Using Your Own Judgement
From "We Exist! Why?" by Elizabeth Young
"Believing in someone else's beliefs does not make them your own beliefs. Beliefs become ours when we investigate the evidence put before us and then become convinced. If there is a shadow of doubt, then we cannot believe. We can be convinced by lies just as well as we can by the truth. We can also fall into error when we put our confidence in others who merely appear to know the truth. It is for us to use our own judgement.
Even those who do know can get it wrong sometimes. I once, in conversation placed value on a piece of fabric that I mistook for pure silk. The person I was speaking to corrected me, saying it was a man made fibre. I insisted it was silk. My words were accepted and I was sure I was right. I realised later that week, after working closely with the fabric and seeing its behaviour, that is was indeed a man made fibre.
I had not set out to deceive but I had succeeded in giving my belief as the truth. It was taken for granted that because I worked with fabrics I had to be right.
There are times when we lose confidence in the truth in the presence of so called experts. If we have evidence and know that we are right, it is enough, it is enough to stay true to what we know. Opinions and expertise count for nothing when we know for sure."
Now that the experts say/recommend that a little alcohol is good during pregnancy, today, the news reported that women are confused as to knowing what is better: to consume or not to consume? First the experts said alcohol during pregnancy is not good, and now another set of experts are saying it is good. The experts advocationg alcohol say it helps (I'm paraphrasing here, so don't sue me) the baby's intelligence levels. So will we now have a spate of mothers venturing to seek redress from the experts who advised them not to drink alcohol, thus their babies' intelligence levels were compromised? This isn't the first incident of scientists and doctors contradicting themselves and I'm sure it won't be the last. Decisions, decisions.