So yesterday at church I sat in amazment to the words that I heard.
WORDS ARE POWERFUL!
now I know what you are thinking , I am just another girl preaching the word and most people who do not care about the Lord or just do not beleive that there is more than just us here well I am sorry to say that these are good words to hear. Because of the fact I have spent most of my life in wondering and "what ifs" but that is just not the way to live. The words that you speak can totally brutalate someones feelings or cause so much trouble. Your words also show love and compasion. Or maybe your words are nothing and you can have a comfortable silence about you. Your expression in your body and your tone makes a big difference also.
When someone comes at you with a problem do you halp them? well most people , Yes but some people have a way of b ack stabbing, kinda like high school. But life is just that way. even a 99 year old man can truley have his feelings hurt.
Now for my confession. I have been one of those people who didnt care sometimes about the way people felt but the older that i got and tried to change , the people that i hurt in the past didnt give me that change to prove that people do change. I never really had the kind of friends that would listen and helpp me make the best decisions. so now I am still saying that I am only human but i am still learning. I have wrote many blogs that have hurt people but I can only speak my mind but i will find better ways of ding that. I do feel like words are powerful and i want to have that chance to make things right with anyone that i have hurt.
I care about so many people that dont really know that i do but i feel that there is no reason in me trying so hard when they dont either but that is not how you do it . instead of being mad at someone just say they are just different and i dont really care to be around them instead of saying all the horrible things that i have once said. try complimenting someone instead of put them down. you are your own person no matter who you hang around or who you are with. God listens to me and i am thankful for having him here to lean on.
The reason i am wring this is because i dont beleive that you should lie. I dont lie about anything i have nothing to hide and because when yoiu can hear a song or watch a movie and feel a higher power then YOU know He is here. He beleives in you and all that you do. to make someone smile or laugh is the ultimate success. You should believe in your family no matter where they live or how they live. You can be mad at them but you always stick it out. I will never turn my back on my family. All that I want to do is be happy and make the people around me happy. put arms and heart around someone and maybe someone that you would never see doing that to and just see what happens. I think that you will be pleased.
And for the people that dont know what my job title is, I am a c.n.a. at a nursing home and yea that means i work with the elderly. I would never change that and to help people that are ranging from their 50s to over 100 is an experience. but there are some downfalls. You never no when the good Lord will call them home and for those who have never seen someone pass away its one of the hardest things. when you work in am invirment like mine , you become emotionally involved with them. so its very hard. I am still learning and i hope that everyone that reads this will understand that life aint easy but you can make a difference about the way you treat people and you never know , Your words can be all that it takes for someone to feel on top of the world.
SO REMEMBER YOUR WORDS ARE POWERFUL!