We’re currently working on several other blog posts right now,
but a controversial discussion fired up on Twitter last week and we
felt it important enough to share with ALL of our ALLIES. The debate
began when we posted the following question on Twitter:
“How do you feel about the fact that Tyra Banks came
out as proud to be the size she was, but has since lost a lot of
weight?”
We deliberately did not state our opinion at first in order to allow
for an unfiltered response from our members. Our “tweet”
(via @RevoltRealWomen) got the attention of people on all sides of the
debate. Some seemed insulted that we would even ask such a question,
stating that her weight was her business. Others seemed conflicted over
liking the positive messages Tyra represents but confused by her lack
of consistency. Some ALLIES even privately messaged us confessing that
they believed, as a body image activist, Tyra Banks should own some of
the responsibility for the mixed messages she’s sending her
audiences and fans.
Many of you are probably wondering why are we spending any time
discussing Tyra’s weight at all when REVOLUTION OF REAL
WOMEN™ stands for every woman regardless of her size…
Here’s why… As we said in our initial question on Twitter,
Tyra recently lost a considerable amount of weight – namely, 30
pounds and 4 dress sizes. We believe, as do many of our ALLIES, that a
woman’s weight is her own business. We would not normally publish
and focus on such personal figures, but this is not simply about
Tyra’s weight loss, it is about the inconsistencies in her
message. We hope to offer a broader perspective in order to give our
ALLIES a birdseye view of the situation.
FIRST, watch this: Tyra Lashes Back at Tabloids –
http://www.youtube.com/wat..ch?v=6mOQh3evqsI
THEN, watch this: Tyra Banks talks about body image on Larry King Live (Sept. 22, ‘09) -
http://www.youtube.com/wat..ch?v=LxzsTSRXY9w
Throughout her career, Tyra has very deliberately thrown herself into
the role of advocate and role model within the areas of healthy
self-esteem and body image. She is also on the record saying that the
weight she maintained during her modeling career was not her
body’s healthy, normal weight, hence her weight gain after her
“retirement” from modeling. Why then has she both returned
to her model weight AND said the following in a recent interview with
Larry King:
"When I told the world to kiss my fat ass, I remained that
size for two years. I maintained it with my ice cream and my salad with
ranch dressing and croutons and bacon bits."
This statement alone is enough to throw any Health At Every Size, Body
Image or Eating Disorder Awareness advocate over the edge.
As one article put it: “[Tyra] is joining the ranks of Jessica
Simpson, Jennifer Love Hewitt, and countless other female celebs who
publicly claim to love their fuller figures only to then drop a bunch
of weight.” (source: TheFrisky.com)
In 2005, Tyra “retired” from her modeling career with
Victoria’s Secret, stating that she wanted to “go out on
top”. Tyra may no longer appear in VS catalogs and shows, but she
never retired from her position of influence within the entertainment
and modeling industries. In fact, Tyra has more influence now than ever
before. Not only is she still one of the biggest players in the
entertainment industry as well as a business mogul, she has started a
phenomenon with young girls all over the world with her TV show
America’s Next Top Model.
Some of our ALLIES and members have suggested that Tyra’s not
really a body-image advocate, but when you look at her career choices,
that’s a tough position to defend…
By day, Tyra uses the platform of her own talk show to provide a strong
voice for women and their self-esteem. She has been a bold advocate,
teaching us to love and embrace who and what we are – to demand
respect. Admirably, she’s often crossed controversial lines to
help bring ‘tough-to-talk-about’ issues to the forefront.
For this, we wholeheartedly thank her. Tyra is also one of the most
successful and influential businesswomen in the country, making
Forbes’ annual list of Prime-Time TV’s Top Earning Women.
Her story is an amazing example of talent, determination and believing
that we can accomplish anything. For all of this, we truly commend Tyra.
Women and girls look up to Tyra Banks. They admire that she has
publicly declared pride in her body and natural hair. When paparazzi
gave her grief over weight gain, she came out on her daytime talk show
wearing the same swimsuit she’d had on in the infamous paparazzi
shot. Tyra put the tabloids in their place by proclaiming, “Kiss
my fat ass” and females around the world rejoiced (including me).
Then there’s the camp for teen girls that Tyra started years back called “TZONE”
focusing on these very same issues. The camp has since closed, and has
since transitioned into “The Tyra Banks TZONE Foundation”
which describes itself as follows:
“The Tyra Banks TZONE Foundation’s priority is
to support community-based nonprofits that encourage supportive female
relationships through programs that advance the development of
girls’ positive body image, self-esteem, and relationships; life
skills, goal setting, sound decision making and personal
accountability; personal health wellness; and an understanding and
appreciation for diversity.”
We’re certainly not here to say anything negative about the
efforts of this foundation because from what we can see, TZONE has done
a lot of good for girls all over the country. So… why bring it
up? Because TZONE is yet another prime example of a way in which Tyra
has deliberately inserted herself into media as a role model and an
advocate.
On America’s Next Top Model (a.k.a. “ANTM”), girls
are overtly judged by their size and weight. Here, models are
encouraged to “work with what they’ve got” NOT by
embracing their “flaws” with confidence, but by finding
ways to hide imperfections (i.e. making sure one’s thighs never
appear to touch). I will acknowledge that many of us probably do things
like that, consciously or subconsciously, finding our good angles and
pose in a way that helps us to look our “best” in pictures
(whatever that means)… WHY do we do this? Who taught us what
makes a good photo? Was it the media? Family? Friends? We learn and
absorb these “lessons” from everywhere, ANTM just
encourages this “never good enough” type of mentality among
young girls.
Some might argue that ANTM is trying to be more inclusive by including
a “plus size” girl in the cast. Unfortunately, regardless
of her talent and abilities, there is an obvious stigma so deeply
instilled in fashion industry minds that the so-called
“curvier” girl usually has FAR more hoops to jump through
just to receive approval from the judges. And remember that stampede
outside of the most recent Top Model auditions (if not, watch this:
http://www.youtube.com/wat..ch?v=ze3BMeofU9k)?
For the current season, Tyra exclusively chose shorter girls to compete
for the title (mind you, “short” to ANTM equates to
5’7” and under). From my perspective, after watching
several episodes this season, the inclusion of “short”
models has brought very little change to the show… same stuff,
different height.
Let me be clear, we are not saying that Tyra Banks must surrender her
right to maintain any specific weight –that’s her business
– but it’s the message that must remain consistent. This is
the part that the very successful Tyra Banks has not gotten right.
Perhaps, if the change had not been so drastic and in contradiction to
what she has said of her “healthy” weight in the past, she
wouldn’t owe anyone an explanation. However, when Tyra’s
weight drops as significantly as it has, as a body image activist, it
does NOT suffice to tell her young, impressionable followers she
stopped eating ice cream. She is pushing the same right vs. wrong, good
vs. bad mentality of the eating disorder sufferers she has fought so
strongly to denounce.
Bottom line? Not only are these mixed messages detrimental to Tyra
Bank’s overall legitimacy, but it inevitably DOES change the
overall message…
And it is the message that makes all the difference.