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Gender: Female
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Age: 83
Sign: Aries

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Country: UK
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Wednesday, November 26, 2008 

Current mood:  inspired
Category: Religion and Philosophy

The Frog and the Scorpion

 

One day, a scorpion looked around at the mountain where he lived and decided that he wanted a change. So he set out on a journey through the forests and hills. He climbed over rocks and under vines and kept going until he reached a river.
The river was wide and swift, and the scorpion stopped to reconsider the situation. He couldn't see any way across. So he ran upriver and then checked downriver, all the while thinking that he might have to turn back.

Suddenly, he saw a frog sitting in the rushes by the bank of the stream on the other side of the river. He decided to ask the frog for help getting across the stream.

"Hellooo Mr. Frog!" called the scorpion across the water, "Would you be so kind as to give me a ride on your back across the river?"

"Well now, Mr. Scorpion! How do I know that if I try to help you, you wont try to kill me?" asked the frog hesitantly.

"Because," the scorpion replied, "If I try to kill you, then I would die too, for you see I cannot swim!"

Now this seemed to make sense to the frog. But he asked. "What about when I get close to the bank? You could still try to kill me and get back to the shore!"

"This is true," agreed the scorpion, "But then I wouldn't be able to get to the other side of the river!"

"Alright then...how do I know you won't just wait till we get to the other side and THEN kill me?" said the frog.

"Ahh...," crooned the scorpion, "Because you see, once you've taken me to the other side of this river, I will be so grateful for your help, that it would hardly be fair to reward you with death, now would it?!"

So the frog agreed to take the scorpion across the river. He swam over to the bank and settled himself near the mud to pick up his passenger. The scorpion crawled onto the frog's back, his sharp claws prickling into the frog's soft hide, and the frog slid into the river. The muddy water swirled around them, but the frog stayed near the surface so the scorpion would not drown. He kicked strongly through the first half of the stream, his flippers paddling wildly against the current.

Halfway across the river, the frog suddenly felt a sharp sting in his back and, out of the corner of his eye, saw the scorpion remove his stinger from the frog's back. A deadening numbness began to creep into his limbs.

"You fool!" croaked the frog, "Now we shall both die! Why on earth did you do that?"

The scorpion shrugged, and did a little jig on the drowning frog's back.

"I could not help myself. It is my nature."

Then they both sank into the muddy waters of the swiftly flowing river

S.D.P - Rhymechiatrist.wordpress.com

 
I've always like this tale. It reminds me of something I was saying to my sister not necessarily about first instincts but protecting yourself when you expect someone to behave in a certain way so that person cannot hurt you. The actions that they are carrying out you should be prepared for in the best possible way you know how to given whatever the circumstances are.

 
Posted by S.D.P - Rhymechiatrist.wordpress.com on Saturday, November 29, 2008 - 2:27 PM
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Elizabeth Young (We Exist! Why?)

 
I have that "be prepared for the worst case scenario" attitude when dealing with people too. My friend Nick Finnegan introduced me to this after I posted one about a rattlesnake. I had never encountered this fable before. It is appropriate to an on-going conversation about how some men prey on vulnerable women because they can. They start out by flattering them knowing their weakness. If from the moment you recognise someone for who they are and you determine to protect yourself you would not fall prey as the frog did. The tragedy is that the men who are inclined to prey on these women are themselves damaged after a fashion. Like the scorpion, they can't help themselves.
 
Posted by Elizabeth Young (We Exist! Why?) on Saturday, November 29, 2008 - 2:44 PM
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Sun of Love
Walt Wynn

 
My first instinct is to not believe the first thing that is told to me, to recieve another's word with skepticism while giving them the benefit of a doubt at the same time because what they are saying to me may be true.

 
Posted by Sun of Love on Saturday, January 31, 2009 - 1:52 PM
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Elizabeth Young (We Exist! Why?)

 
I usually go with my "gut instincts" about people whether I know them or not. Sometimes you're not aware of the danger, but you get a negative vibe. If you're not assertive enough to turn people down, you will ignore the signals and walk head first into whatever the danger is (as the frog found out). Sometimes it's the inability to say no rather than our ability to recognise danger signals that gets us into trouble.

 
Posted by Elizabeth Young (We Exist! Why?) on Thursday, February 05, 2009 - 10:24 AM
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