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Cody ODea


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Gender: Male
Status: Married
Age: 25
Sign: Scorpio

City: Rapid City
State: South Dakota
Country: US
Signup Date: 6/3/2007
Thursday, December 13, 2007 

Current mood:  ecstatic
Category: Life

Merry Christmas all!  This is Melinda, little miss baby O'Dea's grandma and I have some WONDERFUL news to post!

Here's an article about a young man who had his child 'attempted' to be adopted out by the mormon birth mother without his consent to a momon family.  He and his family battled in court and WON!

Not surprising, this fiasco was attempted with the blessing and help of the LDS Family Services. All I can say is HOW ARROGANT of LDS Family Services to take this baby and hand it to people in Utah thinking they could get away with this yet one more time. Do they really feel they're untouchable? If so they're sadly mistaken!

This  'wanna-be' adopted couple even had a story written about them in I believe a sad attempt to stir up sympathy for their plight. Sorry, no sympathy here, not when you try and use the law to deprive a birth father and grandparents of their own flesh and blood.

Click here to go to that story.

Here's where you'll find the story in the Coeur d'Alene Press that I'm going to post below,  'Adopted child returned to biological dad'. There's an online comment section underneath the story you can read and post if you like without having to sign up.

Sadly there's comments by someone all to familar to us (one who follow us around the net trying to smear our family) that are full of lies and twist.  These two postings were done December 12th at 7:49 pm and December 12th at 10:00 pm. (I post under tencity on the CdA story comments)

I intend to keep my eyes on the blessing of this child being brought back to his daddy and grandparents for Christmas and not let anything or anyone interfere with or attempt to put a damper on the joy! How happy this young man and his family must be to have their little man HOME where he belongs! Oh my gosh, WE'RE HAPPY FOR THEM!! We're sooooooooooooooooo happy that justice was done in this case and this little man is coming home. WHAT A CHRISTMAS PRESENT, thank you Lord!!

Adopted child returned to biological dad

By MARC STEWART
Staff writer

Magistrate rules father never gave up parental rights to newborn son

COEUR d'ALENE -- A Utah couple is in the midst of an adoption horror story after being told they must return the baby to its biological father in Coeur d'Alene because he never waived his parental rights.

Magistrate Barry Watson ruled that Matt Tenneson, 20, be given temporary primary custody of his 5 and 1/2-month old son and ordered Jed and Cally Nielson of American Fork, Utah, to relinquish custody as soon as possible.

"It seems Matthew is amenable to learning to be a father," Watson said. "My heart goes out to the Nielsons. Hopefully, (the custody transfer) is done in the least traumatic way."

Tuesday's ruling was another legal victory for Tenneson. His attorney, Anne Solomon, argued that the adoption happened without his consent. The adoption agency, LDS Family Services, is appealing an earlier ruling that nullified the adoption.

"Matt never signed a consent to terminate his parental rights," Solomon said.

The birth mother, Cammie Knight, said she was shocked by Watson's decision.

"I still haven't come to grips with the fact my baby is coming home and we have the responsibility of taking him on," the 19-year-old Knight said. "We couldn't have done it then, and we still can't. We're going to be depending on two homes and having our parents support us financially."

Baby Knight was born last June and given to the Utah couple shortly thereafter, court records show.

Matt Tenneson's mother said her son won't be granting interviews for the foreseeable future.

"It's an ongoing case and we don't want to jeopardize that," Karen Tenneson said.

Court records indicate that Matt Tenneson stopped speaking with Knight around the seventh month of her pregnancy. Knight described her relationship with Tenneson as non-existent and that he failed to support her during the pregnancy.

"I always had to take the initiative and call him," Knight said. "He never did that for me."

Knight said she and Tenneson discussed the baby's future often and that Tenneson was conflicted on what to do. Court records show that on one occasion Tenneson suggested she get an abortion. When Knight refused that idea, they talked about adoption or keeping it.

"He couldn't make up his mind," Knight said. "It was emotionally wearing. My son needed a loving family. I still stick by my decision to give him up for adoption."

Cally Nielson told the Deseret Morning News that she and her husband are talking with their attorney to see how to handle the baby exchange.

"We're absolutely devastated," Nielson told the Utah paper in an emotional interview.

LDS Family Services handled the adoption for the Nielsons. The Mormon organization has filed an appeal of an earlier court ruling that gave Tenneson parental rights.

Knight said she picked LDS Family Services because her family is Mormon.

"I wanted the baby to have an actual home. I wanted him to have a good life," Cammie Knight said in court.

Knight said she believes Tenneson's parents are behind the custody battle,

"I think a big part of this is Matt's mother," Knight said. "She wants to be a grandmother."

Watson cautioned the grandparents about becoming the primary custodians of the child.

"I want the grandparents to support this baby, but they need to take a back seat to the parents," Watson said.

*AugustFyre*

 
This person knight doesn't have to play a roll in this baby's life if she chooses not to! but, to deny the father that right is wrong. The law weighs to much on the females part. If a female doesn't want to keep the baby the father has NO say she can have an abortion because it is her body, But, if she chooses to keep the baby and the father doesn't.. he has NO say..he has to financially supportive! I am against adoption... I am a Birth mother married to an Adoptee. Give the father his child and allow him to raise the baby the best that he can!!!!
 
Posted by *AugustFyre* on Friday, December 14, 2007 - 6:23 AM
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Goog

 
It's amazing to em that the birth mother says she's having a hard time dealing with the thought of the baby coming home and the "responsibility of taking him on" - she doesn't want him, let Daddy raise him! Who cares if his parent shave to help him? He wants to be a daddy, she should never have denied him that. I LOVE this story! Good for Dad!
 
Posted by Goog on Friday, December 14, 2007 - 7:41 PM
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♥Giselle's mommy♥
Marie Martin

 
This is an amazing story!!=-) I am so happy that the Father got custody of his baby! I know he will be an excellent father!! Those LDS Family people are horrible and EVIL!!! If that mother doesn't want her baby, than let the father raise his son! YOU GO DADDY!
 
Posted by ♥Giselle's mommy♥ on Thursday, December 20, 2007 - 11:05 PM
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♫Abby♫
Abby Bennett

 
Well, there is at least ONE christmas miracle people have been wishing for ;)...now its time for your family's.
 
Posted by ♫Abby♫ on Sunday, December 23, 2007 - 7:14 PM
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SK8 - Fiend, 8 - Wheelz Down!!
Shawn Dillard

 
PLEASE HELP!!! A STABLE NEW FATHER WANTS HIS SON!!!

My name is Shawn Dillard.

I have a situation & I'm in need of some Legel Advice & any other Advice I can get.

It's not in my intentions to put all of My Personal Business out there, but at this time, I have no choice.


I was in a Relationship about 2 years ago. 8 Months into the Relationship, I didn't even know the girl was still Married. We was Living together, while those two were still messin' around & I left when I found that out. Moved over to my Sister's House. Also found out she was Pregnant & that it could be his or mines. I had been wanting to take a DNA Test for the longest with her, while she was Pregnant, but she kept on refusing. Eventually, I had lost all of her contact information, cause they moved & she changed her Phone number. After the Baby was Born on October, she waited until December 2007 to all of a sudden show up to my Sister's House with a DNA Test Home Kit. She had me to swabb my mouth on a q-tip. She didn't have the baby with her. She told me that her Husband has taken one, too. After that, I never saw the Results & I didn't hear from her again till September 2008. She confessed to me she never sent the 1st ones Tests off, his or mines cause she was scared the child was gonna be mines. I think she did all of this because His Family Adores her & my Family does not like her for all she's done to me, so she wanted to sugar coat it. All she gave her Husband was her word that the child is his. He nver saw any results, either. Then, when she meet up wih me in September, she wanted to take another one with me. Her & her Husband are seperated. She has been in an abusive relationship with her husband, he has beaten her a lot, she confessed to me, that's why she wanted go ahead and get a Test done. She has already has another Son & is currently going through DFCS Case Issues from Reports of Child Abuse from an assumption from a Hospital ER Report. Anyways, we took the test again, but I knew I should've sent it off, this time, cause I didn't hear from her, once again. I finally heard from her through E - Mail. She gave me the Link & Password for the Results. I am the Biological Father.
If you want to see it:


http://www. sorensongenomics. com/gtselfservice/results. pdf?file=/ pub/private/17/T171984/T171984-A.
pdf

....If you still can't see the Link, go to www. dnatesting. com, go to the log in, which is on the top right corner, type in my E - Mail, (s.dillard11@yahoo.com), type in the password she made for me, (wo-tang36), & click on the results on the Adobe Format.


Then, she sent her Husband's Page, which had all of my Son's Pics on it.


www. myspace. com/youngred23


Now, the Question that I want to ask is how do I go about being able to see My Son.
What's my Next Move? Can you give Me some Advice???

Her & her abusive husband has gotten back together. So, now she's making threats to be that even though the Child is Biologically mines, I still will never get to see him or be with him, cause Legally My Son still has her Husband's last name.


What can I do about that?
He looks just like me!!
I want to see my Son!!

Can I put HER on Child Support?

She used to be a Stripper. I don't know if she still does it, or not & I also know that issue has nothing to do with this, but if it helps, I still have Pictures she left in my papers that her best friend of her Swinging around a Pole, Butt Naked while she had my Son in her Stomach she was showing.


I know that these Situations can be very Critical & Detailing as to what's gonna be the outcome & who's gonna have custody, or not. I also know it's very Hard for the Fathers that WANT to be in their Child's Life, but can't Females can have more Power in that situation, even if they're wrong.

That's why I giving you all the facts, so that I can know exactly what I need to do to be apart of my Son's Life.


If it this also Helps, I am a Very Stable Man!! I am a Machine Technition Supervisor @ Coca - Cola Enterprises Bottling Company in College Park, Ga. I Live in College Park, Ga. Have my own 3 Bedroom House, that I pay Mortgage for. Live by myself. 2 Cars & a Motorcycle. I DO NOT do any Drugs or Drink Alcohol. I don't Smoke. I did not get to finish Georgia State University, but I am planning on going back. Single & never been Married. I am a Professional Breakdancer & Roller Skater during my Spare time. I am 27 years old.
I want My Son apart of My Life!!

I've been meaning to post this, last week, but never got around to it.

&, this is just a recent update.

Since last week, I've hired a Private Investigator to find out exactly she is in Texas. &, I want to forward what she just sent me, 2day. I never knew women could be this evil.


Here it is:

"STAY THE FUCK OUT MY LIFE AND AWAY FROM THOSE I CARE ABOUT, NO ONE LIKES YOU, NO ONE CAN STAND YOU AND THE ONLY REASON Y THOSE U SKATE WITH BE AROUND U IS BECAUSE U CAN SKATE, DON'T TAKE YOUR PROBLEMS OUT ON TRYIN TO GET SOMETHING THAT ISN'T LEGALLY YOURS. YOU HIT THAT MAN ON PURPOSE AND YOU KNOW IT WAS YOUR FAULT. I HATE YOU. YOU'RE A LAME. I WISH YOU WOULD JUST DIE. IF I HAD ENOUGH MONEY I'D HIRE SOMEONE TIO KILL YOU. I DON'T KNOW HOW YOU GOT MY NUMBER & I DON'T CARE HOW MANY LAWYERS CALL ME, I'M STILL NOT ANSWERIN THE PHONE. I DON'T CARE IF ANTWAUN IS BIOLOGICALLY YOURS, NEITHER DOES DESMOND. I KNEW THIS ALL ALONG BUT I ALWAYS GET WHAT I WANT AND YOU CAN'T STOP ME. I'VE PLAYED UR DUMB ASS EVER SINCE I MET YOU. EVEN THOUGH YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT I JUST THOUGHT I'D LET YOU KNOW THE THUTH AND THATS IT. TAKE ME TO COURT. I'M A FEMALE ALL I HAVE TO DO IS TELL THEM YOU USE TO HIT ME. TRY ALL YOU WANT YOUR LAWYER SHOULD HAVE TOLD YOU THAT SINCE ANTWAUN WAS BORN WHILE I WAS MARRIED U HAVE NO RIGHTS TO HIM AND BY LAW HE IS DESMONDS IF HE DIDN'T TELL U THAT U NEED A NEW LAWYER.
"

Thanx4Listenin'!!

Shawn Dillard
www. myspace. com/sk8fiend81
 
Posted by SK8 - Fiend, 8 - Wheelz Down!! on Thursday, March 05, 2009 - 6:31 PM
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