your so right..and i know this can be so hard..i really understand what your saying..but its good for both of you..it will help you to both realize that God is your true source of strength and not just eachother..i will be praying for you my friend! ..thanks for being so transparent and sharing..you are very brave..I for one am encouraged by you and appreciate you! ..God bless you my sister. =)
 

HELLO!
Be encouraged! I have been married three times. I have a gift of discernment. Both husbands were into pornography I warned my first husband to get out of it! He didn't listen! He died in it! The second husband took the correction. So we remarried! I through the Holy Spirit counceled him out of it and for a couple years that was our job. God provided and we didn't work during that time so we could work on this problem. God showed me how to trust again and that their is power in prayer! He kept himself pure (his mind, his heart, and his eyes) through our divorce when he was single! Today my husband is delivered of his lying, fear problem and porn addiction and is helping other men out of porn! He couldn't do it without my faith in him that God would see him through! God got his attention through my fervant prayers! But it is crucial to BELIEVE in them that they could do it! Without faith it is immpossible to please God! They are scared and they hate it in their lives just as much as you do! In order for men to be "FULLY" healed of their insecurities and rejection that brought them their in the first place. Don't get me wrong I kept him fully accountable and did not let him get away with anything! He hated it at first but then afterwards he realized and was so thankful that I was keeping him safe by using my descernment to keep him accountable! My husband really loves the Lord and wants to please God with all his heart! And that is the difference betwwen the two men! We cannot pray for our husbands enough! Our prayers have POWER and pull them through whatever it is they're going through! We will keep you in our prayers!!!