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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Age: 83
Sign: Aries

City: London
State: South
Country: UK
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Friday, October 31, 2008 

Current mood:  sleepy
Category: Religion and Philosophy
Using Your Own Judgement
From "We Exist! Why?" by Elizabeth Young

"Believing in someone else's beliefs does not make them your own beliefs. Beliefs become ours when we investigate the evidence put before us and then become convinced. If there is a shadow of doubt, then we cannot believe. We can be convinced by lies just as well as we can by the truth. We can also fall into error when we put our confidence in others who merely appear to know the truth. It is for us to use our own judgement.
Even those who do know can get it wrong sometimes. I once, in conversation placed value on a piece of fabric that I mistook for pure silk. The person I was speaking to corrected me, saying it was a man made fibre. I insisted it was silk. My words were accepted and I was sure I was right. I realised later that week, after working closely with the fabric and seeing its behaviour, that is was indeed a man made fibre.
I had not set out to deceive but I had succeeded in giving my belief as the truth. It was taken for granted that because I worked with fabrics I had to be right.
There are times when we lose confidence in the truth in the presence of so called experts. If we have evidence and know that we are right, it is enough, it is enough to stay true to what we know. Opinions and expertise count for nothing when we know for sure."
 
Now that the experts say/recommend that a little alcohol is good during pregnancy, today, the news reported that women are confused as to knowing what is better: to consume or not to consume? First the experts said alcohol during pregnancy is not good, and now another set of experts are saying it is good. The experts advocationg alcohol say it helps (I'm paraphrasing here, so don't sue me) the baby's intelligence levels. So will we now have a spate of mothers venturing to seek redress from the experts who advised them not to drink alcohol, thus their babies' intelligence levels were compromised? This isn't the first incident of scientists and doctors contradicting themselves and I'm sure it won't be the last. Decisions, decisions.
colin
colin baker

 
great minds think alike elizabeth lol.that caught my attention also and my first thought was what i have always believed,here we go again more experts,telling us what is good and bad for us,ive lost count on how many times the so called experts have contradicted other so called experts .call me old fashoined but i trust my mothers words more lol.the one main one being variety is the spice of life.

 
Posted by colin on Saturday, November 01, 2008 - 12:42 PM
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Elizabeth Young (We Exist! Why?)

 
Ah, Colin, but we mustn't criticise the experts. We should salute them for all they do for us, so I've been told. In this instance it is the medics who "allegedly" are contradicting their counterparts who previous advised against alcohol consumption during pregnancy.
My issue is with the experts who meddle and interfere with what essentially comes down to taste and personal choice, in areas like fashion and entertainment ... I'm not a parent but with all the advice out there I'm not surprised that people are expressing confusion.
 
Posted by Elizabeth Young (We Exist! Why?) on Saturday, November 01, 2008 - 9:24 PM
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Fatman

 
People are going to follow the advice that suits them. The ones who want to drink will drink, and give thanks, and the ones who disagree with drinking will probably rubbish the advice.
So who is saying we should salute experts?
 
Posted by Fatman on Saturday, November 01, 2008 - 9:41 PM
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Elizabeth Young (We Exist! Why?)

 
That's exactly how it works! Unless of course the person looking for advice is serious about taking the right advice. Wherever there are experts you're going to find punters who will take the advice that suits them... and that may not always be the right advice.
Who's saying we should salute the experts? Those who buy into following the experts' advice of course.
As an example in answering your question... I lose track of how often people have sought my advice (usually from a spiritual angle) and will gladly accept it, but guaranteed there comes a time when I'll inadvertently say something or write about something that challenges and makes them reassess their position. It is then that the very same people who at first are grateful will turn around and revile you. Strangely, it's usually the ones who start out the most grateful for your advice who are the quickest to do that.
 
Posted by Elizabeth Young (We Exist! Why?) on Saturday, November 01, 2008 - 9:56 PM
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