
I watched again my favorite movie Braveheart yesterday and totally cried all the way through the lovey dovey bits.
Why?
Coz every girl dreams of love.
I listen to my little girl speak of love and marriage and babies and she is only 6 and has talked of things like this since she was 4-5. I bring all my kids up equally, ie no role-modeling. The girls are welcome to play with the trucks as much as the dolls and vice versa.
Where does this come from?
I believe there is a blue print in humanity put there by God. He designed us a certain way and if we aren’t used in the way we are designed there will always be discomfort and ill ease.
My eyes were opened today to some things that were always there but had been hidden.
Like in the movie Merryn gave a flower to William Wallace at his father’s funeral. I too gave my flower to Jesus as a little girl. I loved him from a child, and like a child but the world took us apart.
Bit by bit he has returned to me or more so I have returned to Him.
The other thing is I yearn for HIM in my relationships. Our partners/friends should be vessels of Him if we are to enjoy them to their fullest potential.
Anything but this is loss!
God walked with Adam, it was perfect except for one thing. He could not touch Adam, hold him, comfort him, flesh was needed for God to relate on an earthly plane. Nor could Adam be comforted or have companionship for his flesh. In God's eyes He saw this as lack.
This is the Gold right here of my illumination today.
We carry God to each other, if God exists in our lives. The higher He sits on the throne of our lives the greater the relationship.
The three stranded cord. Jesus in the middle of the union.
Is God your first and one and only?
Then I hope for you your other has the same thing happening. This is then the perfection we crave.
If this is not your experience…pray, believing God wants this for you as much as He wants you fed, clothed etc. He created Eve for Adam, because He saw this need in his life as well as His desire to be there in Adams life on this level.
Come up higher, God is always calling to us, take our relationships higher too.
I have had the absolute joy of meeting some spiritual friends, that I can enjoy our friendship on all levels, our partners as in wife/husband is the only place the physical should take place and even then only after the other criteria have been met, if you trully want a happy long lasting relationship.
Other than that, its a loss of what could have been.
There can be miracles…if you believe.
Adam had no Eve one moment, he went to sleep and Voila ….the rest is history….
luv and hugs
always
Deb