My theory plastic surgery is a bunch of crap. If you can't love what God gave you then you are not happy inside. Sure a bunch of people do the lipo thing to lose weight. Hey I can prove that you don't need surgery to lose weight EVEN when the doctor says you'll never lose it. HA proved them wrong. The boob jobs is really really superficial to me. Some women truly think the bigger the boobs the more respect I'll get. From who? Men ogle your breast and don't care what is going on in your head. ARGH this is a bad bad topic for me.

To me the only pro to plastic surgery is for burn victims or victims who have been scarred badly. These people need it not because oh I want to look better because God didn't bless me with this but I was in a horrific accident and people stare.

I guess the saying is each to their own but I still think those who do plastic surgery to make themselves look better need to check out what's wrong on the inside not the outside.

I GET WHAT YOU ARE SAYING AND IF YA REMEMBER THE CONVERSATION I HAD WITH ONE PERSON INPARTICULAR.

BUT I THINK WOMAN SHOULD DO WHAT THEY WANT NOT WHAT A MAN WANTS I HAVE DESIRES TO CHANGE MY APPEARANCE FOR ME,  VANCE LOVES ME AND HAS NEVER ASKED ME TO BE ANY DIFFERNT THAN WHAT I AM, WHEN I WAS PREGNATE WITH NOVA AT 180 LBS. HE NEVER FLINCHED. HE JUST WANTS ME TO BE HAPPY AND EVERYONE HAS THEIR "THING".   IT BOTHERS ME TO SEE SOMEONE STRUGLING TO DO SOMETHING FOR SOMEONE ELSE. THE POINT I WAS TRYING TO MAKE IS, IF  YOU TRULY DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT FOR YOU, YOU SHOULD NOT MAKE EXCUSES, BE PROUD OF YOUR CHOICE. I DO NOT CHOOSE TO HAVE A BOOB JOB, I CHOOSE TO HAVE A TATOO BUT I AM NOT GOING TO GO AROUND SAYING, OH I GOT THIS TO COVER A SCARE I LOVE MY TATOO AN IT IS PART OF ME.  I DYE MY HAIR TO COVER THE GRAY, I WEAR A PUSH UP BRA WHEN I WANT TO LOOK BUSTY BUT I DO IT FOR ME AND ME ALONE!@#$%^

RE. EMAIL; HECK NO YOU DID NOT OFFEND ME. YOU KNOW ME I AM ALL ABOUT DEBATING      

I am one of those old friends that got her boobs done and I could not be happier...anyone who knew me before and knows me now knows that I am the exact same person- with or without them- just a little more confident...I did them for me and me alone and it was not done to impress anyone and it was not done to make me more respected. It was done to make me more confident about myself! I say KUDDOS to anyone that does what makes them happy and more confident! If I could afford to have the fat lipo'd off my gut and thighs I would not hesitate for a minute because I know that inside I 'm still the same Traci- just looking a little better on the outside!!!