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Friday, March 16, 2007 

Current mood:  annoyed
Category: MySpace
Is it just a fluke or do people have way too much time on their hands requesting to be a "friend" but only offering just more of the same dating PR0N and "work-at-home" spam?

I do have a day job and I don't "need any". But still I get plenty of "friends" who aren't looking for friendship or any form of solidarity against Buchmanism and its groupies. All they want is yet another link. Too bad. Y' ain't gettin' any here. More than likely, such fools will just wind up having their profile screened, blocked and denied.

But hey! Just like any addiction, they could stop wasting their time and just KNOCK IT OFF! Unfortunately, on MySpace, most people won't issue a block and deny. In an effort to prove how "popular" they are most will just allow such "friends" to accumulate as just more notches.

Folks, there's quality and there's quantity and you just can't have both. You can have a quantity of "friends" but who are nothing more than very seedy individuals who are just looking for MySpace hits. Or, you can perform some actual screening by examining the supplicants' profiles and go from there.

It takes time and will result in a very short MySpace friend list but you know they're quality intelligent friends. It also avoids the big problem of "guilt by association": You are who you hang around with or, in this case, consider friends.

And yes, it is worth the time and effort. I've seen far too many "pimped" and poorly-formatted MySpace profiles that only offer a whole lot of flash but nothing really substantial in thought-provoking material (mainly the usual spam). And if I like your profile I may just throw a friend request your way.
Kim Beavers
Kim Beavers

 
Very good points. I also try to screen any friend add requests because so many of 'em contain spyware bugs, too. I'm especially wary of those who are Christian Republicans & have absolutely nothing in common with anything on my profile. I'm all for diversity, but I'm not interested in networking with someone who just wants to spam me about how I can make money from home.

Peace,
Kim
 
Posted by Kim Beavers on Friday, March 16, 2007 - 10:36 PM
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Dr Bomb

 
I can go even further than that. I have accounts on IronPort's SpamCop.net and McAfee's siteadvisor.com where I can perform other reporting and analysis. Also, for added security, I've also disabled the HTML-posting feature in my 'Space to minimize any attempts at anyone sneaking some malicious code and/or links into this little cyber nook (besides, I prefer a simple and clean layout).

Again, it takes a little extra work but it is all worth it. It's not "work" in the way of drudgery but can be quite fun. I'm not too worried about any hostile opposition, though. It would all wind up as being more grist for the mill (being that I'm both a free speech advocate and an anti-spam activist, as well). ;->

Thanks for your comment, Kim! :-)
 
Posted by Dr Bomb on Friday, March 16, 2007 - 11:43 PM
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