well as some of u may know i moved back to mass again.  i'm getting my ass back in school for medical assisting (yeah for me). well b4 i moved i had a little fling he was a nice guy,  and i knew as well as he did that nothing was gonna come of it(since he already has a gf)  but even if he didn't i'm all set.  so recently i went for a visit up in the north country, while i was up there i made a date well he blows me off for a couple of days nothing new with him.  so then he tells me he can't have anybody over there becuz his 19yr old stepdaughter is living with him (this is from his ex-wife) well i find out later that his gf is still there (she came up from the week b4 and was supposed to leave tues).  It doesn't bother me that his gf is there it's his gf but i don't like being lied to and that was the point of my ranting.  i think it's crappy when you get lied to especially by friends .  thanks for listening