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Matt Dwyer



Last Updated: 11/18/2009

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Status: Single
City: Echo Park
State: CALIFORNIA
Country: US
Signup Date: 4/30/2004

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Sunday, August 02, 2009 

It was an overwhelming discovery for Robert Putnam as he sat there on the third Thursday of July, in his thirty-fifth year of existence, at 8:05 in the P.M. while sipping a cheap domestic beer during a date with a woman who was only there as a favor to his cousin Paul.  It had never dawned on him before, he never imagined it possible, and he surely never thought it pertained to him, but the realization struck him like a sinner gets hit by the holy spirit, or a junky for the need of drugs. It almost seemed as his epiphany hung before him written in words burned in the air just above his date’s head, “I AM BORING”.

 ....

None of this had ever dawned on him before. He always felt well liked around the office. He couldn’t wait to meet up with his co-workers on Monday at the coffee machine and exchange lines from Saturday Night Live, or discuss various pop culture oriented gossip. He’d often giggle to himself when he’d joke how he spent the weekend with his girlfriend Jennifer Aniston. Though in reality he spent most of it sitting in his boxers, eating ice cream in front of the TV watching the stations sail across the screen as he clicked at the remote.

 ....

The realization came upon him whilst relaying what he thought was a humorous story he heard on a morning zoo show on his drive to work. He wasn’t exactly certain what series of events triggered the awakening. Perhaps it was the way his date fidgeted in her seat, played with her lettuce and looked off at a younger man whose shirt was too tight. He noticed all of this almost as if he was having an out of body experience. From afar he heard the dull emotionless drag of his voice, he saw his date’s eyes deaden, and he felt as if some sort of solid metallic ball hit is heart as he dropped his fork and mouthed, “I am boring.”

 ....

“Huh, what?” the date said not certain if she heard him say almost what she was thinking.

“I am boring. Aren’t I? I mean Christ how have you tolerated this all evening?”

 ....

His date though visibly bored and fairly shallow still had some semblance of manners even for a girl from LA. She stumbled searching for away to avoid the truth.

“I was…no. It, um..you are fine.”

“Bullshit. Bullshit. I’m boring. I am milk toast. I am a flavorless white wafer just admit it. I know it. I am the one bringing it up.”

 ....

She nervously shrugged as he continued on.  “I have never done anything, thought anything. I am not anything. Admit it. You are only here as a favor to my cousin.”

 ....

His date grew more uncomfortable. However, she felt a pressing need to be honest.

“Yeah. The whole time I have been sitting here I have been wondering how I can get that guy over there to get my number.”

 ....

Robert sighed in relief. His thoughts were confirmed. “Of course you have. Why wouldn’t you? Even if he isn’t interesting at least he can probably find your clitoris.”

 ....

With that statement she choked on her drink and spit a little back in her glass.

“Look I don’t mean to be crass, but it’s the truth. Go. Go. Give him your number. You are attractive and interesting. There is no need to talk to a guy like me. Get his number and if need be I’ll drive you home or not”

 ....

Uncomfortably she got up and walked over to the fellow as Robert took a sip of his beer. He didn’t know what to make of his newly discovered tedious demeanor. He wanted to do something outlandish. Something brash and brave to prove after all he wasn’t boring, but all he could think about was the bill and how no matter what he was tipping a solid fifteen before tax not after. This very thought plagued him. He knew he was dull, he knew this was a chance to shake out of it, throw a glass across the room, pick a fight, say something sexual to his date, but all his mind really could settle on was fifteen percent and with that he knew there was no turning back. He was dull for life.

 ....

His date returned waving a piece of paper and smiling. “I got his number too.”

 ....

“Good.” Robert said feeling just another small part of himself slip away.

“He’s gotta drop off his friend and then he’s coming to my house.”

“Good”. Robert said again as he looked at his right shoe which was a brown lifeless loafer. He sighed and thought to himself, Christ even my shoes are dull.

 ....

“Can we go?” asked his date. “I want to get a shower before he comes over.

“Sure. Sure.” Robert said as he threw some money table and actually tipping twelve percent instead of fifteen. “I will take you home.”

 ....

Robert walked three paces behind his date staring at her lovely heart shaped ass. All he could think is how he had never seen an ass like that naked before him in all his life. Nor would he. In fact, he’d only seen three naked women in his life; His first girlfriend who was chubby and deaf, a hooker in Prague who had no ass what so ever, and his third girlfriend Marna who never would allow him to see her naked. When they had sex she’d pull her panties to the left and guide his penis into her vagina. Often he’d chaff due to her panties being washed with too much liquid Tide.

 ....

They got into his immaculately clean Volvo station wagon. Robert checked to make sure her seat belt was securely on before he put the car into drive, and then he reached his hand for the stereo and turned on some insipid pop music from a band whose name will be forgotten by the end of the month and will someday end up as a vague joke over a conversation in a bar filled with people far cooler than Robert.

 ....

He drove thinking how he couldn’t wait get home to the pint of orange sherbet in his freezer as she texted the man with the tight shirted fellow. For a brief moment Robert wondered what it would be like to be such a fellow.  To have women at your feet, to perhaps have interesting tales of Rugby games, and college parties, but his mind quickly drifted to his need to make a dental appointment come morning and the fact his microwave had some dried cheese in it. He then wondered if this dullness was like a virus or a state of mind. He had become aware of it, psychologically owned it, so perhaps now he could rid himself of it.

 ....

Robert noticed he was going two miles per hour over the speed limit so he pressed the brakes and looked at his date in the light from the dash. His stomach felt ill. He felt guilty he wasted this girl’s night. He turned down her street and stopped before her apartment. She hit send on her text and looked up at him.

 ....

“Thanks.” She said more as a question than an actual statement of appreciation. Robert looked for some last saving grace with this woman. Some opportunity that could arrive. What if he said the right thing, made the right move, and then this woman could be his. He once again looked at his shoe and was reminded of whom he was.

 ....

She hoped out of the car. Robert shut off the music and then drove down the darkened quiet LA streets to his apartment in North Hollywood. He parked in his car in the carport of his stucco apartment, which was painted a color reserved for baby food or that of which it turns into when it lands in a diaper. He walked the echoed halls of his building to his aqua colored door, and opened to his Ikea furnished apartment. He flopped down on his couch, took off his clothes and looked at the folds of his belly. He was nothing. He was empty. He knew he was someday to be forgotten even though he was never even known to begin with. He thought of getting up and eating all the aspirin in his medicine chest. He thought on it. He weighed it and then realized that in the morning he had to mow his mother’s lawn so he turned on the television and let the channels sail across the screen.

Kyle Yarber
Kyle Yarber

 
Wait a second.  I have a Volvo station wagon.  Are you trying to tell me something? 
 
Posted by Kyle Yarber on Monday, August 03, 2009 - 6:51 AM
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Rommel Del Crypt

 
Hey that blog was great. It was thought provoking, and endearing. Now where is my gun?
 
Posted by Rommel Del Crypt on Monday, August 03, 2009 - 8:30 PM
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C O P A

 
I like.

 
Posted by C O P A on Monday, September 07, 2009 - 12:31 AM
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Andrea Portes

 
Aww.... thanks for commenting on my heart-shaped ass. Very sweet.

 
Posted by Andrea Portes on Monday, September 07, 2009 - 12:31 AM
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Chicago Kat

 
Hmmmmm...I sense this is NOT an autobiography, Matt!
 
Posted by Chicago Kat on Monday, September 07, 2009 - 12:31 AM
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