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Ben



Last Updated: 11/24/2009

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Gender: Male
Status: Single
Age: 48
Sign: Scorpio

City: Tacoma
State: Washington
Country: US

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Tuesday, August 25, 2009 

Current mood:  content
Category: Travel and Places

The following map shows the route (minus the diversion to the Grand Canyon) I’ve taken and where the blogs were posted.

This blog picks up from where the last one left off in Arizona.

Even in desolation, there is stunning beauty right off of the road.

The next picture could come as quite a jolt if I wasn’t paying attention.  This is NOT “Photoshopped!”


My brother, a trucker, had figured this out looking at the last picture.  He said this person had probably driven the pick-up somewhere to pick up the two tractor trucks.  They link them together this way sometimes.  He said he had seen this before.  For me, it’s all new! :)

During my visit with my Dad and Step Mom in Central Texas, it was time to take pictures.  The camera is on a tripod and has a function that lets me take multiple pictures after the 10 second timer has elapsed.  I told Dad not to worry about getting the right picture because out of 10 pictures, at least one of them would look good.  The following series was his answer to what I said. (Two of them were virtually identical so I didn’t post one of them.)










I figured, what the heck, I posted all of them!  That’s what he gets for “clowning!”  The funny thing is I don’t remember him being this much fun while I was growing up!  LOL

Of course, our conversation included everything from his Air Force stories, to my Army stories, to our current political difficulties.  Dad is a strong conservative and I keep trying to get him to blog more.  I think he prefers spending LESS time on MySpace.  In fact, the only reason why he got an account is to send me emails because I spend more time here than anywhere else!  LOL

Then it was time to move on to Colorado where I grew up.

This is my Step-Dad in his shop in the garage.

This is Mom on the patio in the backyard.  She’s convinced she takes lousy pictures!  LOL

While visiting Mom, it seamed like a good time to clean out the jeep.  I had a funny feeling someone, or something was watching me.

What??  Can’t see her?

Kittah, you’d make a lousy insurgent!  LOL

Mom calls her a “Russian Blue.”  She has the same nasty disposition of a Siamese.  If the petting isn’t up to standard, she will let you know in a way where there is NO misunderstanding!  Your education normally includes a of pint of blood!  I briefly considered starting a local “choke the kitah” day!  LOL

Then, another aggressive visitor showed up.  I know, I know, time for the squirrel jokes!  This one has made his home in mom’s back yard and really looks like he wants me off of his patio!  Luckily for him, kitah stays mostly INDOORS!

Well, at least he appears to approve of the fountain.  It’s a good thing too.  I certainly wouldn’t want to end up on the internet getting my arse kicked by a squirrel, in addition to a Russian Blue.

Then my brother showed up.  He’s a trucker and wasn’t sure he would be able to make it.  As good fortune would have it, he was able to make a delivery to a neighboring city.  With the economy being what it is, truckers have a lot less choices as to what deliveries they can pass up in order to get another one going the same way they want to go.  This whole trip as been very fortuitous in the way it has turned out.

From left to right, this is me, my brother, and his son.

My niece had other obligations earlier in the day, so we visited her at her home.  Her hair is still wet from the shower and she feels like women always feel after recently giving birth.  She really isn’t happy with photos ... in general.  Personally, I think she is beautiful!  In fact, I think she has an eerily similar smile as the Mona Lisa!  Will people see this image a hundred years from now and wonder what she is thinking?  :)  If the thoughts are similar, I can tell you exactly what the Mona Lisa was thinking!  “Why is this guy painting my picture???”  I guess they were a lot slower back then.

She is holding my “brand new” great nephew.  This makes two for me.

Of course, pets are always part of the family.  This one looks like she stole her tail from another kitah!

And, this one looks like she had an unfortunate encounter with a drip pan!  LOL  Actually, I really like these markings.  If she were mine, I’d probably call her “Jiffy Lube,” or something similar!

I can’t begin to count how many times I’ve seen this sight on my way to work in the morning.  Sometimes the colors are so brilliant it takes your breath away.  During the majority of the year, this peak is snow capped.  During some summers, I don’t think the snow ever COMPLETELY melts.  There are heavily shaded areas where you can usually find some patches.

This takes me back to my youth.  I can’t begin to count how many times I’ve taken a girlfriend up here ... here on the boundary between civilization and the wild places.  And, I can tell you, there were times when a mountain lion could have jumped up on the hood of my car and we might not have noticed!

In this place, I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life.  I’ve since learned that if we don’t choose and commit to our path, and work tirelessly towards this choice while we are young and strong, then life will often choose our path for us.  It’s not always bad, but rarely is it what we might have chosen for ourselves.

While this temple of aspen and pine, and glittery jewels on velvet seas will always remain a part of me, in many ways this is no longer my home.  I have been too many places and seen too many things.  I can never really return here, not really.  This doesn’t mean I would never consider retiring in or near this city.  What it means is that you can never turn back the hands of time.  In this world, you are only young once.

Rolling stones aren’t forever.  Inevitably there comes a time for moss.  There comes a time when our restless hearts give way to the need for peace and serenity.  I am content with the path I took.  I feel blessed and honored to have served my country.  I would never want to change a thing.  Yet, when we visit an old place that’s burned deeply into our mind’s eye, a secret place near the starting gate, one always wonders about what other path we might have taken, and what other life might we might have lived.

My last blog about this trip will be written at the end in Tacoma.  I’ll cover the last leg and sum things up.  I still have my other sister, niece, and great nephew to visit.  Oh, and of course, there remains the Great Dragon Rider.

Peace. :)



Ben

 
Right now I'm sitting on an off-ramp next to I-25 just south of the Wyoming boarder.  I'm in route right now to Yellow Stone.  I should get there in the morning to take some shots.  Then I'm in route to your general location.  I thinking I might want to knock out our visit before I get to my sister's house.

My brother says T-mobile doesn't work in Wyoming because of local laws that protect local cell phone companies.  They ban the big carriers from operating there.  I use T-mobile to access the internet.  I'll send an email as soon as I can to try and coordinate things a little better.  Some coffee or something at a Denny's or something sounds nice.  Let me know where and I'll find it.

See ya sometime tomorrow (hopefully).  :)


 
Posted by Ben on Tuesday, August 25, 2009 - 04:22
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Ben

 
Cool.

 
Posted by Ben on Wednesday, August 26, 2009 - 00:18
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Ben

 
I was held up in the park with all the road construction (easy 2 hours of stop and go), then had to wait an hour for Old Faithful to erupt.  However, I pushed hard after that and now I'm in Missoula MT.  That's only 190 miles from sis.  You said I would have to  back-track on I-90 for about 20 minutes.  That puts me closer to you than her.

I'm guessing I'm less than 2 hours away but have no idea where I'm going.

I'll email you.


 
Posted by Ben on Wednesday, August 26, 2009 - 00:23
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Bonnie Coutch Photography
Bonnie Coutch

 
Ben,

Brian and I read your blog together and I was laughing so hard I cried!  Loved ALL the pics.

Your last few paragraphs were absolutely raw and beautiful and real.  I cried again because I've heard similar ramblings before in my own head.  I suppose this is what we do as we begin to enter the autumn of our years and we have a significant number of years to look back on and wonder what might have been.

I love going home.  The fact that I don't live there anymore makes it that much more special of a place and although it is, in many ways, different than it was 35 years ago, there are places there that will take you back in a heartbeat.  It is the place of my childhood.  The place where I realized I was an individual.  The place where I discovered who I was and dreamed of who I would be someday.  It was a special time.

Thanks Ben.  I love you.  Kittah's RULE, dogs drool (but we love them anyway)!

  ((Hugs))

B

 
Posted by Bonnie Coutch Photography on Tuesday, August 25, 2009 - 04:49
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Ben

 
Thanks.  That means a lot coming from you.  :)


 
Posted by Ben on Wednesday, August 26, 2009 - 00:26
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Rustyroo - a conservative in exile

 
What a fantistic blog and such incredible insight!  Thanks:)
 
Posted by Rustyroo - a conservative in exile on Wednesday, August 26, 2009 - 01:32
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Ben

 
Thanks.  I don't know about the insight.  Even young people with little life's experience know this to be true.  All it takes is for one of us to sit down and put it all into words.  Maybe that's the simple definition of the word "profound:"  "Saying something everyone knows to be true but rarely stops to think about."  ... Not that I'm saying this blog is "profound" or anything!  LOL  It's just something most of us choose not to think about.  :)

 
Posted by Ben on Wednesday, August 26, 2009 - 16:30
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Bobby T

 

I have been waiting for this installment, checking every day. It was worth the wait. Your words touched my heart. You are not just my good and faithful son but a good and faithful person whom I appreciate as a son. I think we both share an ethos, mostly. Occasionally disagree on tactics (pictures 3, 4 5,and 6), but in the end all is well (pic 9). Love ya, keep on keepen on.  Dad.


 
Posted by Bobby T on Wednesday, August 26, 2009 - 17:06
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Ben

 
Thanks for commenting Dad.  Oh, BTW, I can say first hand that BOTH of your daughters and grand daughter really loved pictures 3,4,5 and 6!  I don't recall your other son and I looking at pictures at all, but I'm sure he would have too!  We are all so unaccustomed to this!  LOL


 
Posted by Ben on Thursday, August 27, 2009 - 09:04
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Sarah

 
I didn't get a chance to see your trip blogs, cuz I was on my cellphone.. so now I'm working my way backwards.. I guess I should've started with Trip 1 huh? LOL


 
Posted by Sarah on Sunday, October 04, 2009 - 13:07
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Ben

 
Hi Sarah,

I had computer problems these couple of past couple of weeks too.  I haven't finished the last one with Dragon R yet.  Then before that it was moving and everything else.  I've been running around on my other profile and just now fired up this one to finish the series.  :)


 
Posted by Ben on Monday, October 12, 2009 - 01:25
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Sarah

 
Oooops, I wasn't done making my comment, I hit send too soon!

The pictures are absolutely beautiful!  And of course the cat pictures are the best LOL   I laughed at the pictures of your father... I love when people make goofy faces, cuz then all you hear "Oh don't show THAT one to anybody!!"    Well then, ya shouldn't have made that face huh? LOL

OK, now I'm done, and now I'm gonna hit send...

Ready?

GO


 
Posted by Sarah on Sunday, October 04, 2009 - 13:10
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Ben

 
K.  I'm following you backwards.  :)

 
Posted by Ben on Monday, October 12, 2009 - 01:36
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