are the best player ever! Hope you win!!
 
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I love this, infact I am going to copy it to my myspace :) Love ya Janie BB Champ!
 
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*C*

 
I can only say...you rock! A strong girl for all of us out here!!
 
Posted by *C* on Wednesday, September 06, 2006 - 5:52 AM
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lolly

 
Wow, Thank You! Very Much

Every girl/woman needs to be reminded of these things now n then.



 
Posted by lolly on Wednesday, September 06, 2006 - 5:16 PM
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lolly

 
Thank you very much!!!!

Every girl/woman needs to be reminded of this now n then.

 
Posted by lolly on Wednesday, September 06, 2006 - 5:20 PM
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Marci

 
Your blog was just moving to me because it's just good to know that someone else >>> someone like famous janey has been there . Thanks for your words of wisdom .
 
Posted by Marci on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 4:01 AM
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My Life My world

 
i have the same blog on my page its so true i think every female should post it
 
Posted by My Life My world on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 5:07 AM
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***Maria***

 
Everything on here is soooo true! Thanx for putting this on ur page. I think Im gunna have to come on your page everyday and read this, to remind me that Ive made all the right decisions lately. This really made my day :)
 
Posted by ***Maria*** on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 3:21 AM
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DUKESMOM

 
I HANDED IT OUT TO ALL OF MY FRIENDS!!!! THANKS JANEY. I WILL MISS SEEING YOU EVERYDAY GOOD LUCK IN WHATEVER YOU DO NEXT. I WILL BE CHEERING FOR YOU
 
Posted by DUKESMOM on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 7:25 AM
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♥Parker♥

 
Wow... thats sooo true! Thats an amazing blog! Thanks for posting that. 
 
Posted by ♥Parker♥ on Friday, September 15, 2006 - 4:16 PM
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**Jessica
Jessica sa

 

Wow, that is sooo true. i dont where you found this or maybe u even wrote it but whoever did is an absolute genius!!!...thanks for posting it!!


 
Posted by **Jessica on Friday, September 15, 2006 - 9:47 PM
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Ema

 

that is sooooooooo true....

I wish all women can read this...I wish I had read it every time I got into  a relationship.....

Nice poem...good lookin out .....Janey !!!


 
Posted by Ema on Saturday, September 16, 2006 - 9:08 PM
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AIMEE
Aimee Davies barnett

 

dear janelle,

 

oh my gosh! are u like sychioch {hopefuly i spelled that right, but i dont think so lol} , i am going thru a separation from my hubby of this month on the last day would have been or 5th anniversary :*(  it was the hardest and still thing for me to do, but he has soo much growing up to do : /  wow! u opened my eyes with this, i have to send this to my girl friends :) thanks janelle!


 
Posted by AIMEE on Sunday, September 17, 2006 - 5:11 AM
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~STACY CULOTTA~
stacy culotta

 
i knew form the moment you outed will that you are a woman whom knows what you want and how to get it! you have the best of both worlds, smarts and beauty good luck to you girl! stacy culotta lafayette,la.
 
Posted by ~STACY CULOTTA~ on Sunday, September 17, 2006 - 7:59 PM
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